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game: has any kind of elemental based fighting system

It makes me really happy that hdg is a setting where regression is so normal, it makes me happy ^_^ that its a popular thing with regression as like a major thing you know?

I'm a trans man and not really stealth at all, and one thing I've noticed transandrobros say that just isn't true from my personal experience is that our male privilege is revoked once people find out we're trans, even if we pass. Sure, there'll be some ratbags that misgender me when they find out. But I've noticed I get more respect now from family, old friends, people who knew me before transition and know I was, for lack of a better phrase, "born a woman" (I wasn't, but that's how they'd treat it, yaknow?)

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yeah, people hate when you point it out but the combo of how restrictive femininity is and the voice effects of T legit make it easier to pass as a trans man. i'm a trans guy and i started T less than a year ago, and i'm already passing completely in public despite not changing any of my mannerisms (and being short lol). granted, i'm really lucky in a lot of departments! i'm pretty flat so binding is easy, i got lucky with voice changes, and i'm skinny, which makes passing easier in either direction. there are absolutely trans men who can't pass without surgery. but my coworker is a trans woman, and has been on HRT longer than i have, and still gets "sir"'d by customers constantly. she does the things women are "supposed to do", she voice trains, has long hair, and wears makeup, but between the two of us it's me who's gendered correctly more. and that's absolutely cause it's just easier to be seen as a man. we're both thin, both white, both transitioned in our late teens, the only difference is gender. i get out of bed and go to work exactly as i am, she goes through a whole routine and still gets misgendered. it isn't fair, it pisses me off, but if you point it out people get so upset! i'm not sure if it's insecurity from other men or what. it's not easy to pass as a man by any means, but it's harder by miles as a woman, and pretending it's 1:1 is just ignorant, and hurts your understanding of transmisogyny and misogyny in general. sorry to send such a long message, i wanted to offer my experience but it ended up being long-winded. tldr i agree with you and i think it's important to say

agree with the other people saying trans men pass easier, struggling to voice why exactly but i wanted to add another voice to the mix. even when not passing the way im treated (im tme, enby) changes drastically based on whether people think im a trans woman or man when i call myself trans for the first time. either i am treated like i said something random and i still get she/herred or i am treated like a Angry Weirdo who only now is "that person" and "hides it well" and a t slur. feels so obvious to me that trans men pass easier cause women r so under scrutiny all the time 4 everything.