i need to think of a better title

also my insurance isnt covering my fibromiyalgia meds so thats 15 dollars i need too. anything helps.

$75/200 thank you!!!

I have been on multiple dates where they assumed I was transmasc, and was ghosted when they realized I was transfem. I know it happens when I am inexplicably treated with dignity and respect on accident

I've talked to a lot of lesbians, and most assume (because I am butch) that I'm transmasc. Also because I have a deeper voice, a lot of people assume that I'm on testosterone. When they find out I am not, that's where pleasant conversation ends. Queer people are fine with a masculine woman, except when she's transfem.

Happened to me a few times earlier in my transition when I presented more non-binary. Stubble also grew out disgustingly swiftly and contributed to these kinds of misunderstandings. And yeah the amount of people who ghosted me after finding out I was a transfem was all but one of the people with the misconception (and that one still stopped seeing me as a viable romantic partner after realizing)

at some point after I started E, I started getting he/himmed in the same conspicuously-supportive way that I had been getting she/hered. took me a while to figure out that that people were thinking I was transmasc. I didn't understand why they were conspicuously supportive but, when I corrected them to she/her, they'd give me this politely strained smile.

happened to me at a bike mechanic when I was getting my wife's bike fixed. They seemed to intuit me as transmasc until when I had to give my name for their billing system - since we got a free repair and tuneup if something happened in the next few months, they needed to record a name. <Fem name> I offered. "Nah, you can use your real one." "Yes, <fem name.>" (bike mechanic gets moment of realization and starts treating me like I don't know what fucking pedals are, after I've spent the past hour talking shop about bike and electronics repair)

i know you may feel it's a compliment, but i don't wanna be anyone's "transition goals". for one, there is no end point to a transition, it's a forward journey. my girlfriend will be on estrogen for the rest of her life, and that's awesome. for two, my body is mine and your body is yours. putting my cis body on a pedestal to compare negatively to yourself isn't healthy. your goal should be to find yourself in your transition, don't look for others. i do encourage you to look at my belly and see yours and smile, to look at my boobs and eat that extra pastry. but i'm not to be put on a Goal Pedestal. i'm just a happy fat woman hoping to encourage more happy fat women.

bunny bunny bunny, must be funny, in a clover field

if you follow me and reblog from real sex workers (yay!) but you also reblog stolen porn i will be blocking you. just because that stolen porn gif is hot to you doesn't mean you need to reblog and spread it. please, be better.

once again hopelessly asking - is there anyone in Portland, Oregon who could maybe take in a trans girl and her cat for a bit if things fall apart next month? I don’t wanna be on the street and I don’t wanna lose all my stuff and especially Oliver

calling the trans woman the "real" men's rights activist is not the epic own you think it is btw

I need to get sluttier

transmascvoicesproject actively hunting down and exterminating every last shred of his credibility

mousidy why do you exclusively refer to me with he/him or they/them pronouns? i use she/her and he/him and I do not use they/them, but ive noticed you exclusively use he/him or they/them for me. i respect you as a woman so i do not understand this degendering and misgendering you are doing to me regardless of our other disagreements

idiot jail for ignorant beasts

Sisyphus

one must imagine sisyphus ouppy

also my insurance isnt covering my fibromiyalgia meds so thats 15 dollars i need too. anything helps.

$75/200 thank you!!!