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#So I'm back #kinda #still in the midst of my usual ongoing breakdown so we shall see #but the imminent collapse of my psyche has been fended off for now

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"knowing" something is off about someone before actually hearing about anything they've done wrong doesn't mean you have amazing intuition or whatever btw, it just means you're a judgy asshole who made a lucky guess and I'm sick of people pretending they have some kind of psychic superpower instead of unchecked biases that happen to be correct from time to time

#you're only remembering the times you were right about someone being an asshole #you've forgotten or dismissed all the times you got a “bad vibe” from someone who turned out to be totally chill and fine #and as an autistic woman(ish) who has frequently had people tell me they misjudged me or talk shit about me behind my back #you people really need to shut the fuck up with your judgements #and that's not even touching on what that can do to people who were victimised by the person you're talking about and “didn’t see the signs”#you're not fucking special you're a stopped clock that's constantly crowing

alphacrone

i don't really want to weight in on the "using big words in your writing is ableist" discourse happening on tiktok because i'm like 90% certain it's an anti-intellectual psyop to stir up drama in online circles to promote the use of ai to summarize literally everything and thus feeding the LLMs and lowering the populace's mistrust of such tools but i also have to say: dictionaries and thesauruses are the most accessible they've ever been. if you use an e-reader of any kind you can look up a word without leaving the page. there's a plethora of online dictionaries and if you just type a word + "meaning" into google it'll usually give you a definition. we used to have pocket dictionaries we used when reading in class. i have two on my shelf right now that i used in high school. stop letting the fascists purposefully misuse anti-ableism rhetoric to trick you into never thinking again.

what-even-is-thiss

My middle school gave you detention if you didn’t turn in your homework on time did I ever tell y’all about that

post-to-poll-pipeline

Did your school* give you detention if you didn't do your homework?

Yes, breaktime or lunchtime detention

Yes, after-school detention

Some of my schools did but others didn't

Remaining time: 4 days 22 hours

*High school and/or middle school, not primary/elementary school.

veanet

I've never been to a school with detention and at this point I'm too scared to ask what you actually do there

#kinda?#if you missed one bit of homework you wouldn't get detention over it or anything #like if you consistently didn’t turn in work a teacher could give you lunchtime detention until you did that work #but it was pretty selectively enforced tbh #and if you weren't falling behind in tests and atuff they would usually let homework slide #it was mostly given to kids who weren't paying attention in class or doing the homework and were falling behind bc of it #as a way of forcing them to actually do something to learn the material though it usually didnt work tbh #mostly lunchtime detention was for being disruptive in class or minor rule infractions #and after-school detention was for serious shit like starting fights or throwing things or whatever #though if you racked up 3 weeks of lunchtime detentions you could choose to do it as a week of after-school detention instead #but that was basically just the same as staying for study-hall with extra supervision lol #idk i never got detention of any kind despite increasingly turning in less and less homework over the years so 🤷#but also teachers basically let me do whatever bc i was smart so my experience was not universal on that lol

swagophile

important reminder that most people you follow online are significantly lamer than you think they are including me. and if you feel insecure comparing yourself to someone online: DON'T. theyre probably also lame and weird. most people on the internet are

most-sane-classicist

reblog if you're also lame and weird.

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infectiouspiss

disabled ppl we need to start lying to nosy people okay? you tell me i'm too young to need a cane and i will tell you point blank that maybe you should tell that to the guy who ran me over. you don't get an explanation of my health issues you get lies and depending on how much of an asshole i want to be that lie will be anything from a humble car crash to a 1 billion lions attack. mind yr business.

infectiouspiss

"i could never live like that" well maybe you'll have to because this happened overnight. yeah you heard me i was the most able bodied man in the world but then one morning bam i woke up disabled. yeah you could have that too. there's no cure either you'll just wake up one morning and now you have to live like me

infectiouspiss

"what happened" well have you ever seen looney tunes? yeah an anvil landed on me and squished me flat.

bviralmedia

Curious Tiger Chews on Cardboard Tube in His Outdoor Enclosure

albva

pirateprincessjess

“Covid game me narcolepsy” no you fucking pervert it didn’t. You’re just a weirdo with a gross fetish. Covid didn’t make you suddenly want to fuck dead people. Keep that shit to yourself you gods damned weirdo

I have type 2 Narcolepsy. Studies have shown that serious viral infections can cause people to develop Narcolepsy if they are already genetically susceptible to having it. This includes covid. That is what happened to me.

You on the other hand might want to google the difference between Narcolepsy and Necrophilia….

pirateprincessjess

Yall, I can’t believe that I have to do this, but I am going to say this in as clearly as possible

The anon was very confused.

I have Narcolepsy, which is a sleep disorder. Narcolepsy has nothing to do with Necrophilia. I am not into necrophilia.

pirateprincessjess

I didn’t realize that one said “necropolises.” That’s actually so funny. I think that one must have been a joke

fiendir

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lacefuneral

the word empathy is WIDELY misused, even in mental health spaces.

empathy:

is responding to a person’s emotions by experiencing the same emotion as them (i.e. feeling sad when something sad happens to that person, or happy when something happy happens to that person.)

is an automatic response that cannot be controlled

cannot be learned

sympathy:

is recognizing that another person is in pain, even if you do not experience that pain, and offering comfort to that person

is something a person must actively choose to do

can be learned

compassion:

is showcasing care and support via words and actions

is something a person must actively choose to do

can be learned

if you need an example of a person with no empathy who practices sympathy and compassion, look no further than data from star trek: the next generation. he doesn’t have emotions at all, but he’s still kind to people and wants to help them.

stop telling people that they’re evil because they don’t experience empathy. stop equating empathy with morality. stop equating empathy with caring. stop saying that cruel people “lack empathy.” stop throwing neurodivergent and mentally ill people under the bus.

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amrv-5

Does anyone know what to do about the temperature and also the prices

nightonblogmountain

enbyfication

im not saying we shouldn't be calling out hypocrisy but i do think it's important to be aware of what i call the Two Different Guys Fallacy. and that's that whenever you're thinking to yourself, oh how come X group claim they want this thing but also support that other incompatible thing. take a moment to stop and consider whether it could just be Two Different Guys that think each thing

#i feel like this comes from a general resistance to viewing groups as being made up of many different individuals #we forget that when we say things like “Group X do Y” that's an average or trend not necessarily a thing every *individual* member does #and then when a group contains contradictions we view that as a failure of the group to be consistent #rather than a failure of the categorisation itself to capture the nuances and individual differences within the group

depsidase

shuttershocky-deactivated202512

Western passport holders will never understand. To go anywhere with a third worlder passport like a Filipino one, you need your tax returns, certificate of employment, bank statements, marriage certificates, sometimes a recommendation from a citizen of the country you want to travel to, everything possible to prove that you have a job and a family at home and you're not planning to be an illegal immigrant, JUST to get hit with a rejection because the embassy didn't believe you had enough proof.

Did you have travel plans? Already booked the plane tickets and hotels? Fuck you, better hope they issue refunds (they don't).

bloodmech

Americans and Western Europeans will never understand how insanely hard and bothersome it's to travel anywhere with a weak passport, let alone immigrate.

You want to study abroad? Show us proof that there is a quadrillion dollars in your bank account. Oh, an average monthly salary in your country is $400 and you plan to work when you arrive? You can't do that, silly, a student visa only allows you to work 2 hours every third Wednesday, and if we find out that you're working a second more we will deport you.

You want to work abroad? Better be a programmer, then of course you are welcome. Doctor, scientist, white-collar or, god forbid, blue-collar worker? You can fuck right off, your visa application goes straght into trash.

But if you marry one of our first-world citizens, then fine, you can come. Because we can't upset them, after all, they are a real person, unlike you.

xantissa

EU Advice to people who have friends in places with weak passports- go to your department of foreigners and ask for something that called Formal Letter of Invitation or something similar. It usually is called something similar and costs a few euro/whatever currency you have. It will not be more than a fancy coffee at Starbucks or such place.

You will have to prove that you can afford a guest, have some income and also usually take responsibility for possible deportation cost.

But if you really are inviting a friend over, they will give you a formal document you can send to your friend. Then the friend applies for a visa while attaching the Very Official document with it. They will get the Schengen visa and most probably will get it expedited too.

It's some effort, but if it's for a friend it's worth it. And it's way less costly than the ridiculous loops the friend is being forced to go through and pay for multiple 3rd party services just to get a freaking visa for a month.

#a thing i was aware of in that vague way but had never really stopped to fully consider the implications of tbh #appreciate this a lot #also v useful advice on that last addition that i will keep if it comes up in future thank you!

tboy-cock

"trans people who use their natal genitalia during sex are also equally trans to people who dont" and "you should not assume that all trans people want to use their natal genitalia during sex in the way that you expect people with those genitals to or at all because theres a high likelihood that the trans person in question is dysphoric and doesnt do that" are two ideas that can should and do coexist. you can simply ask a trans person how they prefer to have sex/if they want to have sex at all if you're trying to have sex with them btw

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