QQQ definitely has had disciples with similar behaviors. Who never leave the Peak without a solid Group. Helped mortals with similar behaviors when they dared approach her Fairies, never other cultivators, For A Reason. (Definitely something a women-only Peak includes in their training/studies. Their sect accepts disciples on Merit Despite Background! Even if many are still Biased. There's definitely been plenty of little ladies who ran there just like Qi-ge did. Whether they are all good at clocking it...)
She is shocked to see it in a miniaturized SQQ, but perhaps its a habit, an instinct, a reflex, to shift at least a little bit to better shield and hide whoever Reacts Like That. It was so quick and sudden!
Seeing/feeling the reaction to THAT. Little SJ calming slightly when he is better hidden from everyone else, or flinching when one of the Men try to peer around her, or start Shouting. Clinging less tightly when she steps back, herding him away from everyone else and closer to a wall perhaps, maybe leaning against her a little but breathing a little more calmly. Trembling even as he hides it desperately, she can still Feel it that close.
Yeah. All her hackles are up, Very Sus, but. She's not Stupid! Something is Very Very Off and she damn well wants to know What Is This Shit! What the fuck!
If nothing else, she's not gonna get answers by letting all these Stubborn Men crowd this petrified small being hiding behind her. Shoo! Back off!
Just asking his name would clue them in that at the very least he does not remember becoming Peak Lord, or even Head Disciple. Asking if he knows their names and not even getting their old personal ones puts it even further back.
But what would he even say to such questions when he only knows being a frightened young slave child? Only sees Fancy Masters around, asking him Questions, at least someone being Cranky/Mad/Hostile? The closest thing to servants present are Also Fancy! (Disciples) That doesn't help him figure out what's going on!
If QQQ asks, tho, he'd probably use very respectful lady-you-don't-know-but-is-Fancy sort of titles and such. Whether or not he feels safe, she's the safest person in the room, to him, so he's got the sense to automatically be nicer/polite. He's spitting mad at everyone else's existence right now, but being too vocal about that carelessly can get him Killed and he'd Know That.
If their Head Disciples are present or nearby, perhaps LMY has stepped closer already. For good or ill, that scrawny shrunken Peak Lord is clinging to her Shizun. Best be close to help in whichever direction this goes, hm? Having TWO jiejies essentially bracketing him? SJ is a bit wide eyed by now. Overwhelmed. This is Very Scary and A Lot!
Ofc, having LMY that close is gonna set off LQG even more. Man is NOT helping. Too cranky, too loud, too openly angy. But if anyone can tell him to Be Quieter and have it Work, its probably his baby sister. (Agreeing with his concerns or not, Gege is Not Helping!) Which. Earns some more wide eyed awe from baby SJ. Fancy Jiejies are maybe also Cranky BUT can and did make the Men back off and quiet down?! He'll put up with them being cranky and mean at him if they keep being so effective at keeping the Men away! He's scared and traumatized and a Survivor! Better sharp tongued cranky Jiejies than Men! Especially Fancy Masters!
Female servants, slaves, and even family members of Masters couldn't always do anything to help him, wouldn't risk it or even be Nice, but they generally didn't hurt him. So QQQ being harsh and cranky at first isn't entirely a shock or a dealbreaker, even if its less than thrilling. As long as she doesn't try to shove him back at the Men, even if she rips her skirts out of his hands and doesn't want him touching her... as long as she lets him stand with her between little SJ and the Masters he'll take it.
(And he definitely, DEFINITELY thinks YQY is Qi-ge's sperm donor or relative, not Qi-ge. So fancy and big and Healthy! Can't possibly be Qi-ge. Maybe if they could convince him he too is Older and Healthier and just got shrunk by an artifact he'd consider it. He'd agree that if Qi-ge is the Sect Boss of COURSE Xiao Jiu is his second, his strategist, the one most expected and positioned to argue with him and tell him when he's being an idiot. Its the only conceivable way Qi-ge being in charge of Anything would ever work! Qi-ge can be the Approachable Face but his Xiao Jiu is right at his back to make sure no Stupid happens! No backstabbing (of them)!)