Safety

“When you stand in front of me and look at me, what do you know of the griefs that are in me and what do I know of yours?”

how are you?

A lot of men are emotionally and mentally abused by women under the guise of “if you love me then you’ll accept me as I am” and “you’re not man enough to handle a strong woman like me”. A lot of men put up with emotional and mental abuse from women simply because they believe it’s a measurement of their manhood how much they can endure and there are women who know that. They manipulate the emotional and mental playing fields to entice conflict so they can be the victim and cause the man to break down and be easily used and treated how she sees fit….

I was literally just talking with a dude today, a professional who came out to inspect for termites, who let me know he’s going through a divorce.  He chose to leave.  He said his wife pressured him into quitting his job, controlled the finances and tried to prevent him from taking any of the money he earned when he left, hated his family and friends and tried to cut him off from seeing them, and pulled a bunch of manipulative shit to try and stop him from leaving and keep him home, without a social life.

Women will construct a narrative of perpetual victimhood where they are the redeemable heroine, no matter what they do. They will also use this redeemable narrative to avoid working through a lot of recurring problems in their life.

astromechs don’t actually beep, artoo and bb-8 just swear all the time and have to be bleeped out. that’s why d-o can talk. he’s a good boy who has never said fuck in his LIFE

me: hi ma'am how are u today