Iām going to make up names for this btw but literally Iāve grown to hate this friend Dan. Heās just always so fucking negative now and he also ājokesā (not really) and talks shit to me when I canāt do much about it. Like a big example as of rn is that we both sit with each other in art class and as a final weāre doing a cardboard piƱata. So literally the whole fucking time near the end he was always saying to me that he was carrying the project and did everything and how Iām the worst trash teammate. And while it was true that I wasnāt helping at the very start since I was doing other stuff or doing work from other classes, I still helped out after a few days the project started. But of course even when I was actually helping he still went on about how I was so slow and how Iām ass at doing the project, even though realistically I donāt even think he couldāve done much better than me at all.
FOR EXAMPLE, since the piƱata were making is a boba cup, we had to make a straw for it. So I made the straw, but it turned out to be too small compared to the whole cup, so he decided to make it himself. And he also reminded me a few times about how whenever I made something (cardboard), I did it wrong and he had to come in and do it himself and correct it. HOWEVER HE DOESNT REALIZE THAT WITHOUT ME DOING THE MISTAKE, HE PROBABLY WOULDVE DONE THE SAME FUCKING THING AS ME. The only thing was I made the objects/parts first, which allowed him to learn from the mistake I made and fix it when he made it himself. Like he literally wouldāve done the same thing but because I happened to be the person to do it first I get the blame, if that makes sense.
And today during art class we were finishing up the piƱata and we were hot gluing these black paper circles that are meant to be bobas onto the cup. And the way we did this was by having him dispense the hot glue into the circle while I hold it. And then Iām supposed to stick it onto the cup, pull may hand away, and let him push it against the cup further with his glue gun to make sure it sticks well (I donāt push it onto the cup because the glue is still pretty hot).
So at the start Iām sticking the circles onto the cup, but I at least want to push it a little against the cup before I take my hand away and let him push it all the way with his glue gun. But when I was doing this he complained that I was taking too long (which isnāt even true but ok like I took like 2-3 seconds to do it). So I was trying to attach the circle with glue onto the cup without pushing it much since it was I was taking too long and ābeing slowā but the WHOLE ENTIRE FUCKING TIME he kept on yelling (not yell yell but u know what i mean, speaking loudly to me) āyo move your handā when I sticked it on. And even near the end when I was genuinely going at a decent pace he still kept on saying āmove your handā EVERY FUCKING TIME I ATTACHED THE CIRCLE. And ik he was maybe half joking when doing that at that point but I genuinely donāt give a fuck because your just being obnoxious atp and Iām obviously not even laughing when your doing that.
Anyways, enough about art class, now Iām going to talk about the call I hopped on later today after school. So at first it was just me and this other friend that Dan and I know. Letās say his name is George. So I hopped on call at like 9pm with George, and we do it on a discord server that has a bunch of other people we know (including Dan). And at first Iām just enjoying my time, but then of course George wants to ping and have Dan join the call because for some reason even though Dan constantly talks shit to his face and is genuinely atp just mean to him sometimes because he doesnāt even really like George (Dan told me this before). And of course one of the reasons he doesnāt like George is because heās in general not good at video games but like that such a stupid reason to actually dislike someone and hanging out with them.
Anyways, as soon as Dan joined the called after George pinged him, he instantly starts talking shit about how ass we both are playing this game (Roblox bed wars). And I know that this is him trying to be funny or whatever but Iām genuinely so fucking sick of hearing his shit talking and stuff. Itās not funny to me at all anymore and itās just so obnoxious to hear, but of course George doesnāt mind when he does this because atp I think heās a fucking loser slave that wants to hang out with Dan even though he so clearly dislikes him. So yeah Iām while playing this game with George, I start to lag and then I die. And since I lag so much when playing games sometimes, Dan wants to be funny and just say that Iām using the lag as an excuse since im āso bad at the gameā and that was just the last straw for me. So I instantly left the game and left the call at that point and didnāt join back until like 10:30 pm when George was spam texting me to hop back on and that Dan was gone. and of course I was having a good time actually just playing games with George, and even another friend thatās actually really nice and respectful (letās call him Tom) joins the call to at this point. And Iām just having a good time because all the people I actually like I guess are on call.
But then of course Dan joins back in the voice chat, and starts being annoying again AS USUAL. But whatever, both George and Tom tolerate this behavior so we all just squad up and play a bedwars match. And Dan starts to ājokeā around and talk shit about us (and I DONT FIND IT FUNNY ANYMORE ITS JUST FUCKING ANNOYING NOW). And he does it so much towards George especially that they both started literally arguing. And both Tom and I were just listening while this was happening and I know Tom probably didnāt care much but I CARE BECAUSE I DONT WANT TO FUCKING HEAR GEORGE AND THIS FUCKING DOUCHEBAG ARGUING WHILE IM TRYING TO PLAY GAMES AFTER A MENTALLY DRAINING WEEK OF SHIT SCHOOL. And I think Iām going to continue to explain my disdain for Dan more in the comments
