have you noticed that when someone goes ‘i was bitten by a dog once and now I’m kinda wary around them’ most people are like ‘aw, I understand’ but if a woman says she’s been raped/abused by men in the past and is now scared of them she gets told she’s paranoid and needs to get over it?

girl listen if your boyfriend makes you feel like shit or makes you feel like everything is your fault then you can and should leave him. you do not deserve that shit, you deserve someone who makes you feel good. You can leave him and be happy, you can leave him and find someone else, someone better who deserves you.

"but feminism wouldn’t be anywhere without men, you need us!!”

sorry but fuck it I still stand by what I said. some girls do need to be taught things when it comes to feminism. some girls do need someone to point out things to them and to correct them and push them in the right direction. I’m not a perfect feminist and I didnt say I was but I do know more than other people and I am in a position where I can help folk and open their eyes to things they might not know about.