Making Men Fall in Love With You
Let me start this off by saying men are very simple and in many many ways, all the same. They are not like us women with a million thoughts about why we do the things we do and what they mean, they donât overthink and in my opinion they generally donât really think at all.Â
Understand that the average straight man has 3 needs; food, sex, and ego stroking. Thatâs really it. Men donât need flowers, lavish dinners, or exotic trips to feel like theyâre being appreciated. If you have a vagina and can boil water you can and you will make any man fall hopelessly in âloveâ with you.Â
Regardless of how you met, you have a man interested in you that you really want. Doesnât matter for what reason, sex, money, love, status, etc. You want him, so to get him itâs all about the first date. You need him to take you out the old fashioned way, pick you up/get you an uber, nice dinner, good conversation, you need to eye fuck the hell out of him the whole time and text him after you leave saying you hope he drives safe and to text you when he gets home, the WHOLE 9 of flirting.Â
When he texts you you need to make it short and sweet but throw a compliment in that really packs a punch and isnât basic. âThe green in your eyes really is something elseâ âIâve never seen a man look so sexy in a blue suitâ you get it? Heâll probably compliment back but donât get too into it, tell him you loved his company and that youâre off to bed but lets do this again soon.Â
He will most likely text you the next day, you need to play busy that day until the night time, and then text him a lot late that night (just general texting) but then âfall asleepâ mid conversation. The next day text him that youâre so sorry you fell asleep but youâd love to âmake it up to himâ by making him dinner.Â
Get him to take you grocery shopping. This whole ordeal is a true chance to see how he lives and spends, not to mention that if you actually like him grocery shopping with him will be a blast trust me. Get everything you need but make sure to ask him for suggestions on things at drastically different price points to see how he reacts, âbabe which wine do you think looks better?â *holds up $20 bottle vs $250 bottle* just an example.Â
Iâm getting kind of sad at this point because writing this I know this date was the turning point for me and my boyfriend where we really both fell for each other. Through doing these hubby/wifey things itâs so easy for you yourself to fall so just be careful with that if youâre only after coins.
So go over and make him dinner, anything youâre really good at making. Stay up all night talking and drinking (if you drink) and fall asleep watching TV and cuddling. You could have sex that night or not, I think itâs probably better to not but I really couldnât resist and it didnât change anything, if anything probably made it more effective. I think morning sex the next day is the best way to go about it, end the whole thing with a breakfast date and you have sealed that deal.Â
The next date is shopping for you. Ask him to take you shopping for some lingerie you wanna wear for him, it will obviously turn into more things but again this is a good opportunity to see how he spends. Get dinner after shopping, at this stage my boyfriend was calling me his wifey to his mom on the phone. It had been around 2 weeks of us knowing each other.Â
The rest will play out, youâve cooked for him, fucked him, shown him how you live, he will feel very connected to you. This is not a sugaring guide. This needs to be performed carefully because it will twist any mans mind into thinking you are the one, use it on men you would potentially really want to marry. Trophy wife guide weâll call it, it will be difficult to do this on someone you donât at least like a little bit. Last but not least always remember 95% of men will cheat so my advice is make sure you get smart and marry a man who will financially set you up, there is nothing wrong with it.
