Bonnie & Kai S6 E17: A Bird In A Gilded Cage
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Bonnie & Kai S6 E17: A Bird In A Gilded Cage

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thinking about the season 6 prison world arc again and how we were absolutely robbed of a psychological bamon/bonkai love triangle. the narrative raw materials were right there on screen, and instead of the usual heavily romanticized cw triangle, we could have had an absolute psychological pressure cooker.
let's look at the sheer isolation of that 1994 snapshot. four months of just bonnie and damon. they went from historical grievances and mutual hatred to a deeply domestic routine. making pancakes every morning, arguing over crosswords, grocery shopping in empty markets, drinking bourbon on the porch. when you are someone's entire universe and the only person keeping them from existential madness, the line between intense platonic codependency and romantic undercurrents becomes practically nonexistent. it gave bonnie a sense of safety and earned warmth with a partner who was finally prioritizing her, grounding them in an incredibly tight emotional bond.
and then enters kai parker, completely shattering that safe little world.
the thing about developing a bonnie and kai dynamic here is that it wouldn't require some cheap, unearned redemption arc that erases his monstrous actions. the tension works precisely because he remains dangerous. kai spent twenty years entirely alone, treated as a defect by his family. bonnie arrives, this vibrant, resilient, morally unyielding force. for a siphoner witch who has been starved of power and connection, her ancestral magic is the ultimate intoxicating force. and because siphoning requires direct skin contact, there is a visceral, electric intimacy baked right into their physical dynamic that the writers completely left on the table. imagine a slow-burn forced cooperation where they have to map out celestial mechanics together away from damon's disruptive influence, creating a shared witch-heritage bond that damon can't touch.
the psychological chess match between all three of them would have been insane. kai is driven by deep-seated rejection and envy. seeing bonnie and damon's effortless domestic intimacy would trigger his worst insecurities. he wouldn't just try to kill damon; he would try to dismantle bonnie's trust in him. he'd use his knowledge of damon's horrific past to point out the hypocrisy of trusting a vampire who murdered bonnie's loved ones while treating kai as the sole monster. he'd be playing mind games to drive a wedge between them so bonnie is forced to rely on him instead.
meanwhile, damon's volatile, possessive love language would completely flare up. watching a literal psychopath circle bonnie, trying to charm her and constantly touching her to siphon magic, would trigger his most reckless, violent impulses. if bonnie showed even a flicker of strategic empathy toward kai to get them home, damon would see it as a betrayal. his explosive overreactions would end up pushing bonnie away, creating the exact friction kai wanted and fracturing their perfect domestic front.
and bonnie would be trapped right in the center, navigating this exquisite existential dilemma. with damon, she has safety, mutual survival, and the comfort of a shared humanity. but sheās also carrying the moral weight and trauma of their past lives in mystic falls. with kai, she's navigating a minefield, yet sheās also hyper-alive. they match wits in a way that is intellectually stimulating. she would detest his actions but find herself forming an unbidden psychological connection to the very person she needs to escape from. her conflict wouldn't be a superficial choice between two attractive guys; it would be a struggle over who she is becoming in this isolated world where normal rules don't apply.
it would have completely shifted the arc from a simple escape plot to a dark exploration of isolation morality, while finally centering bonnie's narrative agency and romantic desirability without her just being a magical tool used to fix everyone else's problems. the emotional stakes of her eventual sacrifice to send damon back would have been absolutely devastating if she was also saving him from her own fracturing emotions.
"Bonnie, please, believe me. I've changed"
"I know. So have I."
Was just thinking about how they didnāt really have Rebekah interact with Bonnie the way she did with Caroline and Elena. The envy Rebekah had for Caroline and Elena, the bitchy back and forth⦠there are people who ship Elena and Rebekah because of this tension! It was all very high school but the point is that Bonnie wasnāt really included.
Not saying she should have had a similar dynamic with Rebekah, but itās just another way they left Bonnie out as a regular teenage girl. Sure, the ire was coming from a 1000+ year old but yeah.
The fandom needs to stop treating Tyler like he was the villain in his dynamic with Klaus. Tyler was a victim of a literal generational curse, got turned into a hybrid against his will, had his free will stripped away by a sire bond, and then Klaus murdered his mother and exiled him.

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Itās really gotten to the point where I prefer Beremy over Bonenzo. Some Bonenzo fans are really just Enzo/Michael fans and harbor some sort of disdain towards Bonnie/Kat. At least Beremy could be āfixedā through fanon and had some potential tropes to play around with (best friendās brother, cheerleader/sporty/popular girl x emo boy), Bonenzo just sucks because Enzo is Walmart Damon/Klaus and people want her with the originals!
I get the genuine Bonnie fans who donāt like Bonkai. I really do. I just think that some of them donāt get where Bonkai shippers are coming from. Bonnieās friends ārebelā through their problematic romantic/sexual relationships, even to the detriment of their personal relationships and the group accepts this eventually.
Bonnie just never had that. There were obvious points in the story where she should have pulled away from her friends or had a dark arc but she wasnāt allowed to.
Kai Parker was another opportunity. He was a character that hadnāt picked her friends first. He was Bonnie centric. He actually doesnāt work without Bonnie (see Legacies). He doesnāt care for her friends. He is a loner, doesnāt care about social harmony past getting to his goals and that needed to rub off on Bonnie. He could have been used to facilitate much needed self centeredness in Bonnie.
Bonkai fans vary on whether or not they should have been endgame or not but there is an understanding of how Kai is an equal who would have given Bonnie the toxic romance her peers got. Like⦠even Matt got with Rebekah.
Also, if Bonnie was white or wasnāt written by racists, she suddenly wouldnāt have PTSD from Kai in season 6. She would have PTSD in season 1. If realism wasnāt a thing that only matters when it comes to Bonnieās romance relationship and no one elseās, the others would be plagued with flashbacks and none of their relationships would have happened.
Itās the way that Bonnie can actually fight back against Kai too thatās ignored, making it mutual, but other girls just endure violence from their love interest and the narrative doesnāt focus on it nor show consequences. Everything is just different when it comes to Bonnie.
KAT GRAHAM as BONNIE BENNETT The Vampire Diaries, Season 1
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It was hard going from watching shows like Winx Club and H2O with tight knit female friend groups to the questionable barolena friendship⦠yeah I know the show centers romantic relationships but group dynamic could have been something special if they cared. It was never going to be good with how they decided to write Bonnie though.
Oh on a similar note, they could have had Kat wear a red wig and kept some of Bonnieās book characterization. I like the brunette, blonde, red head color scheme in a trio.

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I feel like TVD didnāt give enough focus to those kids being children of council members who protected their town against vampires. They grew up oblivious before being hit with reality at 17/18. They didnāt have enough time to grapple with everything before everything went to hell. Especially Elena, whose dad part of another shadowy organization at Whitmore and was experimenting on vampires. Yeah a lot of them were orphaned early on but introspection⦠flashbacks. Something.
I get such a huge ick when I hear anyone from the cast, crew or fandom say āklaus/damon were bad but there was nothing redeemable about Kaiā
Like Iām not even advocating for Kai to be redeemed and forgiven, itās more so I am just disturbed that only Kai gets stamped with that label. And I literally cannot think of one thing Kai did that made him āworseā than the other bad guys. The Salvatores, Klaus all have killed their own family, terrorized people, hurt people to get what they want. And they never apologized for it or even really struggled with it. If anything Kai was the only one who seemed to be beaten up by guilt.
And I donāt wanna hear no crap about how āoh well Klaus and Damon are vampires, Kai did evil when he was human.ā Thatās irrelevant because NOTHING klaus and damon have done has to do with their vampirism. Stefan is probably the only one who can get away with this excuse since his ripper phase is a direct result of being a vampire.
So anyway Iāve thought real hard about why the āKai is the most irredeemableā narrative really doesnāt sit right with my spirit. And i think itās because Klaus and Damon canonically romantically pursued white women. Kai didnāt, he loved Bonnie. And we all know thatās what made him irredeemable to Plec.
So whenever I hear anyone say āat least Klaus and Damon had redeemable qualities Kai didnātā all I hear is āKlaus and Damon are allowed to be anti-heroās because they loved white women.ā
Prove me wrong. What else about Kai set him apart from other bad guys other than the woman he was shipped with?
Everything you said is is 100 percent correct nothing kai did was any worse then the rest its all about who he was shipped with if he was shipped with any of the other white woman we wouldn't be having this conversation at all i blame miss plec playing into and pushing this narrative kai worse when shes called kai a psychopathic bonnie lover as if it was a bad thing he loved bonnie š kai didn't have to be redeemed to even be with bonnie romantically even if they wasn't endgame what would that have hurt to explore that i don't get it i don't see any of the guys better or worse then kai they are equally bad boys and its hypocritical to say otherwise and just be like kai the only evil of all evil and everyone else is perfect redeemable saints
Kai would have been redeemable if he fell in love with Elena like all those TikToks that rave about their chemistry in that one scene. Somehow Bonkai is just wrong but Kailena? Itās great š
Loving the white paragons of virtue opens them up to either completely absolving them of their atrocities (they just so misunderstood and worthy of empathy, look at their circumstances!!) and/or making them worthy of redemption to earn someone like Elena. Black women just canāt be seen as that even though Bonnie is the most virtuous and kind hearted of them. So, Kai is just evil.
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Klonnie > Klena > Klaroline
and Iām not even a Klaroline anti. I simply think Klonnie would make the most sense for the story.
I think if The Originals hadnāt concerned itself with centering Hayley, the show could have been a real exploration of the familyās past and psyches. Iām sorry but what we got isnāt really substantial enough for what are supposed to be 1000 year old immortals. I think Cami could have been used better as a device to get into Klausā head. I honestly am biased because I didnāt care for her as a love interest but they could have kept the seeing the good in him part.
Also, they donāt ever behave like people that old. Obviously itās hard to grasp what that would look like but I just wanted more in many aspects. I donāt think it was as complex as it should have been. They didnāt delve into the enmeshment, emotional incest and codependency in a satisfactory way. The show should have been way more fucked up and uncomfortable due to confronting their love, hate and resentment for one another.

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I donāt ship Bamon (like at all cause ew Damon š¤¢) but itās so true that there def shouldāve been some sort of triangle in the prison world. With both Kai and Damon competing for Bonnie. Damon is a vampire who always used lust and sex as part of his feeding (yet we donāt even see him feed in the prison world). Kai is a charismatic sociopath who has been alone for two decades. Bonnie is an attractive woman in need of some action. Like the recipe was right there. š
If Bonnie was white, the show and the prison world specifically would have gone very differently. Itās the classic forced proximity trope. I know a lot of peopleās problems with Bamon is that Damon can be quite mean to her sometimes! (andā¦. itās Damon! I understand the contempt!) When she didnāt have her magic in the prison world and she was down, Damon was being shitty. Thatās the opening Kai used. I think if Bonnie was white, they would have toned it down on the jabs and considered Bamon (if the show went the same exact way⦠it wouldnāt though). Especially since Nina was leaving at the end of season six.
The prison world could have been a vehicle for Bamon, Bonkai or an ongoing rivalry between the boys. Instead of Elenaās casket holding the show back, let Damon and the narrative move forward with the obvious choice⦠Bonnie being centered imo.
Anyway BACK to the prison world, sheās a hot girl in a world with two hot men. Nothing happens? On a show known for hookups, sensual feeding and romance. They just hated her fr. Since Damon is untouchable, let my girl get with Kai. I would have been more than satisfied (obviously).
They just had to kill their most charismatic character post Klaus because he was linked to BONNIE. They sabotage opportunities because of their dislike for Bonnie. Sheās not good enough for Kai, for Damon to fight over/for in a weird sexually charged love triangle that crosses lines/boundaries.
Theyāre all weird about each other. We know it would have been ā¦different (in a good way), far from the showās usual š“.
I cannot find the gifset do you guys ever think about how the writers shown us Elenaās hallucinations in (s4e6) and one of them detailed Katherine taunting Elena about how Bonnie secretly hates her after everything thatās happened Grams death, Abby being turned and then did nothing with that?
The writers were really building up (kinda) to them not being friends or some type of separationā¦