decathectized

“Joy is a decision, a really brave one, about how you’re going to respond to life.”

“It is okay if you don’t complete things and goals as fast as other people do; we are all different people with different levels of skills and it’s okay to go at your own pace.”

“Be with someone who will take care of you. Not materialistically, but take care of your soul, your well being, your heart.”

“Keep your head up, keep your heart strong. No, no, no, no. Keep your mind set, keep your hair long. Oh my my darlin’ keep your head up, keep your heart strong.”

“There’s really no shortcut to forgetting someone. You just have to endure missing them everyday until you don’t anymore.”

“If you focus on failure, you can never succeed. If you focus on being hurt in a relationship, you can never be loved.Whatever you focus on, you create.”