This is a side blog, just like Iām the side dude.Ā Iām ok with that.Ā Ā
Iāve been a lot of things over the years.Ā Still a father, a good one.Ā Before that I was a husband.Ā Not a good one.Ā Strong provider, lousy spouse.Ā I took her for granted.Ā No way would she cheat one me.Ā No way would she leave me, she was lucky to have me.Ā Wrong.
She cheated, I forgave her.Ā I even changed, for a while.Ā But the trust is broken once the cheating occurs.Ā Then I found someone else and it was all good for a while.Ā That didnāt last though, I went back to my wife.Ā Which also didnāt last.
Now divorced, Iām friends with my ex and living life to the fullest.Ā Money in the bank, but that wasnāt always the case.Ā It also doesnāt buy happiness.Ā Since my divorce Iāve dated a lot.Ā A...LOT.Ā Mostly single, but some married, many with boyfriends.Ā Some older, most younger.Ā Covid has slowed that some, but Iām back on my bullshit.Ā Ā
Here I will chronicle those dating stories.Ā Very simply, dudes youāre fucking up.Ā If you treated her better she wouldnāt be texting me, sending me pics, and meeting me at Homewood Suites.Ā Ā Ā
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I have a tendency to romanticize things.Ā In particular the search for a new girl.Ā It can be very lonely being me.Ā Thatās all the time, not just during a pandemic.Ā Iāve talked to so many women over the past few months and one after another arenāt what Iām looking for.Ā Those that seemed just right didnāt work out either.
Most recently that was Torie.Ā We had great energy together.Ā The sex was good too and I was looking forward to seeing more of her.Ā But she, A has a boyfriend, and B Lupus.Ā So sheās been sick.Ā Too sick to meet and to explain where sheās going when thereās nowhere we can go except a hotel, pretty much.Ā Try explaining that to your live in sig-other.Ā Ā
Tomorrow I am meeting L.C.Ā Coffee and a walk, same first date as ever since the virus manifested.Ā The idea of having someone I can see once a week, take to ballgames and events once vaccinated and things open again is exciting.Ā Thatās my dream scenario, Iām not looking to live life together, just help me enjoy the spoils of the world Iāve built.Ā Be on my arm, look good, have fun, fuck me like a porn star.Ā In exchange get money, trips, mani/pedis, dinners, and so forth.Ā Seeming she gets it and is looking for the same.Ā We shall see.Ā
I was recently seeing a 25 years young woman with health issues. Our time together was fun and the sex was good. But those times went from days to nearly weeks apart. Finally she decided she needs to step back and focus on her health.Ā I agree with that assessment.Ā While being patient with her, wanting it to work out, sympathetic to her health concerns, I started looking for a new sugar.
The new woman I'm now talking to is 29, Korean and British ethnicity, and a middle school teacher. She was also a classmate of my oldest daughter.
When we first began chatting I saw her pics and thought she looked familiar. Viewing her social media I saw how outgoing and energetic she is. It really attracted me to her. I danced around the schooling while wondering if it was going to be an issue with her. Seems it's not the case as she blurted out that she remembers coming to our house as a teen to do school projects.
Iām torn between this is the coolest thing in the world, dating someone so young and familiar, and this is a new and weirder position than I've ever been in. Guess I'll just have to see how it goes.
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My wife was cheating...again.Ā I was blue, really blue.Ā Dare I say contemplating suicide.Ā I decided instead to let my eye wander.Ā I did so over to a coworker.Ā Her name was Alex.Ā She was Mexican, maybe 6-7 years younger, dark features, big beautiful eyes, and absolutely had no idea who I was.Ā I spent a couple weeks sending her anonymous notes and gifts.Ā Her supervisor, a friend of mine, knew it was me and kept it completely quiet, she was great about the whole thing.Ā Ā
Fast forward to several weeks after that.Ā I pursued her hard and succeeded.Ā Weāre now carrying on a torrid affair.Ā You ever had sex with someone the first time and been in sync perfectly?Ā It was crazy.Ā Passionate, raw, emotional, she made me think I had the best dick on the planet.Ā She would orgasm three times per session, swear to god.Ā I stayed hard from the sheer will to please her. I actually tapped out once and swore to myself I never would again.Ā And I didnāt.
So anyway, this is going on for a couple months and words gets out around the company.Ā Most everyone now knows and just letās it be.Ā Except for one white lady.Ā Her name was Julie and she didnāt care for Alex for whatever reason.Ā Probably because she was younger and prettier.Ā We had been kinda close teammates once upon a time, her daughter had babysat, we drank after work on occasion, so she rolls up on me with this attitude.Ā I donāt think you should be doing this.Ā It doesnāt look right, blah, blah.Ā Initially I tried to be diplomatic and not rude.Ā But she wouldnāt stop.Ā Finally I had enough and said this following sentence.Ā Ā āJulie, you need to worry about your own house.āĀ She looked at me puzzled.Ā What does that mean?Ā I repeated it and sat back down at my desk.Ā She exited my office and about 10 minutes later her daughter, who used to babysit for me, but was now one of my executive assistants calls me.Ā Ā āUm, Mr Blank, what are thinking?Ā Why did you tell my mom about me and (coworker)?āĀ I told her I didnāt exactly, I just needed her out of my business.Ā Worrying about me when her own daughter is here in house sleeping with another teammate.Ā Not many people knew about it, but I did.Ā You can bet she never bothered me about Alex again.Ā Pretty sure she left for the day in clown faced embarrassment.Ā Fuck with me, I donāt think so.Ā Ā
Her name was Vanessa. She was 28 I think. I met her the first night I was out with her friend Jessica. Jessica was a couple years older than V and beautiful. But she was not in Vanessa's class. When V came over to J to say hello I damn neared pushed J away never to be heard from again.
Vanessa had the type of beauty that makes grown men do things they swore they never would. I'm grown men.
Let me back up a little. I met Jessica on Tinder. Both swiped, I messaged but she didn't respond. Sent another message a week later something to the effect of if you don't take this chance how will ever know if I was The One. Anyway, she replied, we made a plan to meet at Dave & Busters the next Friday. She was super late arriving.Ā Not fashionably late, like super late. I was pretty tipsy on vodka Red Bulls when she did arrive. We gamed, drank, laughed, took pics. It was fun. Then she suggested we go to a club in downtown Milwaukee. We drove together in my car. The club is a Mediterranean restaurant by day called Casablanca.
That just happens to be my favorite movie of all time, but anyway.Ā They convert the upstairs into a club, DJ, strobe lights, belly dancers, and a huge bar in the center.Ā The people where beautiful.Ā The bouncers, bartenders, everyone was on point.Ā We found a place on the bar, she knew everyone and introduced me around.Ā When Vanessa came over I was honestly awestruck.Ā She had curly black her to her shoulders and the biggest hoops earrings Iāve seen this side of NYC.Ā She seemed Puerto Rican maybe, something, I couldnāt put my finger on it.Ā She was with a wannabe gangster who didnāt seem to be paying her much attention.Ā She hung with J and I for a good chunk of the night.Ā I remember telling J I thought V seemed prettyĀ āghettoā.Ā Little did I know at the time.
By the next time Jessica and I went out, she and V were no longer speaking.Ā I know that happens with women, yaāll fall out from time to time, but it seemed really sudden to me.Ā It was all good just a week ago.Ā So anyway, we (me and J) went out maybe 2-3 more times but I could sense she wasnāt feeling me.Ā In my opinion she was still hung up on her ex.Ā She had two kids by this ninja, but he was now shacked up with aĀ āfat heffaā.Ā Her words, not mine.Ā Time went by, I stopped going to Milwaukee and started dated a couple different women around my age and locally.Ā It was fine, I had lots of sex, but there was joy or spark.Ā I was following V on instagram and one night decided to shoot my shot.Ā Just dropped in a hello, remember me, you look good.Ā Always thought you were pretty cool and if youāre not seeing anyone can I call you sometime?Ā She replied, we chatted and scheduled to hit a different club the following weekend.Ā Ā
Vanessa opened my eyes to a different side of Milwaukee.Ā Clubs I didnāt know were there.Ā Black clubs, Hispanic clubs, new people.Ā It was pretty cool.Ā She also filled me in on Jās game.Ā She told me that last time I saw them both at the club and I drove over to meet she actually was on another date.Ā She wanted V to cover and run buffer between us two.Ā Damn, that knowledge really filled in the pieces because that was a weird night.Ā Thatās why they fell out.
Vanessa was fun, and as I mentioned earlier so beautiful.Ā She was from Belize, and her dad was black.Ā Long black hair, nails always 100, and golden brown complexion.Ā She really is the most beautiful woman Iāve ever known.Ā But her money was funny.Ā She had a good job, but didnāt like the 9-5 rat race.Ā One night while we were bouncing from club to club her phone got shut off.Ā She went into instant depression mode.Ā I couldnāt have her down like that so I called up and paid it on the spot.Ā She rewarded me, I guess, but felt like that should have been worth more than some kinda lame head.Ā Ā
One night she says Iām going to treat tonight, drinks are on her.Ā I said cool, bet because she was expensive.Ā (She drank Hennessy on the rock with a red bull on the side.Ā Shitās like $12-15 per drink.Ā I taught her how to sneak henny in a flask to preserve funds after the first couple dates.)Ā Sheās like Ill treat but first we gotta stop at my brotherās house.Ā Ok, I waited in the car for like 30-40 minutes she comes back finally.Ā Ok letās go to this other club first.Ā Fine, we go and sheās like at the table, to the bathroom, at the table, to the bathroom.Ā Iām thinking WTF?Ā A couple hours later she says letās go to Casa.Ā Cool, bet thatās my favorite.Ā But first we gotta go to my brotherās again.Ā Huh?Ā Ok, anything for you sexy ass.Ā Iām sitting on the street, my car running not knowing if this is really her brotherās place or what.Ā Hood was sketchy.Ā She comes back, ok letās go.Ā Turns out, she was slanging pills and blow on the side.Ā Hence all the back and forth to the bathroom and resupplying at her brotherās place.Ā I recall looking at myself in the mirror, asking if this is what my life had come to.Ā This wasnāt me.Ā My Self replied, ok but look at her.Ā JUST LOOK!
Anyway, we probably dated for three months total.Ā I was smitten, we had sex, it was ok.Ā I thought with a body like hers it would be better, but her heart wasnāt in it. The last time we went out was a trip.Ā She liked to start early during happy hour.Ā The plan was always start early when itās cheap, dance a while, get some food, then go home and fuck.Ā Rarely did it go that way.Ā That last night we started real early, but I couldnāt get her to go home.Ā She was getting drunker and drunker, chatting up every dude in the place, and getting belligerent.Ā Shit was embarrassing and I decided before I even got her home I was done with her drug dealing ass.Ā Beauty be damned, I had to have some self respect.Ā She tried for days to get me to take her back, then finally snapped on me.Ā Sent some long ass nutty text about stay out of Milwaukee, lol.Ā Glad I dodged that bullet, but damn I miss seeing her sexy eyes and smile.
True Story, many years ago my now ex wife took all my clothes and placed them in garbage bags in the garage on the side where Iād park.Ā It was effective and sent a clear message that my philandering was not going to be tolerated.
She was the one that cheated repeatedly during our marriage, but once the shoe was on the other foot she reacted swiftly.Ā Narcisses are like that.
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I didnāt always have a thing for younger women.Ā Wait, thinking back now...maybe I did.Ā Hmm.
Ok, letās start over.Ā I mostly date women younger than me.Ā Iāve dated my age and older, but they donāt like to do many of the things that I like.Ā Namely, (Pre-Covid) visit a club, dance, stay up late.Ā Perhaps an unfair generalization, but itās been my experience.Ā Ā
Another reason was I needed the confidence boost after splitting with my wife.Ā The fact that someone 25, 32, 28, 40, etc was interested in going to dinner, a club, a ballgame, and so forth with me was just what I needed to feel superficially better about my situation.Ā I used a number of dating sites to get these dates.Ā Whatsyourprice was one of them.Ā Basically you agreed to a set dollar amount for a first date.Ā Could be $60, might be $120.Ā You just reached an agreement and paid after the date. Sex was never discussed.Ā Obviously I hoped it would happen and with several it did.Ā Ā
From that first date I started a couple different ongoing relationships, including a married mother of three.Ā I would pay their expenses to meet me at my home or wherever the date would be.Ā I wouldnāt consider it being a Sugar Daddy, but in hindsight I guess it was.Ā It wasnāt a big deal to me.Ā I wanted to attend this event and having a beautiful woman on my arm was important to me.Ā I was already paying for the dinner and tickets, whatās the big deal with paying the travel too?Ā Ā
It wasnāt a big deal I said earlier, but it kind of was in that I was broke.Ā I was in the middle of the divorce, my expenses were being calculated, and I had just started a new job.Ā It was rough and I was cheap.Ā Today I still do some of this.Ā In fact I use a better site where the ladies are pretty openly lobbying for a sugar daddy.Ā I make it clear that Iām about dating.Ā I already have kids, not looking for another.Ā Iāll happily provide a monthly allowance and pay for gifts and trip provided we have a real connection.Ā Ā
Iām not looking to get married again, I just want some company when Iām feeling lonely.Ā When the ladies Iām BF2 for are busy with their primary.Ā It works for me for the most part.Ā Itās not perfect, it can still be lonely, but life is like that sometimes.