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photos by mike roberts, masa ushioda, peter liu and doug perrine of green sea turtles being cleaned by yellow tangs, goldring surgeonfish and saddle wrasse. by feeding on the algea and parasites which grow on the turtle shells, the fish not only keep them clean, but reduce drag, helping the turtles to swim faster. 

Greetings sweet soul! <3 <3 <3 You have presented agreat question that almost everyone can relate to. When people start talkingabout the idea of “forgiveness”, it can get a bit messy. I think our humanbrains tend to define forgiveness as, “I shouldn’t feel the way I feel.” We canchange our feelings and our beliefs in the long run, but it is okay and evenhealthy to sit with the way that we feel (whether it be hurt, sad, or angry)and allow ourselves to be Present to that process. Forgiveness is all aboutaligning with what feels good because feeling good is all anyone really wantsto do. The paradox is that the only person you are ever forgiving is yourself.It seems like you are angry atothers, it seems like you are sadbecause of outside causes, but the reason why you are really angry is quitedifferent. You are angry and hurt because some form of outside stimuli broughtyour attention to the anger and sadness and frustration that you are holdinginside of yourself.  You were merelytriggered to release! “Sub”consciously you know that you cannot move forwarduntil you do the releasing… but since you are upset you want someone else (anoutside stimulus/stimuli) to complete the healing process for you (not just you…we have all been here at some point in time!). Because the process appeared to start with the externalworld, it only makes sense that our brains would lead us to believe that thesolution is wrapped up in another person’s apology or change of behavior.  

The fact is this: you are not wired to suddenly say thathumanity’s idea of “bad behavior” is magically morally right all of a sudden.Eventually we can get to a place where we do not place negative definitions onanything, but right now the negativity is benefiting us by prompting releasesof old pain (even pain from past lives!). By human standards whoever hurt youprobably did something that was really bad by 3d definitions. The point is totake the focus off of the actual behavior and to find the benefit in theexperience for you. What did youremember about yourself? What beliefs are you releasing and processing? Youchose this experience because you love yourself enough to work through the messso that you can breathe more freely and live more in alignment with yourhighest joy. =) The people who have hurt you have helped you to know who youare and have helped you understand your own Power a little bit more. Sure, onthis level they may not be aware of it, but on the higher planes of existencewe are all friends assisting each other on our evolutionary paths. =) Theminute that you accept the benefit you have received from your interactions isthe minute that an entirely new energy flows through you. You are no longer avictim or a captive to negative emotions. You are open to growth andself-gratitude and following your dreams. That is all forgiveness is. It is a change of focus and an allowanceof new energy that will eventually bring you back to a place of Pleasure.<3

A gift from Bashar & Your Higher Self: This video is ameditation and an opportunity for release. <3 Sit in a peaceful place andlisten to this Beethoven selection if you feel excited to do so. The frequencyof this masterpiece will hold a space for you to attract whatever healing oropportunities you require in this Moment. The video explains it in greaterdetail. =) Thank you for your beautiful question. You have brought my focus to an even deeper place ofrelaxation and joy. Thank you for co-creating this message with me! <3 <3<3 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qzhu4gBxxnM

You are very welcome! <3 Sometimes we’ll do a phone call/session like that with people where we are both on the line if we feel excited about it! =) <3 Every topic can be spiritual because it can show you more of who you are. 

Neither Chris nor the previous person he was with was awful… unless you mean awe-full… Full of awe. =) I don’t get angry because my brain just isn’t wired that way and my bliss is too great to be affected by physical circumstances (Bill says that is what it means to be a sylph… which humanity can easily emulate). I am also not possessive at all which contributes to the lack of anger or negative feelings in that circumstance. I just want everyone to be happy. I view everyone as family. When you are angry with your “brother” (sister/mother/father/anyone in the world) it is because you feel in some way “cheated.” You feel that you have “lost” something even though nothing real can ever be lost or threatened. But. If you truly love your brother and yourself you could never deny your brother “heaven” aka a happy experience. What Chris and any other person may have created in the past is what they chose to create and that’s their business. From my perspective though there are only positive things that can come out of any situation if that is what you decide will happen. Positive examples for me that came out of it: 1. I received a crash course in humanity in that present state which enabled me to know what forms of healing were the most useful in that moment. 2. Other people remembered more about who they were through that situation. How could I deny them that? That’s wonder-full. =) 3. I love everyone. Really, I do. There were times when the people in this “situation” (by the way might I point out that the word sit-U-ation… means that you are sitting around rather than actively creating ;) ) didn’t want to believe I was that loving because they didn’t know that love like that existed. Well, now they know. =) Everyone is capable of a love that is pure and free. 4. I learned more about how humanity communicates. I’ve always been highly telempathic so when I am constantly flowing love to someone I used to assume that they could always consciously feel it. Now I know that although everyone is capable of telempathy and eventually that will be the ONLY way people communicate… not everyone is prepared to fully communicate that way with clear results. This falls under the crash course in humanity category hahaha!