Whatās Dickās relationship with his family rn in canon?
Dickās relationship with his family at the moment is frankly depressing as hell for me to think about. The gist of it is that...everything is terrible. I really am not a fan of the current dynamic, and you are going to be sorry you asked, lmao. Get ready to hear me complain! So, I know that we are technically in Rebirth, but Nu52 relationships have bled into the current continuity; Iām just going to start at the very beginning and run through what a disaster this all is.Ā Ā
I think the beginning of the end for Dickās relationship with most of the Batfam was the end of Forever Evil. Dick faked his death and went undercover with Spyral. When he returned, people were understandably upset that theyād been tricked. The Batfam had been very sad that Dick was dead...though, despite their apparent grief over Dickās death, no one (with the exception of Alfred and Damian) really acts like they are happy to see that Dick is alive lmao. Barbara goes right to being pissed; she acts like it is a disappointment that one of her oldest childhood friends is alive and tries to ditch him. Tim lectures Dick and stands back as Jason punches Dick hard enough to knock him to the ground. Like, yes people should be upset that Dick tricked them like this, but I really couldnāt believe how harsh they were being:Ā
Grayson #12
There are a couple reasons why I find it really hard to stomach Dick getting this kind of treatment...a lot of those reasons center on how Dick āacceptedā going undercover. After Dick was captured and tortured by the Crime Syndicate...after he was unmasked in front of the whole world and attached to a bomb and killed and brought back...instead of providing any sort of support or comfort or anything after such a traumatic experience, Batman tells Dick that everything that happened was his fault, beats the crap out of him, and forces him undercover.Ā
Ā Nightwing (2011) #30
Before Dick had even woken up from his ordeal, Bruce had already told the family he was dead. He literally had no say in the matter. And the entire time Dick is asking why Bruce is doing this and begging Bruce to let him tell everyone that he is alive, until it becomes too much and he finally caves. People are yelling at Dick for his āchoiceā to leave his family in the dark, but look at how brutal that fight was--he didnāt get a choice!!!Ā
And Dick is the one to bear the entirety of the blame for Spyral, while Batman gets off scot free because āwe expect this kind of thing from him.ā And I understand that no one in the family knew about the circumstances, but that was because they never let Dick explain and went straight to hating him for some reason. When Bruce gets his memory back, he doesnāt try to take any of the blame off Dick either. He just lets his siblings keep thinking he is at fault. In fact, once Bruce gets his memory back, Dick sets aside his feelings and comforts Bruce!! And tries to make him feel better!!!! Even though Bruce has left him to the wolves!!!
Batman and Robin Eternal #26
Yet, despite the fact that Dick was seen on TV being unmasked and tortured, and everyone had to have known that that wasnāt just part of his cover, no one in his family has put aside their issues in return. No one cared to understand what heād been through and why. (In fact, I think the only person Iāve seen actually ask him what happened was Stephanie Brown in Batman and Robin Eternal #2. And that is when she is just a stranger and they are meeting for the first time. So, kudos to her, lmao.)Ā
Another thing: Jason yells at Dick that he attended his funeral...and I was like, what funeral. We didnāt get to see any funeral as readers. Hell, there were times I was reading comics, and I was wondering if people already knew that Dick was alive and well, because nobody really mourned or acted like he was dead lmao. It was pretty much business as usual for everyone. That was another reason that I felt very disconnected from everyone who was getting all self-righteous; everyone was talking about how Dick had hurt them with his deception, but we saw none of that. But hey, DC canāt have people being affected and depressed because of Dickās death for consecutive issues, but they sure as hell can have everyone pissed off at Dick for pretty much a whole comic series! Have you read Batman and Robin Eternal? Because oh boy do I have a lot to say about that!!!!Ā
Before I get too salty, let me just say: there were sections of the comic that were alright. But on the whole? Especially from issue #4 to #22, every freaking time Dick opened his mouth, somebody seemed to be there to take a shot at him.
Batman and Robin Eternal #3
Batman and Robin Eternal #4
Everyone pretty much treats Dick like garbage: devaluing his skills, questioning his plans, snapping at him. Tim actually freaking punches him!!Ā
Batman and Robin Eternal #5
For context...Timās pissed that Dick investigated behind his back and found out where heād secretly had his parents living for their safety. Unintentionally, Dick put his family in danger. But a) they were dealing with Mother, a villain known for brainwashing and a villain who Batman specifically said that āanyone could be under her control, Dick. They could be people you know. People you love...they probably will beā (Batman and Robin Eternal #1). And Tim is acting suspiciously, so uhh...duh, Dick is going to freaking investigate, b) why did Tim even have to keep his family a secret from the Batfam (the very thing he told Dick off for doing with the Spyral thing), and c) even if Tim was pissed off or in the absolute right in this argument, that still does not give him the right to punch Dick out of the blue when Dick is just trying to talk to him!! But instead of getting Tim saying sorry for flying off the handle, we get Jason joking about how great it is to punch Dick in the face when he is not even fighting back. Awesome.Ā
Batman and Robin Eternal #7
And even though Dickās concerns are valid, he just takes Timās punch, along with all the crap he gets afterwards from everyone else as well.Ā
Batman and Robin Eternal #7
Batman and Robin Eternal #6
Batman and Robin Eternal #7
Ughhhhhhhhhhh. Dick does the guilt trips?? Really? I wish, lmao. So far, he has let everyone walk all over him with zero consequences or retaliation!!! Is Mr. āHow can I bring up the fact that I died and was replaced every five secondsā talking about guilt trips? Sure. And then later, Dick is feeling discouraged (maybe because everyone is constantly shitting on him idk) and now Damian just freaking punches him, once again with no warning.Ā
Batman and Robin Eternal #22
And Jason and Tim just stand there. How dare Dick be depressedā¦? But letās not offer him encouragement, let's just knock out a couple of teeth. Just, wow. And all of this bad treatment Dick received was especially ironic, because I got the impression that one of the goals of the series was to show how important the Robin mantle is. And they treated the original Robin, the one who started all of this, like absolute garbage. It is just too much lmao. Have I mentioned how much I hate this? Because I hate this.Ā
Now with Rebirth, his relationships remain pretty much butchered, and we only see him really having positive interactions with Damian, Barbara, and Bruce for the most part. And then he was shot in the head and is now even more isolated.Ā And we all give Ric a lot of crap, but the idea that, even when Dick is shot in the head and gets amnesia, his family is still so demanding? To the extent that he feels the need to run away from them?? Thatās heartbreaking.Ā
Nightwing (2016) #50
Why, when Dick is shot in the head, is his recovery about how other people need him? Heās the one who just got shot in the head, shouldnāt it be about what he needs? And what he needs is unconditional love and support...and yet his family seems more concerned with the fact that they need Dick around to the point that Dick has to get support from strangers like that Bea girl.Ā
Barbara tries to go after Dick a couple times once he leaves the manor, but then thatās it. Thatās the best his family can do. No check-ins, nothing. Everyone just leaves Dick in this amnesiac, vulnerable state, all on his own. And now, heās left to people like the Joker and the Court of Owls and no one is there to help him!!Ā
So yeah, in conclusion, the fact that I could make a compilation of almost all of Dickās siblings punching him? The fact that Bruce has punched Dick so many times that I actually have seen compilations of it floating around? Not a great sign for family relations. Right now, as Ric, he is pretty much all alone. Considering how much Dick has cared for his family in the past and how much crap he has gone through recently, it is pretty heartbreaking to see him so solitary.Ā
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