*♬ 𝓉𝒾𝑔𝑒𝓇 ♬*

I can’t escape the tickles and can use one hand to hold my arms up so I can’t stop him or cover my face so I get to be humiliated

I'd be delighted to answer your questions! 😊 The opportunity to share a perspective I hold so dearly (and one that isn't often understood) is one I take gladly.

I should say first thing, that I am not an expert and do not speak for everyone, but I'm sure you know this lol.

From all of the years I've spent observing and participating in the community, the most primary appeal to tickling is the surrendering of control to someone you trust. Many people, including myself, feel unable to truly relax in their real lives, either because they suffer from perfectionist ideas or people-pleasing behaviors or low self esteem or whatever. We feel as though if we are not at peak performance, if we do not stay composed at all times, if we do not make ourselves as small as possible, we are not worthy of existence. When you're being tickled, you cannot make yourself small. You cannot stay composed. You laugh, you wiggle, you squeal, you blush and smile, and none of those reactions can be controlled. It's all just you at your most vulnerable, helpless state of being. But guess what? You're safe. You're safe and you're loved. You are loved even if you have a goofy laugh, or are loud, or say stupid shit. A lot of tickle community culture is praise and compliments to get across to the tickl-ee just how cute they are when they're tickled. It's all part of the fun and the person tickling you thinks you are beautiful when you're just being yourself. For certain people, this becomes an incredibly liberating experience, and oftentimes helps with emotional traumas.

Another very substantial benefit is the physical sensation. I know tickling isn't usually perceived as the most pleasant experience 😂 but if you are touch-starved or if the touch is light enough, it can be very relaxing. It's like all of the negative thoughts in your head are pushed out of your mind and all that exists in your brain is giggles and clouds and joy. There's a reason people use the phrase "tickle drunk"

there’s people that claim that they aren’t ticklish but what if they can be proven wrong?

i’m picturing straddling a boys waist, him sitting upright. first i have to get him calm and relaxed. i hold his hands in my lap and guide him through deep breathing. inhale, exhale. this gets him to un-tense any muscles. then on the fourth exhale, my fingers strike the soft spot above his hip bones and dig deep enough to hit every nerve possible. ideally he screams and doubles over. i think it would be impossible not to.

lee truths

What’s your favorite spot to be tickled?

What is your worst spot? Do you like or dislike being tickled there?

What is your personal biggest tickle themed fantasy?

Have you ever dreamed of being tickled? Do you remember what happened?

Being restrained or unrestrained? If restrained, simply on a bed or in stocks?

If you had the choice, would you rather start being tickled with socks on or off?

Have you ever told anyone outside of this community that you like being tickled?

What was your first memory that made you realize you like tickling?

Have you ever been tickled? Was it just a little squeeze to the side or an actual session?

What are your top 5 spots? Do you have any secret ones you don’t tell anyone about?

Can you self tickle?

Do you prefer tools light like feathers or rough like a hairbrush?

Do you get easily flustered? What does it take to get you that way?

lee dares

I dare you to reblog a post you specially reblogged because of how flustered it made you

I dare you to tag a ler that you want to be tickled by. Be respectful!

I dare you to try running a hairbrush up and down your foot (@ all my lee pals i’m sorry i was running out of ideas)

I dare you to tag the first ler that comes to mind and tell them you want them to tickle you

I dare you to look around your room, find a random object and attempt to tickle yourself with it

I dare you to send an ask to any ler telling them how much you appreciate them and what they bring to the community. On or off anon

ler truths

What is your personal favorite spot to tickle?

As big and tough as you try to portray yourself, do you have a worst spot? Where is it?

What is your personal biggest tickle themed fantasy?

If you could tickle anyone in the world, who would it be?

Do you prefer a lee to be restrained? To what degree?

Do you like tickling/starting a session with a lee wearing socks or not wearing socks?

Have you ever told someone outside this community that you like tickling?

What is your first memory that made you realize you like tickling?

Have you ever tickled someone? Was it just a little squeeze to the side or an actual session?

What are your top favorite possible tickle spots on a lee?

Do you ever find yourself wanting to be tickled? Or do you feel 100% as a ler?

Do you prefer tools light like feathers or rough like a hairbrush?

What is your favorite method of teasing?

ler dares

I dare you to post your personal way of teasing. Audio, text post, the choice is yours

I dare you to reblog a post that made you flustered

I dare you to look around your house and try to find an unusual tickle tool and post a picture of your findings

I dare you to post/reblog a picture or video that best shows what your dream session looks like

I dare you to send an ask to any lee telling them how much you appreciate them and what they bring to this community. On or off anon

I dare you too attempt to self tickle yourself. HAH, it seems the tables have turned