fix your hearts or die

in another universe i dont take every opportunity to look for signs that you still think about me

I promise you things will get so much better when you start processing people’s behavior as information rather than a verdict on your self-worth. If someone doesn’t text back, suddenly pulls away, whatever it may be, the solution isn’t to put on a tap dance for them and try to regain their approval. It’s not to crash out on them and try to force them to react a certain way. It’s just to take a step back, take a deep breath, and assess what this tells you. What’s this saying about them? What’s this saying about you??

I love when I remember my life can be as beautiful as I want it to be…

“but if i communicate it perfectly then they will understand me” WRONG 10,000 years of suffering

And for the lady, perhaps reassurance without having to ask for it?