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I was getting frustrated once she stopped wanting to have sex as much. Her friend tried warning me about her, telling me that she was doing some other guys behind my back. My friend told me her friend told him she had been with 3 black guys in the hood and that she let them all cum inside of her. I was noticing that her pussy was very loose. I will admit, I am your typical white boy. I am 3 inchs soft and 5 inches at my hardest and not thick at all. I had always heard sayings like "it doesn't matter how big you are, its how you move it". I truly believed I had enough dick to please a woman. It got to the point where all she would do is let me eat her out and I was getting upset. She talked like a black person as well, used a lot of black lingo. I just brushed it off as what was popular at the time.

We used to smoke a lot of weed that we would get from one of my friends. She told me she could get us a better deal from someone she knows. I didn't think anything of it, so I said sure. Her friend's name was big Kev. He came over to bring us some weed a couple nights later and this was the first time I met him. He was very gangsta, and a huge man. I'm talking somewhere around 6'5 and around 300lbs. He was massive, very thick and big boned. He had huge hands and almost crushed mine when we shook hands. We had fun that night, and we all burned together. It became a regular thing to give big Kev a call when we needed some smoke. He would come drop it off most of the time while I was at work, I would just leave some money with Jessica. I was frustrated with the sex but everything else was fun so we stayed together. We were living together now for close to 4 months. She might let me fuck her once a week after that first month. I was frustrated because I felt like she couldn't even feel me inside her. She would ask me to fuck her in the ass and I would because it was tighter. I was also aggravated with myself because I couldn't last for 5 minutes without cumming. She would always reassure me that she was fine with it. I used to make sure she was always well taken care of with my tongue, which she truly enjoyed.

The fourth month we were living together was when the proverbial bomb went off. I was out of town with my job for 5 days. Well we finished a day early so I would be coming back home on Friday morning instead of Saturday morning. I arrived back home around 10 am. When I pulled up I saw big Kev's car, which I found strange. We had plenty of weed before I left, so I was confused. When I walked in the first thing I remembered was the strong smell of pot, but no one was in the living room. There was a 1/3 of a blunt in the ashtray so I figured he had stopped by to smoke with us. I started going towards the bedroom and heard loud moaning. When I got to the door I could hear him telling her things like" I own this white pussy". He was calling her a slut and she was agreeing. I was furious at this point. I was no dummy and knew what was going on. The door was locked. I knocked a couple times and nothing stopped. She kept moaning and screaming and he kept talking nasty. I knocked really hard a 3rd time and I heard him say " he is gonna have to know sometime". He came to the door and unlocked it. I was stunned, he answered the door but naked. I didn't know what to say or do. He had a gut, but under his gut was the biggest dick I had ever seen. It was bigger than any dick I had ever seen in regular non interracial porn. The only dick I ever saw that was bigger was John Holmes. He was rock hard and must have been at least 11 or 12 inches, what was even more amazing was how thick it was. I honestly think he was 4 times thicker than me. It was quite a humbling experience. I felt so inadequite . How could I compare? She told me " honey don't be mad, I was gonna tell you the truth, I just didn't know how". I said "truth about what". She told me to go get the rest of the blunt and she would show me something. I went get it, as I was on my way back to the room I heard more screaming. When I returned she told me to relax and smoke it. I said "what the fuck". She said just smoke the blunt and if you want me to get out of your house after I will. At this point, I knew I couldn't kick big Kevs ass, plus he carried a gun. So I set next to her and smoked and watched. I was mad but started getting turned on a bit as well. I never heard her moan like this, she was having orgasm after orgasm. I knew at that point that I had never really given her an orgasm before. He kept calling her degrading names and she loved it. He would pull out of her and she would suck on that massive cock like it was the last bottle of water on earth. His cock was so tight in her pussy, you could see the pussy skin gripping the thick black penis like it was glued on. He was going in areas inside her that I knew I had never come close to touching. He had so much more endurance than me, he was pounding her for 15 minutes straight and still hadn't cum. I was high and a lot more relaxed. At this point he was saying shit like " you know you need this big black dick" and she responded with" yes I do, white boys can't fuck, give me that big dick nigga". All the questions I had been asking myself were answered right there. He then announced he was about to cum, then she responded like a bitch in heat "cum inside your white bitch" then she said "i need that nigga nut all up in me". He was going so deep inside her, she was taking it all except for maybe an inch. When he said he was about to cum, he started pounding her like never before. I thought the bed was going to break. Then he started cumming. When he was finished and pulled out, I was amazed. Her pussy was so wide open and gaping. The cum was pouring out. What really amazed me was he was still pretty hard. I would have been limp. Jessica then got up and sucked his cock and tasted his cum. She tried to kiss me after but I didn't let her. What really amazed me was after he went to the bathroom, he came back and said he was ready to fuck her ass now. She didn't even hesitate. She got on her back and he fucked her asshole in the missionary position. He pounded that asshole for about 15 minutes, then pulled out and came all over her tits and face and she was as happy as could be. He left after, saying he had to go take care of some business.

I felt a whirlwind of emotions all at once. I was furious for what she had put me through and what I had to experience. I was also turned on and was hard. At the time, I didn't want her knowing that. She told me that she had been cheating on me with big Kev ever since the first week she moved in with me. She also told me that she could never see her self not fucking black guys. She told me that black guys are much better in bed and they are the only guys that can make her cum. She told me that she has never orgasmed with a white guy. That white boys can't fuck. She then told me that she has been fucking big Kev and all his black buddies. She told me one night him and 4 of his buddies ran a train on her all night and that the smallest dick out of all of them was 9 inches and was still thick. She told me she came with each one of them. I started thinking the saying is true about once you go black. She also told me she wanted to stay if I didn't mind her fucking black guys. I had too much pride and told her no. She asked me if she could have the weekend, and I told her she could stay till Sunday.

That Saturday I was feeling sad and was in the dumps. I went hang out with some friends that night. I got back home close to midnight. She was staying in the room next to mine now. I went to bed only to hear the sounds of hardcore fucking next door. It was torture, I layed there for hours hearing her scream and moan. I could tell she was having a 3 way with big kev and another guy. They didn't stop till 3 in the morning. I remember crying and feeling like crap hearing that all night. She was gone for good when I woke up. This would later become one of my biggest regrets..

I got over her like anyone else does after a break up. I started renting porn again but this time I started renting interracial porn. I remember getting harder than ever when I would watch these. I would watch these and cum and get hard again right away and cum some more. Sometimes I would do this 3 times in a row. I could never do this with women before. I watched this type of porn exclusively for a years after, strictly black man on white woman. I started watching cuckold videos after 2005, at first I thought the guys were idiots. Then after a few years I started envying them. It was at this point I started regretting losing Jessica. I had it made and my pride blew it for me. I started to realize that I just can't compare to some of these black studs. The sooner you admit that to yourself, you will not have to worry about the stress of satisfying a woman. I am now confident in my own skin and don't mind giving the woman I love all the best things in life. If I can afford to bring her to a great resteraunt, why shouldn't she deserve the best sex possible. If you love her and are truly unselfish, you should want to give her that gift. I know for a fact that not all blacks are great in bed or hung. I do know that those who are have a gift for giving women the orgasms of a lifetime.

A couple of years ago, I started realizing that I enjoy the big black cocks as much as the sexy women in those films. I started watching gay interracial porn and love it too. 1 year ago I had my first gay experience and met up with a bisexual black stud. He made me worship that thick 10 inch tool he had and I enjoyed every second of it. He bent me over and fucked my ass for the first time, my ass was a virgin for 38 years. It was painful but after a while I started enjoying it. He was getting off big time and that excited me. I actually came without touching my penis. It was limp like a little clit while he was pounding me, and it just started leaking cum like crazy. At this moment I realized that I am just a little white bitch boy that is meant to serve a women who is confident she wants a whiteboy who can give her everything she needs and will let her fuck black men as well.

A cheating wife is two or three conversations away from becoming a hotwife.

She’s obviously fucking other men because she’s not getting what she needs at home. She needs more and better sex. Or a bigger cock. Or a man with more stamina. Or maybe she just wants variety.

If she’s been keeping it a secret, and hasn’t already left you for him, it means she still loves you. She probably only wants the other guy for sex. More than likely he’s just a booty call. But her heart is still with you.

She’s probably kinda scared and nervous, feeling guilty about it, and worried about your reaction.

But remember… your reaction can totally change things around. You can save your marriage!

Instead of getting raging mad and upset and filing for divorce, think about another approach.

Think of this as an opportunity.

Talk to her.

Admit to her that the idea of her going out and fucking other men turns you on.

Have that conversation with her.

Then take her to the bedroom and make sweet love to her. Make it extra special. Go down on her. Taste where her lover has been. Believe me… she’s gonna be thinking about that.

Encourage her to open up and talk about her experiences with him. She’ll be reluctant at first. Just be patient with her. Give her room to feel comfortable.

Make her cum with your mouth. Then flip her over and eat out her ass. Women love that!

He’s probably fucked her there. Taste where he’s been.

Shower her with compliments. How she looks. How she feels. How she smells. How she tastes.

Tell her you still love her. Convince her.

Start that dialogue with her.

Then… gently… encourage her to go see him again. Tell her you’re okay with it.

Help her get past that threshold. She needs to trust you, and believe you when you say you’re okay with it. Because she’s not going to believe that at first.

Then the night she goes to him again… when she gets back… just kiss her and hold her and love her.

Kiss her everywhere.

Then gently, slowly, slide down the bed and take in her scent. Smell her pussy. She’s just been fucked by another man. She’s going to smell different down there.

This is going to make her feel nervous. You need to help her relax.

Then go down on her. Gently at first. She needs to warm up. Take your time. Then get your mouth on her cunt and feast on it. Get your tongue in deep. And make her cum.

Do this. Try it.

The fantasy of having a “Hotwife” is growing, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of “swinging” and the modern “open relationship”.  Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship – the woman – going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and “getting some” for himself?  

Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures.  They have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate – this isn’t so much different than what happens in the animal kingdom.  Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the “best mate” or the “most attractive woman”.  With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partner’s Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow “weaker” than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner.  Is this really true, though?  Could the truth lie somewhere within today’s man’s loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or “monogamy”?  Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?  

Cuckholding aside, because this aspect of the fantasy requires a bit more in terms of a “woman led” relationship, and a bit more from the man in terms of a desire for mental sadomasochism, a good majority of men enjoy the idea that they have been able to “capture” the best mate and even when she’s out having amazing physical and emotional experiences with men who may have qualities that actually supersede their own – a better body, a larger cock, youth, more prowess in bed – their woman actually WANTS to come back to them at the end of the night.  While most Hotwife-Husbands do get some level of turn-on from the jealousy and the possibility that their Hotwife may actually be enjoying their dates more than they enjoy being “at home”, the overwhelming desire is the competition and the “win” in terms of having a wife who chooses them again and again even after being allowed to go out and have other men.  

As Hotwives, we may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually.  This is why the desire for “reclaiming” a Hotwife after a date is so strong – it’s actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive.  So, what does this mean for us as Hotwives?

He Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It

As women we’ve learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating – before we’ve found our “person”.  We use our female prowess to keep the men who we are seeing guessing…why?  Because they seem more interested in us when it seems as though we may not be 100% there.  So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldn’t it work once we’re married? In contrast, women typically don’t respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy – we tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if we feel that he might be “just not that into us”.  Naturally, because of our own feelings on the matter, we tend to avoid making our men jealous once we’ve committed to them, because we, ourselves don’t want to feel as though we’re in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women.  Why would we do something to the man that we love that we, ourselves, would hate?

For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for us to keep our men hot and bothered.  Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by that cute guy at our favorite restaurant, or our interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send our men into a sexual frenzy.  It doesn’t take a lot to feed the fantasy.  It’s not ALL about dates and recounting how well we got worked over in the bedroom (and how much we loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for our men, it’s also about the little things – the mention of our interest in someone else, the sexy messages that we send to potential lovers or Bulls, the “tease” of how much we loved what our last Bull did for us and how much we’re looking forward to doing it again.  Remember, this ignites the “competition” element of things, which is natural for men.

The More You Enjoy it, the More He Enjoys it

You may be thinking, “But I’m doing it for him, I’m not doing it for myself” (a common theme by A LOT of Hotwives), but in reality, our men WANT us to enjoy our encounters. They want to hear about what this “other guy” did for or to is that sent us over the edge, and yes, they want to hear what we liked better about the “other guy”.  I know it seems crazy, because we don’t want to imagine our men, even if we did allow them to be with other women, thinking that their “others” were better, sexier, hotter or had something that we don’t.  That’s because we don’t have that “competition drive” like our men do.

Let’s face it, despite what our men tell us – “It’s all about your pleasure” or “I don’t get anything out of it unless you’re enjoying it, because I love you so much” – this isn’t some ultimate “unselfish” thing our men are doing for us.  These things come out of their mouths, but what they are really saying is “I want to know that you came three times while he was fucking you, and you STILL want to come home to me”.  It’s their kink, and we have to understand it.  

So, if you’ve actually taken the step into the world of Hotwifing, you’re going to have to learn how to properly tease your man into believing that, just maybe, your Bull was better than him in some ways.  Whenever you think “But I’m only doing it for him”, follow that us with “I’m doing it for him and he WANTS to know that I absolutely enjoyed it”.  Find some aspect of your encounter that was mind-blowing, and recount, in great detail exactly what it was that sent you over the edge.  This may require a little bit of embellishment, and that’s OKAY…trust me…embellishment is your friend in this situation.  Tell your man about your Bull’s amazing cock, how good if felt, how good he tasted, how fantastic he was at oral sex, etc.  These are the things that will ramp up that competition streak in your man and make him want to reclaim you with increased vigor and desire.  

The More You Want Someone Else, The More Your Man Wants You

Again, you’re playing on the competition and the teasing aspect of things here…  The more that you act as if you WANT to be a Hotwife, the more that your husband or partner is going to WANT you.  His desire for you is going to skyrocket, his sexual desire for you is going to make it so that he’s ready to chew his own leg off to get you back in bed.  I have experienced this firsthand many times…if I am completely honest about an “encounter” and admit to “D” that my Bull was lacking in some way, or I didn’t quite “get there”, he isn’t nearly as turned on as when I tell him about how amazing things were.  I don’t like or believe in lying, but I do advocate for being selective and stretching the truth…maybe your lover wasn’t the best at giving oral sex, but maybe he was an amazing kisser, so a good answer would be “he was amazing with his mouth” and leave the rest up for interpretation.  

We’re women.  We are strong and capable and we are smart.  And the truth is, this is a GAME we are playing for and with our husbands/partners, so we need to get our heads into the game. Furthermore, this is an intellectual game, and we need to use our intellects to get to where we want to be.  Where do we want to be?  We want to have a husband/partner who is absolutely drooling over us, believes we are the ultimate sexual goddess, and in is jealous enough to realize that in order to “compete” they will need to step up their own game in order to “keep” us satisfied – be that with amazing sex, extra romance, other rewards, or all of the above.  

Happy Hotwifing!

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