DL Abbey Bayers

I know this is a split topic in the diaper user and wearing community but I thaught I’d share my thaughts on how I go about it.

I usually start in the morning with putting my bag up, I mix in a little coffe to get the process started, I use warm water and attach the catheter to an anal plug. The plug is important to keep the tip of the catheter inside and prevent leakage. It also feels a lot better, then after 10/15 minutes of letting about 1-2 L in, I remove the tip from the rectum and pad up the diaper. There may be some discomfort during this but remember to keep the enema inside. Close up the diaper with a booster pad inside and plastic pants if at hand, and wear an onesie for support and easy access. Then it’s just to go on the couch and enjoy the enema doing its work, I love sitting on the couch until it just really bursts… I’ll lean over and just let it all out…

This helps a lot when I have some bloating or congestion… feel free to share your experience on the comments or on dms. Love you all

A lot of u have been asking for some tips when going out diaperd and here are my tips for the winter season. This story is from my morning yesterday before going out in the snow.

After waking up and having changed my overnight diaper, which was wet, I grabbed a fresh diaper, it’s important to have thick diapers that both hold a lot and that are comfortable. I use booster pads inside, usually I place them well over my private area and almost as far back as my butthole. Then I place another one further back in order to prevent leaks.

Plastic pants are great to contain smell, and leaks should those happen. I tend to put on a onesie or leggings on over in order to stay comfy and have something that keeps the diaper snug and in place. When going out, it’s important to put on something that will keep you dry on over, recommend some snow pants or similar…

Thereafter you can go out and enjoy the day without having to worry, I went just around the block, pushed out a pretty big mess, sat down and slid down the hill, it was so much fun and everything was contained inside. FYI. You can head yourselves in the comments, in the wool leggings, is it the front or the back of my crotch? Hint hint, it’s wet…

So as an experienced diaper user, I thought I’d share some insights with the ones of you that have bowel accident as well.

Firstly it it’s important to choose the correct diaper in size and in the level of comfort and safety. Secondly you need a big back pad, as your going to sit down and still do your normal everyday taskes, you don’t want any leaks, and yes, it will spread both up the front and especially the back. Thirdly, good leak guards are a must as they keep everything nice and inside the diaper. The diaper in the photo is well used when I was at my aunt. At the time I didn’t even notice as I was laying on the couch and just rolled over to let a fart out, before I knew it I felt a huge load slide out into the seat of my diaper… now I tend to be a little too lazy to change right away so this is what happens when you lay around on the couch with a wet and messy diaper.

Here you can see the long back padding is important to keep everything inside, booster up front is recommended if you tend to pee a lot as well, ask me in PMs if you need advice or help.

Thanks so much for the question and for noticing, I thought I’d give y’all an update on my weight journey. I’ve definitely gone from using M size diapers to XL where I’m at right now, my main areas of gain have been pretty sweet, with both my breast, butt and crotch area gaining noticeably… I’ve also been able to put on a pretty big Fupa, for those that don’t know what that is, look it up 👀

I find it pretty sexy, and I’ll continue to update u guys, this is me before heading out into the garden a couple of days ago down south…

So as most of u know, me and my ant are quite close and she helps me out with a lot of my diaper stuff when I’m over at hers.

Last night we had a movie night where she had a special diaper for me, she had gotten a pack of trest elite briefs that hold about 2500 ml. As you can see that crests a pretty big bulge when waking up…

So nice to to dont have to worry about the sofa or anything during the move or the night, there was even good room to finish this morning diaper off with a nice mess. As you see, the leakguards are doing their job. Nice to wake up to a thick warm and soft cushion between the legs….

Hey yall, it’s been a while since I last posted something and I appreciate each one of u…

I’ve gained quite a bit of weight lately and been good with wearing 24/7. This morning I was laying in bed and ofc I had an accident… tbh I was too lazy when I felt the urge to mess, so I rolled over, dragged the diaper a bit down to make space and pushed, put slid a big soft mess, the leak guards were doing the best they could to keep it all in…

When I say up I could feel a warm sensation moving up the front of my diaper, it ticked my u know where and I obviously had to get my wand and cum a cupple of times, good way to start my morning tbh…

Appreciate you all, xoxo

you see that bulge, yep that’s my overflowing pull-ups, with even a booster pad it’s not able to half it all in…

A pro tip for new girls in diapers and boys for that matters is wearing black spandex as you don’t really see wet spots, but boy do you see a bulge…

What would you do if you saw my bulge?

I’m back y’all, after some summer vacation and getting off socials, I’ve finally landed a new job, for those of you who know I was actually searching, I’m now going to work part time in an adult care facility with some part time days at the local kindergarden… so there will be diaper both places which you know suits my needs.

for those of you who have asked for a weight update, I’m gaining slowly but getting there. I’ve mostly gained in the right places like belly, breast, butt and crotch. Updates to come.

appreciate all the kind messages, again if you would like to, are able to help me out, I would appreciate an Amazon gift card. If not, that’s totally fine as well but it would mean supporting this jurny and blog.

I’m not really a fan of those anonymous questions, but I’ll address this issue as a lot of people ask me similar questions, especially females that also wear.

first of all, I have to types of messy diapers, accidents and those on purpose.

accident usually happen if I’m out and about and just can’t find a bathroom or something, or on a roadtrip type…

now I will admit that when I’m home, I do the d to be quite lazy, and if I have to go, I usually wear a couple of layers over the diaper, meaning its a lot of hassle getting it off. I’ll usually just roll over on the couch or lift up from my chair to go. Now I’m two sided on this, sometimes it just doesn’t feel good to be messy, I mean as a now 25 year old, walking around in a shitty diaper isn’t the best feeling, I’ll then usually change right away. Now as I’m 25 and also a DL, I sometimes get really horny by pushing out a mess, then I’ll usually rub the diaper or get my wand, as dildo and messes aren’t a good combo… if I’m really horny I’ll usually cum a cuple of times in the diaper or with the diaper off, depending on what I like.

Hope this helps others and gives a good answer to your question.

if you’d like to support me, I do buy most of my diapers and supplies of Amazone, so a gift card is appreciated if you enjoy my content, as I use quite a lot of time making it and showing you all.

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So I thought I’d update you guys on what’s going on lately. I’m still laid off unfortunately, but I’m actively seeking a new job, both in nursing and in other professions. Got an interview at Dairy Queen next week so that might be part time.

Other than that, I’ve been eating a lot of fast food in bed and have surprisingly put on a bit of weight, both my breast, hips, butt and you know what’s between my legs has grown over the past few weeks.

As I appreciate all the messages and the kind support, I do want to ask those of you who have a bit to spare to maybe get me an Amazone Gift card so I can stay diapered. Again, would be seen as a token of appreciation.

Thanks to everyone following, here are some home updat photos, enjoy.

Have been laid off work so I’ve been quite the lazy girl lately… this means a lot of junk food, gaming, watching tv and not even going to the bathroom… I’ve added a bit of weight as you guys can see, I almost have to go to XL diapers now as these large ones are having some issues… let me know what you favorite junk food is to eat while padded?

does it fit me well or is it a bit too tight?

let me know in the comments!

As most of you who follow me know, I do spend some time at my aunts during weekends. And as you also know I tend to not really sleep in onesies as I’m not to much of a fan of them, rather body’s with a crotch snap…

Anyways, this is me after waking up this morning and before putting on some sweatpants. I woke up and felt a fairly big fart making its way into the seat of my diaper, as I was laying on my stomach… seconds later I just feel a huge load just following after, without any notice or possibility of stopping it. It completely filled the seat of my diaper and before I knew it, I was called up for breakfast. I have my room in the basement when I’m at aunties.

I put on some spandex shorts over in the hope of it maybe concealing my big bulge in the back… not sure auntie really saw it during breakfast, but there was this squishy sound as I sat down and I could just feel it spreading around my crotch area. She gave me a good squeeze in the back of the diaper as I was on my way back down. She’s not the biggest fan of having me soil my diaper but luckily I was after all in a diaper.

She asked me if I wanted a change right away to what I replied that it wasn’t anything to worry or hurry about. So I want onto playing some The Sims before she insisted on me getting a change…

Thankfully is she very understanding and doesn’t judge an accident, after all, I think she is getting that I apart from needing diapers also actually enjoy the feeling of wearing them and using them.

Wish you all a pleasant and padded Sunday folks.

Ps. Thanks for everyone in the PMs, you’re all great people

Okey, I wanted to address this issue as some of you have asked me if I I first of all wear a diaper when swimming and secondly if so, how do I do it.

So the baseline is that, yes, I do wear a diaper when in a pool, the few times I’ve been on a beach, I have gone without due to the sand and all that.

Now I mostly use my aunts pool and it’s privat so there it really doesn’t do that much, but first of all, a swimsuit is a must. I’m sorry to say but biking and diapers aren’t a good fit. No swimsuit actually work very well, as they both cover and keep everything in place.

Thirdly, remember what diaper your using and if it’s necessary, for urin, the diaper won’t really do much when in the water, I wear only for the instance of having a messy accident. And remember to wear swim diapers, or adult urinary pads the wrong way ;) In that case, some of you have suggested that the swimsuit in it self can act as a diaper but I don’t find that satisfyingly hygienic.

So here are some pics of me in my swimsuit wearing a diaper underneath.

Do you have any good advises for me to handle it?

Thx a lot:)

Tristan

I totally understand the situation and how it feels. So first of all it’s sort of good to note down when you have an accident so you sort of keep track.

When I go out I don’t take any chances as messing on my thong would be really bad… at home I’ll sometimes wear a thong after a change as I know I’m done. In this case I usually do so to get some off diaper time, I’ll then wear heavy pads in my underwear to contain dribbling and a potential mess for a while… in this case I’ll usually wear spandex or tights over in order to keep it all in place.

at night I’m diaperd as I usually pee the bed and sometimes wake up with a difficult stomach… and you don’t want any of that in your bed. I also sleep on padded sheets in order to contain leaks. At night I might sometimes wear an onesie or just the diaper, depends on what I feel for.

hope this helps and good luck!