just like a spark

The s/m concept of “vanilla” sex is sex devoid of passion. They are saying that there can be no passion without unequal power. That feels very sad and lonely to me, and destructive. The linkage of passion to dominance/subordination is the prototype of the heterosexual image of male-female relationships, one which justifies pornography. Women are supposed to love being brutalized. This is also the prototypical justification of all relationships of oppression—that the subordinate one who is “different” enjoys the inferior position.

i feel like tumblr sometimes forgets that 

A Couple with Their Heads Full of Clouds, 1936

And a softness came from the starlight and filled me full to the bone.

It's not you, it's m