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okay i dont have a tattoo YET

YET

WAIT TILL MY SEVENTEENTH BIRTHDAY GUYS

plus the outfit options sucked omg my style is much better than that

added my dog there because hes still alive in my mind trust

Gawsh I look so plain compared to everyone else 😔💔

Anywayzz my lovely lovely moots 😋💥💥

here's all of my awesome mooties!! i luv y'all ✌️🥹

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holy shit i had no idea that i had this many mutuals??? wha??????

Here I am!!!

Okay uhhh tagging time!

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Moon and Earth but what if they're soulmates?

I did it…. I FINALLY DID IT!!

Answer Team 341-B in the Bluey universe!

I wanted to draw them as Bluey characters for a loooong time but had trouble figuring out what dog breeds they should be Dx

I did a lot of thinking and finally came up with the right breeds based off their personalities

Beep Brittany Spaniel: Smart and alert

Bing Chihuahua mix: Quick and upbeat

Bang Afghan Hound: Laid-back and peaceful

Boop Bulldog: Aloof and stubborn

Bo St Bernard: Kind-hearted and gentle

Here's why:

I have NO money to give you

I'm not a popular enough blog that I will give you any reach

I am a minor, and most of my followers are too

It makes me feel extremely guilty

Seeing pictures of injuries or hospitals etc are triggering for me (which are in most intro posts for this sort of thing)

They are always worded in a way that makes me feel like I am a murderer if I don't donate

It makes me feel uncomfortable

I said I don't want them, and my boundaries should be respected

I can't tell what is a bot and what isn't

I get a lot of spam from this. It is disappointing to see 10 new asks in my inbox just to be the same ask for donations over and over

and like i feel bad even reblogging this but

it gets very overwhelming and upsetting and it makes me feel really guilty and like i feel bad for feeling this way because these people are going through hell and i want them to get help i really do

and like i’m not a minor, and i do have money, but like i need to save some of that money for college cause i haven’t gone to college yet

and i don’t have that many followers so not that many people are going to see it anyway

idk

A wall of text

Starting with a flag (doesn’t matter what flag, you can put Italy there for all I care)

Begging for money (Begging being the important part)

Trying to guilt trip me and/or make it seem like I’m an abhorrent repulsive morally unacceptable being not worthy of being called a human/a murderer or any other form of emotional manipulation if I do not do it

Show gory pictures (haven’t had that one yet but adding it to the list)

Unprompted tell me some sort of detailed sob story

I hit report as spam and block. Most of those are tactics used to make you do something you don’t actually want to. Emotional blackmailing by making you feel bad or like you personally are a bad person or causing the bad thing if you don’t do what’s asked of you, that’s a strategy used by scammers a lot. Emotions give you a sense of connection and obligation. Whether it be “give me the very real Nigerian prince money for a plane ticket so I can come see you my love” or “give me money or my fifty kids will starve” doesn’t really matter.

Actually the second one is worse cause it implies that if you don’t do it you’re a child murderer.

TLDR: don’t interact with people that emotionally blackmail you, especially if they are asking you to do something. Signs of emotional blackmail can be:

reading the message makes you feel bad

You feel guilty

It makes you think it’s your personal responsibility

Implies you’re a horrible/bad person if you don’t

Overly detailed depictions of tragedy in whatever form (pictures, text descriptions, whatever)

People are dying / something bad is happening and only you can fix it

The other person doesn’t stop talking

You don’t feel like a no will be accepted / a no isn’t accepted

Compromises aren’t allowed, it’s their way or no way

You find yourself apologizing profoundly for minor things (disagreeing, saying no, not doing something that would harm you, not doing what they want without question)

You do NOT own any of them anything. In this specific situation, you don’t own anyone in a war zone money or anything else. You are NOT obliged to do what they ask of you.

You are NOT a horrible person or morally reprehensible or inherently bad for having boundaries and sticking to them. For saying no, for disengaging, for hesitating, for questioning.

Remember the relationship advice posts you’ve seen. “If your partner makes you feel bad about not doing what they want or doing your own thing, drop them, that’s emotional manipulation and toxic and you deserve better.” It’s the same here. Don’t let stranger guilt trip you into doing something you don’t want to.

Hey there, Bang!!

Made this for shits and giggles because why not? Bang always slays✨

based/inspired by this:

The different styles of Storybots meet!

Bing = Keys song

Beep = Vehicles collection

Bang = Various (multiplication, fractions, budgets, plants, etc)

Bo = Question Mark song