When we care about someone, we're allowing them to care about us. And with that, comes the responsibility of not letting this person feel regret, or wishing they'd never met you.

Take care of yourself. Don't be selfish. Don't be the cause of unnecessary pain.

I've seen too many people go out of their way to intentionally hurt someone. Why is it so difficult to just consider someone else's feelings?

I've been on both sides. I had a relationship that wasn't for me, so I left. But I left with kindness. I left them in a position where they could look back on our relationship and be happy that it happened. I never wanted to give them a reason to look back on it and question it, because that's what happens. That's what happened to me. My ex broke up with me and instead of saying "hey this isn't working anymore, this is why and here's how I feel" he did none of that. He took everything from me in a matters of hours then proceeded to just use me when it suited him. To this day, I don't understand what happened, and to this day, I still ask questions. It's been 2 years and I'm still full of doubt and anxiety about it and it's stopping me from finding someone else I can be happy with. Don't do that to a person you once cared about.