one black sissy

Feminine energy rocks.

Congrats on that first outing. I so recall my first times out. I wish you nothing but good. It's not an easy road to be black and trans. However for me it is the only way I can live.

Welcome to a wild ride. My first and best piece of advice is to BE SAFE. This society is not friendly toward black femme trans folk. My second piece of advice is to explore, experiment and reflect. Think, act and think is a healthy way to go through life. My third piece of advice is to enjoy the trip. Yes. It is a wild ride.

The game of pursuer and pursued is much more complicated than it seems. Or as Aretha Franklin once sang, "Who's Zoomin who?"

I agree. I too have noticed the prevalence of humiliation as a theme in the sissy universe. I want to make it clear that I'm not judging anyone else or telling anyone else what they should or shouldn't like. It just doesn't work for me.

Aging does not mean the end of style.

Yes I have a nice booty. But what I find interesting about this post and what folk should take note of is how many gay black bottom men have respond to this post. These men aren't sissies. They're just gay.

I just want to thank you for this image. It's nice to see someonewho looks more like me.

This brought a smile to my face. Subverting the Paradigm...even the one that is so much at play in our girly world

I know this is a really heavy post but if you read it and you appreciated it, I’d appreciate it in return if you reblogged it. This is really important to me and I want people to read it and understand it. Thank you.

Not just her…  I’m in the boat she’s in, and she identified the problem better than I could.

Similar story for me too. Growing up in a black neighborhood, years before there was such a thing as the internet, I had no idea what was going on inside me. I had these deep yearnings to forsake masculinity and embrace femininity but I had no language to describe what I was feeling. Then came Flip Wilson doing Geraldine. I felt that I was being personally bunked and that all of America was laughing at me. The idea that a black boy could be a girl was a joke so ridiculous that it deserved only laughter. The self-loathing that followed lasted for decades. I've earned the right to be who I really am.

Oh my …..love this

Yes, cherish every moment. It can end so quickly---so says the voice of experience

The guy I'm with these days likes to see me in my lingerie. He also enjoys taking me out of my lingerie.