SOME PERSONAL THOUGHTS ON FETISH
The most common fetishes among gay men involve clothing: jockstraps, boots, or levis. Fetishes may also center on a part of the body: feet, nose, nipples. Others involve a material that can be incorporated into sex play: leather, nylon or latex. Or an embellishment of tattoos, a shaved pubic area or pierced nipples. Yet other fetishes include uniforms, business suits, wingtip shoes, or motorcycles.
Society sends out a message that fetishes are unusual or wrong. Bullshit! Most men have a few fetishes, but the most prevalent ones--nipples, for example -- are called turn ons. Fetishes are just an additional opportunity for sexual enjoyment.
With that being said...I love the smell of a man's dress shoes when his scent is mixed with the leather after a long day. I also think that a man in a nice pair of shoes adds an extra attraction, much like a man in a police uniform or leather. I also enjoy fur, pits, kissing and am open to exploring your fetishes.
Does this mean I care more about the object than the man...NO. I am not that shallow. I prefer men my age or older that are goal-oriented with a good heart, kind and respectful to others.