Like I understand the point about change through violence (I still vehemently disagree that that's how anything has to be ftr, I will always be a pacifist in anything and everything), but still??? It's much worse on twitter than on tumblr because the audience here skews older but it's simply not normal that people here and on twitter, young women who want(ed) to learn about feminism and were excited to change the world, end up talking about the hypothetical murder/death of millions of people as if that's no big deal just a fact of life. And like, I know it's an hypothetical and I get why trauma from men creates those revenge fantasies as coping mechanisms I get it. But seeing young women get "blackpilled" into a sense of doom that I'm sure causes a lot more mental health issues than what they had to deal with before just absolutely breaks my heart.

I have seen young women, teenagers, accuse every man they come across of pedophilia and saying that since she thinks they're all inherently so that male victims of pedos then deserve to be laughed at. I have seen these kinds of ideas directed at gay men, at men of color. At trans people the longest. I know it's not feminism's job to concern itself with male issues such as male victims of sexual assault or to take every oppression under it's wing because it's a movement for women, but it still shouldn't be feminism and feminist women which are teaching young, traumatized teens to have so little empathy for their fellow human beings.

This doesn't help women in any way. All of these women don't want to do anything but cry all day about how everything is hopeless. I just can't imagine what that all does to your psyche I think there's a lot of retraumatizing going on (on top of the already ongoing potential hateful radicalization which gets worse each year) tbh. No type of feminism shouldn't be like this for women.