Synastry For Long Term Relationships in Astrology

1. Strong Saturn Aspects

Typically in harmonious aspect but I’ve seen Saturn in hard aspect in longer-term couples. This is because Saturn is glue. He equals longevity. Seeing Saturn conjunction Venus, or on the 7th house cusp can indicate long term commitment. 4th house means committed home and structured family.

2. Venus in Harmonious Aspect to Saturn

People often associate love with responsibility. They are usually quite committed to their partners and they take their relationships seriously. I often see this aspect in couples that have been together for a very long time, [even if they are not legally married]. If this aspect is in the 5th house, it could mean a committed relationship where people may not even have a ‘title’. 5th house with these two is often the long term “f-buddy” aspect.

3. 12th House Overlays

Remember, the 12th house is also a very “spiritual house”, so there can feel as if there is a soulmate thing going on. When relationship significators are connected with the twelfth house, there may be a tendency to either keep relationships rather sheltered and private. The advantage of this is keeping others out. Usually, when relationships go south, it’s because too many parties are/were involved be it by opinion/busybodies or affairs. Ironically, 12th house overlays can be attracted to secret affairs or relationships. There is often a deep, inner need to look for support from a lover, and some pleasure is taken from keeping things private. This can happen when the ruler of the seventh or fifth house is situated in the twelfth house, or the ruler is strongly aspecting a planet in the twelfth house or the ruler of the twelfth house. 

4. 7th House Overlays

7th house rules marriage and partnerships. When there are mutual overlays or Venus, Moon, Saturn, the Sun here, this can indicate important and long-lasting relationships. Virgo 7th house can equate long life with someone else or “growing old together”.

5. Juno conjunct 4th or 7th House Ruler

Juno is the Roman goddess of marriage, The Greek Queen Hera’s counterpart. When someone’s Juno lands in the house of marriage or the house of home and family, this can be a strong indicator of a “spouse”. If she is making aspects to Venus, Saturn, or the moon even better.

6. Vertex conjunct Venus

Vertex in your chart is your fated point. Your karma. When the planet of Love is sitting on someone els’s point of “fate” it could mean a ‘fated’ connection in love. 

7. North Node Double whammies

North node is your goal in life Where you’re “headed”. When someone else’s NN conjunct yours they are meant to be in your life moving “forward”. For more context, see what houses they fall in and check transits.

8. 8th house Overlays

8th house is about shared resources, karma, death, sex, rebirth, etc. When Venus, Vertex, North Node, Saturn, Moon, or 7th house/12th house ruler land in a partner's chart here, there can be heavy and long term attachments between people. Remember, even though Saturn is considered “glue”, Pluto can also have a very long term “binding’ effect on two people. this house is quite literally the house of “til-death-do-us-part”.

9. Venus conjunct Uranus or Venus in the 11th House

This aspect is very good for people who live unconventional love lives. This placement/overlay can indicate two people who never get tired of each other. Romance could have birthed from friendship or out of the blue. There is always something exciting here. I see this aspect between swingers or those who have open marriages. If you get bored easily or are not a fan of traditional “monogamy” then this is the aspect/overlay for you.

10. Sun Conjunct Jupiter/in the 5th house or 7th House

{these are general things I’ve noticed so please don’t take it to heart, we are all unique individuals}

🥀Twins with moon in water signs or the 4th, 8th, 12th house have telepathic connection and tend to have sensitive reaction to the other. They can just sense each other and get a feeling of what the other is feeling at that moment, even when they’re not around together or in completely separate places. My twin and I have this and just a glare at each other is enough to understand. However, this placement can be toxic and test psychological mentality, they tend to be more private and hide some secrets from each other at times, and also jealousy and comparison is brought up everyday.

🥀Libra Pluto tend to be spiritual in some way or another and speak in a responsible diplomatic manner.

🥀 Many libra placements, especially libra sun girls tend to have long brown chocolate hair with either green, blue coloured eyes.

🥀For gestures, I have noticed this pattern with Scorpio Venus males that if they like a girl or are interested will put there hand on her lower back, hip area, (not ass cause they be slick like that) when she’s about to walk in front or next to them.

🥀If Virgo placements really like you or care they probs wouldn’t mind carrying your stuff around.

🥀 Leo moons, rising have the best hair. PERIOD!

🥀 Sagittarius moon, rising be those girls who either ignore you through the hallway or throw a smile which you misinterpreted to be a fake smile.

🥀In synastry, moon conjunct mars, (doesn’t matter what gender) makes the mars person feel that the moon person is warm, sweet and overall caring, and they would just feel comfortable whenever they are around them. Mars feels that there is no judgement when they express themeselves because the moon person is always sensitive enough to understand. Also whenever they are together they forget the world around them, and talk as just the both of them exist.

🥀Capricorn mars be THICK. Cap suns have amazing lawline.

🥀 Pisces Venus love alcohol.

🥀We can feel like a fool, like we’re being laughed at, idiots, and judged by those who have planets in our 9th house.

Pluto Retrograde will occur between April 25th, 2020 and it will go direct on October 4th, 2020. This is one for the collective and individual metamorphosis. This year has already forced us to face some parts of ourselves and the collective with new lenses. Pluto defines transformation, endings and the new beginnings that are about to come for us, while the collective is forced to revolutionize their thoughts and views of government. Those who were born with a Pluto Retrograde in their natal chart will understand how this gets activated for them when their world begins to change. This is synonymous to the Scorpio fixed energy, so change can be a way that activates their fight or flight mode. In the sign of Capricorn, we experience Pluto’s dominance, the power that has forced all of us to know where it has impacted our lives. We are learning to take back control if we have let others take charge of our lives. On the flip side, those who have been in a position of power will understand what it means to let go and not be too dominant. With Isolation and Quarantine, we are forced to see how much our independence and power is reliant on ourselves or others. How independent are you? Have you been able to exert your power prior to this? Who are you? Some questions that will present themselves if Pluto is aspecting your Angular Houses. We still have several years to go through with Pluto in Capricorn, so we still have a lot to learn and so does the world.

Aries – Pluto in Capricorn will show you what it means to take control. Learning to be a fair and just, especially when placed in management roles is pivotal now for the future when you achieve that position of power. Part of this learning process begins with observing what is going on in the world and applying it to your own personal life. You will discover if you have been practicing balance or if you still need to do some more work on yourself. Evaluating how you manage your power and control is a lesson that will continue to reappear until 2024.

Taurus – This transit has been an enlightening one for you, as you drop old notions and begin to craft a new path for your life. This Pluto transit making some smooth aspects to your sign will lead to lots of self-discovery putting a focus on where you see yourself in the future before Pluto moves to Aquarius, pushing you to change your public persona. This transit’s lessons will be valuable for you as you let go of the past plans and goals and focus on creating longer lasting ones.

Gemini – Capricorn planets have already wreaked some havoc in your life, especially when Saturn jointed the party in 2017. Nevertheless, you have been equipped to handle all of them, especially earlier in the year. The Pluto Retrograde is going to make you push and work harder for what you want. With Saturn temporarily in Aquarius, you do not feel the slow down, instead, you feel ignited to keep going, to power through until the end of the year. The setbacks are nothing, since you know where to find the strength needed to overcome.

Cancer – The focus for you will be on your ego and how it impacts your intimate relationships. Try to find the balance in them in order to help them flourish. If that is not the case, you will need to do a lot of introspection during this retrograde period, to analyze what it is you are missing to feel content. Your main goal at the end of the transit should be to achieve balance and harmony. If this is lacking, there is more work to be done.

Leo – You have become a warrior with this Pluto in Capricorn transit over the last decade. Now, with so much emphasis on the Capricorn Stellium from the beginning of the year, you drill down on your needs and wants during this Retrograde period. This has been your evolving period, as the routines have changed and you have been dealing with so many surprises, you no longer know what to expect. Do not fret, this should be easier for you now since you have gotten through the toughest parts. Your resilience should keep you ready and focused.

Virgo – There have been people in your life who have arrived and let go. This is related to romantic endeavors and your relationship dynamics with someone you may currently be in a relationship with. The Venus Retrograde and this Pluto Retrograde will bring back the past memories for you to see what needs to be changed in order to bring healthy and balanced relationships for the future. Of course, it all begins with the romantic phase. Open your eyes to what it is that is holding you back to achieve a fruitful partnership.

Libra – It has been a very long period of time that you and fellow Cardinal signs have had to deal with Pluto’s transit and now the Capricorn Stellium earlier this year seems to have ignited something more. You have fought through the challenges, have asked for breaks and this Retrograde period will make you revisit somethings that you will need to overcome once more. Trust that you are strong enough to keep going. Having faith in yourself during these transits is key. The toughest parts are behind you. You are the expert on balance, and this will help you reclaim your power.

Scorpio – Your focus now will be on how you carry yourself with others and the relationship you have with family. This Pluto Retrograde asks you to be more mindful of the things you say and your actions. You are learning more about yourself and the energy you carry within. As a sign ruled by the planet of change and transformation, this can be a walk in the park for you. A new phase in your evolution begins now, as Saturn prepares to leave Capricorn later this year and changing your foundations again.

Sagittarius – The wounds from your Saturn transit are still visible and in need of some healing. This Pluto Retrograde transit reminds you of the moments where Saturn in Sagittarius left a stinging sensation and old wounds will resurface. Try your best to keep working hard, think about yourself, your achievements and how much you are worth. A lot of things might not be going your way, but you must remember to be patient. Time heals and your work will be able to give you fruitful results after this transit.

Capricorn – Pluto has been in your sign for over a decade. You are used to what is happening but still have your moments where you feel powerless. Here you will try yet again to fight for your power, a lesson that continues to repeat itself. Exert your power and control, do not let others take advantage of your generosity in relationships. Remember to also be generous with the ones who deserve it, to express love and be mindful. Pluto is changing who you are, tearing you down and rebuilding you. Retrograde will make you see how far your process is.

Aquarius – With this Saturn shift in your sign, you might feel less of the pressure that the Stellium had earlier this year. Pluto and Jupiter are still in Capricorn, but the retrograde period will be lighter and more of a learning experience regarding the wounds of the past. Your willingness to heal, understand and to let go of grudges will help you flourish. Pluto here wants you to learn from mistakes so that when it moves to your sign, you will have the strength to take on control.

the north node and south node are both important components of a natal chart.

they are not planets, but points on the ecliptic where the moon crosses the sun’s path. the nodes are on an axis and therefore are always opposite each other.

THE SOUTH NODE 💫

the south node reveals the gifts we bring into this lifetime and our comfort zone. some may experience childhood through the south node leanings. the south node indicates the path our souls have experienced many times, and therefore it brings a sense of familiarity.

THE NORTH NODE 🌟

the north node is the karmic path our soul chose to take in this lifetime. the north represents the learning our souls have to undertake to step out of our comfort zone. the karmic path set for us is not meant to be easy. the north node indicates the path which will feel spiritually satisfying and fulfilled.

ARIES/LIBRA NODES 🌹

aries north node/libra south node

is learning to release: taking the comfortable path, avoiding challenges, being the peacekeeper, making compromises, putting others first, passive-aggression, codependency, being a side character.

is learning to embrace: being a leader, priotising their own goals, being comfortable alone, fighting for their beliefs, expressing anger in a healthy way.

libra north node/aries south node

is learning to release: selfishness, aggression, fighting, acting without thinking, impatience, relying on themselves too much, isolation.

is learning to embrace: the power of working together, cooperation, compromise, commitment, generosity, patience, making sacrifices for others.

TAURUS/SCORPIO NODES 🌑

taurus north node/scorpio south node

is learning to release: seducing, manipulation, strategising, the nomadic lifestyle, being overly secretive, relying on others money and resources.

is learning to embrace: simplicity, truth, grounding themselves, living in the moment, pure human connection, honesty, hard work.

scorpio north node/taurus south node

is learning to release: attachment to luxury, overindulgence, being too practical, staying in ones comfort zone, working harder not smarter, loyalty at their own expense, always providing for others.

is learning to embrace: spirituality, connection to the universe and divine, spiritual fulfilment, mystery, passive income, financial help.

GEMINI/SAGITTARIUS NODES ✨

gemini north node/sagittarius south node

is learning to release: ungrounded wanderlust, arrogance, opinionated behaviour, hedonism, being overly philosophical, greediness, fixating on the future, righteous zealotry.

is learning to embrace: activism, being in the present, playful exploration, active listening skills, partnerships, local activity and hobbies.

sagittarius north node/gemini south node

is learning to release: gossip, fixating on details, dishonesty, codependency, relying on others to initiate, staying in ones comfort zone.

is learning to embrace: focusing on the big picture, higher learning, travel, honesty, adventure, leaving ones comfort zone, autonomy, taking risks, travelling internationally, long-distance connections, multicultural friendships.

CANCER/CAPRICORN NODES ❄️

cancer north node/capricorn south node

is learning to release: elitism, defining oneself by their accomplishments, hierarchy, detachment, workaholicism, ruthlessness, isolation, competition, drive for materialism, mommy issues.

is learning to embrace: emotional sensitivity, family time, compassion, the feminine realm, domestic arts, maternal energy, burying, self-care, being inclusive.

capricorn north node/cancer south node

is learning to release: caretaking, codependency, passivity, shyness, fear of abandonment emotional responses, too much feminine energy, daddy issues.

is learning to embrace: leadership, being proactive, empowering others, living a public life, cool-headed vision, masculine energy, relationship with father figures.

LEO/AQUARIUS NODES ⭐️

leo north node/aquarius south node

is learning to release: people pleasing, the need to be liked, emotional detachment, being overly intellectual, not showing one’s feelings, too much nomadic living, rejection of material and sensual pleasure.

is learning to embrace: self-expression, collaborating with the elite, leading by example, luxury, tuning into one’s desires and sensuality, spoiling oneself and others, open display of affection.

aquarius north node/leo south node

is learning to release: attention-seeking, desire for drama, materialism, self-gratification, selfishness, entitlement, vanity, exaggerative emotional responses.

is learning to embrace: team spirit, collaboration, humanitarian causes, a sense of purpose, sustainable living, detaching from drama, objective and rational approaches, eccentric expression.

VIRGO/PISCES NODES 🌻

virgo north node/pisces south node

is learning to release: denial, deception, emotional manipulation, playing the victim, self-pity, excuses, nomadic living, not paying attention to detail, being bullied, abusive relationships, getting lost in daydreams and unrealistic fantasies.

is learning to embrace: accountability, leadership, personal responsibility, structure, grounding routines, paying attention to detail, mastering skills, setting clear boundaries, standing up for oneself.

pisces north node/virgo south node

is learning to release: perfectionism, escaping stress through addictions, worry and anxiety, doing things by oneself, controlling, micromanaging, skepticism, dismissal of intuition and divine guidance, gossip, verbal daggers.

~whatever planets are in retrograde in your chart are energies that you suppressed in early childhood that come out out of nowhere later in life

~natal moon conjunct mars is messyyyyyyy & needs to control impulse

~natal mars conjunct pluto is messyyyyyyyyy & needs to control obsessive behavior

~8th house synastry is very hard to keep control of and obsessive behavior is very common

~scorpio moons put you in the mood for chaos and taboo activities.

~chiron transiting your 7th house (especially right on top) can indicate a traumatic relationship

~natal and transiting planets are most powerful when right on top of natal house cusps

~ moon conjunct sun synastry is extremely comforting and could become codependent very easily

~venus conjunct sun synastry creates a very powerful attraction that’s hard to resist

~ in synastry, the house person is always affected more.  That’s just what i’ve observed.  Don’t hurt me

~since their house placements are unusual, people with intercepted houses often have a different vibe than people with the same rising.

~uranus conjunct saturn/10th house can indicate an unusual career

~sag moons are positive but sometimes negatively positive lmao.  meaning that they suppress their pain and try and manipulate themselves into feeling fine

~pluto/chiron in 3rd house can indicate toxic relationships with siblings including gaslighting, shaming, manipulation, control issues, etc.

~natal sun conjunct north node people are extremely connected to their higher purpose

~libra risings have very balanced masculine and feminine energies

~all fixed signs have big ass egos and need to open their mind

This is the seventh part of a twelve part series briefly explaining how the signs work in each house. Enjoy! 

The Seventh House ruled by Libra and Venus is known as The House of Partnership. If you’re wondering if there is an opposite to your Ascendant, look no further, it is your Descendant. The ascendant is the exterior self that we put out unto others, whilst the Descendant is the outer exterior of life that we attract. The people we draw in. It is the beginning of the southern portion of your birth chart. Marking a halfway point, hence the sharing of the axis with your Ascendant. Which is why it is tied to forming unions, coming together, and creating a bond with someone to complete a purpose. Here we are looking for our other half in life. We have done all our soul searching and now want to enjoy our rewards and create something bigger with someone else. It is when we are ready for marriage in life or to get serious with someone to take the next steps in life together. Unions are made whether they be romantic or business. It is the type of relationship that needs investment and time in order to thrive. In the Seventh House we are attempting to attract what makes us feel secure and safe, and how we go about locking down what we want for our future and with who. When things go well, these unions become prosperous and we achieve what we set ourselves out to do. When things take a turn for the worse we see the dark side of this partnership: divorce, getting married for the wrong reasons, lawsuits, treaties, creation of enemies, etc. It is important that when we tap into this house we attempt to invest with our best collaborators so as to see the full potential of what type of partnerships we can have. Libra and Venus rule this house, as we know Venus is the Goddess of Love and Libra is all about peace, harmony, and codependency, which are all traits that a relationship needs in order to succeed. Overall, when we begin our search to relate to others we do it so that we may become members of humankind and bring purpose into our foundations. 

In matters of love, the descendant is usually used to see what kind of people you attract and you will notice that it is the opposite sign of your rising sign. For example, I am a Cancer Rising, so my descendant would be Capricorn, so I tend to go for Capricorn type people when I date. I am an Aquarius Sun/Sagittarius Moon, Aquarius Mars/Venus, yet I tend to attract earth/water sign men and for the longest time I could not understand why. I now realize it has to do with my Cancer/Capricorn combo at play. This means that my Cancer Rising is calling the shots when I am looking for security in relationships, because I am looking for someone to protect my first house with their Capricorn traits. Let me know if you guys agree or what experiences you have to this house! 

To conclude, “The First House is the seed point of self awareness, and the seventh house is the seed point of the awareness of others.”  (Astrology Club) 

Aries in the Seventh House: This partner is as you’d expect it, a more playful, angry type. It’s the kind of partnership that brings in a lot of passion, enthusiasm, and energy. The relationships tend to be impulsive and not well thought out. Because of this, you struggle with the idea that your choices may be bad for you so you have a hard time dealing with conflicts and trying to make things better with your partner. You need to set boundaries in order to see the relationship for what it really is otherwise things will continue to be chaos.  The type of person who understands you will be able to keep up and carry the same strength and liveliness as you. They will be reactive to your actions, which is what you will love. Be weary of doing too much or too little in this partnership. Sometimes you fail to sit back and let things unfold and would rather take action thus resulting in people feeling like they can’t do things for themselves. Take the usual thought of “Me” and “I” and change it to “We” by putting your partner first and saying “after you.” If you learn to balance your passionate energy and direct it, you will see how much you can really bring to your partnership and not just yourself. In love, you may marry quickly and find love at a very young age, you can thank your Libra Rising charm for that. 

Taurus in the Seventh House: The other side of Venus, Taurus represents what is practical, earthly beauty, and the simple fine things in life. In contrast, Libra represents outer beauty, makeup, vanity, and pose. For this placement to work fully, it needs to balance both these energies for harmony. Otherwise there is a conflict of envy and feelings of not being “pretty” enough. The type of partnership meant for you must consist of sensual, physical contact, and intimacy. You also need someone to be serious because you enjoy a private life and wish to have someone protect that. Your partner also needs to bring stability and financial security to your life, as any Taurus, since you do love your material wealth. Taking things slow is your forte and you need a partner who is going to understand that, this will usually be annoying to most people, so be sure to communicate this in any relationship that you wish to invest in. Like Aries, you struggle with the doing too most factor or doing too less. Balance is key so don’t expect too much from your partner, and vice versa. Once you are able to acquire the mindset “what can I give?” instead of “what can I get?” you will learn to be a better Taurus partner.

Gemini in the Seventh House: The ever so intellectual and stimulating Gemini is drawn to partners that keep them entertained and give them all the mental connection they can get. However, since this is the house of partnership, be weary of having solely mental connections, when more philosophical ones are needed. Communication with your partner is key so that they are aware of your sensitivities and you don’t always appear cold or detached. Usually you’ll find yourself in social gatherings and meet tons of people, but never really form intimate bonds with anyone. Because of this you pursue/attract people that are younger since you like to be a teacher to them, which in turn feeds your soul. But in the house of partnership we can’t only be thinking of the self and what stimulates us, we have to be compassionate, understanding, and philosophical with someone else. You may go through multiple partnerships/marriages because you spontaneously enter unions and overthink yourself into oblivion. Just like you do people, you jump from project to project, which can frustrate any person that you are with since they never really know what’s going on in your mind. There’s nothing wrong with thinking of a million ways to do something, but for the sake of this union, it’s important that you are able to communicate and soften your mindset.

Cancer in the Seventh House: The influence of family is the heaviest in this placement. This can bring about limitations in the growth needed for an individual to be ready to provide for their partner. You will need to learn to form your own personal goals so that you may define your ego + personality without the shadow of your family. A functioning relationship for you consists of tenderness, emotion, intimacy, and a healthy family life. You are emotional,  sensitive, and need someone to nurture this part of you. However, in a negative light, your desire for such traits can lead to possessiveness and a lack of confidence, which are not healthy. The need for emotional harmony can sometimes lead to the destruction of your union since there is no balance, just neuroticism and intense emotions. Without even thinking, you might be finding yourself with people that can recreate a mother role, or vice versa, where you reenact the mother role. When you are able to separate the fine line between caring about someone and drowning in your need for them, you will see that you can offer close, personal emotions that are at the center of the connection with your loved one. 

Leo in the Seventh House: Known for your leadership qualities it is important to note that although you may be the bossy one in other aspects of your life, you actually let your partner take control of what goes on in your partnership. The reason for this is because your partner is a reflection of who you actually are inside, but your partner projects that outwardly in the relationship. Sometimes your partner may also be the star and attracts the attention, but you enjoy to see this and watch from their shadow. It makes you happy that your partner gets all this attention but belong to you. However, a happy union is one where both partners get the spotlight, not just one. You may not know it, but you need attention all the same, and can fall into a depression if you don’t receive it. If you’re wondering why you have strong enemies in your life, this placement may be why. The Leo qualities that you project may be bossy and not thinking of others which can be the reason that causes enemies. Your enemies are strong minded just like you but you will learn that with enthusiasm and energy, you can fight them off and get them to understand where you’re coming from. You want your partner to obey your rules, but you may struggle obeying theirs. Again, a happy matrimony will be of one where you both agree to listen to each other. There can be a tension of power play in this partnership, be weary. All you really want in life is romance and a candlelit dinner, make it known. 

Virgo in the Seventh House: There is a lot of criticism in the way you attract a partnership. You want them to give you what you want, often losing sight that they too have emotions and thoughts. You want your partner to bring to the table what you lack, and vice versa. Negatively, you strive for perfection which in turn affects your happiness. You care about practicality, certainty, and won’t make a move unless you are certain of the outcome. Like Gemini, your partner must stimulate your mind and keep you thinking. Because of this, your relationships are not the most emotional or sincere. Your partner might think the union is cool and dry, and don’t really know your where your heart is at. You spend a lot of time criticizing your partner, or they may be doing that to you, whatever the case it comes off demanding and ambiguous. This may be why you suffer in relationships. In the marriage department, you might have to go through a few trial and errors to get it right. By the second marriage you have more chances of being successful since you have more time to mature. Learn to give without expecting anything in return. Be realistic of high expectations and cut your partner some slack, you must be putting in the work as well. In this placement, we can no longer be selfish and have to think of our partner and how to make a union work. 

Libra in the Seventh House: This placement is in Its natural house, where Venus rules the seventh house, Libra is comfortable. In relationships, you take your time with choosing the best partner for you. What this person must bring is an attitude that tells you they are going to put the relationship above all else. This can have its negative and positive sides. You are likely to be more of a receiver than a giver here, hoping that your partner puts in most of the work. Be careful about this trait because you make it seem like you only care about yourself in this partnership. You tend to rely more on your partner’s support than they do on you, which can make your partner feel neglected. There can be issues of your partner feeling like their identity is being lost because they are catering to you most of the time. From the get go, your need for a relationship is established and hence why you are committed to finding a partnership. The right union for you is one of harmony and balance because you care about a partnership that can come to a middle ground. It’s all about keeping the peace here. In matters of business or at work, people are drawn to your naturally charming and energetic personality, but it is this same personality that tends to get taken advantage of.

Scorpio in the Seventh House: As always, Scorpio brings about deep, intense, powerful, and profoundly intimate partnerships. They can either kill you or bring you to life. Because of how passionate you come off and want your relationships to be, you might scare away those who are not able to handle such strong intimacy. Or flip the roles, and it’s you who might not be able to handle such a relationship. The traits of this placement bring about possessiveness and jealousy because of how obsessive you can be in your partnerships. However, this is a house of spirituality and union rather than just the self, so learning to let go of such obsessiveness is needed in order for your relationships to thrive. Once you are able to accept your weaknesses, you are able to accept everyone else’s which in turn makes you stronger. Intimacy for you is very serious and you will not become intimate unless you are sure the other person is serious about you too. Usually you care about your personal security and how your partner can make you feel safe, but here you must learn to acquire a security for all of life. Your partners will be magnetic, powerful, extremely passionate but this invites jealousy and darker more mysterious types as well. If betrayal happens in your partnerships, the result will be one of revenge and bitterness.

Sagittarius in the Seventh House: Free as the archer is, in a partnership you need your freedom In order to thrive. It is important for your partner to have a life of their own, completely independent of yours. If you are able to find such a person then this is who you will surely commit to. Clingy types that need your full devotion and attention will struggle with being happy because you will not be able to satisfy those who are codependent. When you do find the right person you will go out of your way to keep the relationship fun and exciting. Through adventure and travel is how you ultimately want to express your love. Anyone who is up for the journey will ensure a long lasting union. You are very curious and expressive of how you feel and think so you are interested in many subjects and people from all over the world. You always want to learn and have a thirst for knowledge so you like to learn from people storytelling their experiences. You may find yourself running from one experience to another, learning, and escaping to cope, but in this placement we must find a union within ourself and the world. If you think you are restless in your search for love, stop and take a breath, and try to figure out who is down for you to get to know you and your quirks. It will take another type of odd, open minded person to fully understand you, so if you haven’t found that yet, it’s only because you have not crossed paths with anyone like that yet. Rare people are hard to find.

Capricorn in the Seventh House: Success is sexy! You tend to attract partners that pretty much have their shit together. You are inspired by these types. The material and financial comfort that they have gained for themselves is something you want to be a part of because it makes you feel safe. Whether they provide it for you or you are inspired to achieve the same, this is the type of partnership you ultimately want. Knowing that your partner is FULLY taken care of, is 10/10 for you. If your partner can’t provide for you, what’s the point? However, you are not a gold digger. If anything, you want to know they can provide for you because you want to do the same for them. On a positive note, if both partners work hard, this will be a lasting union. However, if one does more providing than the other, than the relationship may have its faults and miscommunication. Problems of not being enough or feeling unsatisfied will emerge. Because of this, you are very picky and take your time committing to anyone because they have to be the ultimate package. If they don’t have everything you want, you will not pursue it. Those who do fancy you, you will find that you are stuck on them hoping for them to tie you down. This union is of patience, understanding, and stability. Very straightforward you see marriage as a coming together to help build an empire of sorts, such as marrying for status or wealth. Feelings of love may come second so it is important to express words of love to your significant other as to not make the relationship feel purely materialistic.

Aquarius in the Seventh House: The lucky fellow who captures your heart will earn your extraordinary loyalty. You demand a lot from a relationship, in terms of freedom and the space to roam as you please. In a positive union, your partner will also share these qualities. Huge know it alls you tend to project your superiority complex in your partnership and home. This makes you feel secure because you like to feel as if you have things under control. Perhaps you will find your partner through working for humanitarian groups since you tend to attract those that are fighting for a cause. Coming together with one other person may be hard for you because you are so independent and think for the world, not just for you and your partner. Be aware of how you may make your partner feel as though there is no passion outside of a group setting. You also have to be able to alone with them and connect with them on a higher level. You can’t be friends with your partner, well you can, but they have to mean more to you than just friends for this partnership to work. Once you are able to find the person who balances your need for freedom and power, you will reward them with your undying loyalty. Also be careful of your Leo tendencies to dominate your loved ones because if you’re attracting those with Aquarius qualities, they also value their freedom and independence, so give them the chance to be their own person and not someone under your rule. Overall, this union will be eccentric, unconventional, and exciting if your partner is willing to experiment with all the quirks and kinks you have to offer. Your partner will exude qualities of being a visionary, genius, and an intellectual. Try not to possess them and trust that they are yours without you having to demand for their attention! 

First house-

There is a highly energized, sexual included, here with Mars first house synastry. The Mars person can invigorate the house person getting them all energized. Mars here will probably be the aggressor when it comes to sex and that makes the house partner confident and feeling sexy. The house person will see the Mars partner as a bit aggressive, someone who will not be pushed around and they can find that attractive of the Mars person. With Mars here, the Mars person helps push the house partner to be better and healthier for themselves, they also help the house learn how to stand up for themselves. 

Second house-

To have someone’s Mars in your second house in synastry can bring in a sense of self-value to the house partner as the second house is the house of value and that includes self-worth with material things, Mars cannot help but be so complementary of them. There is a mutual respect for one another’s talents but the house person can see the Mars partner as a bit aggressive when it comes to money. The Mars person is able to come up with plenty of money making ideas, and with house there is a chance the two can make profits together. House person admires all of the Mars partner’s drive, ambition, and self-confidence, even if money seems like it’s always on the mind of Mars, the house partner won’t mind and will still be generous towards them.

Third house-

Non stop blabbering is what can be expected when third house Mars synastry happens. The Mars person especially becomes a complete chatterbox when around the house person, while they are inspired by the Mars partner to speak more of what is on their mind without holding back. The conversations between these two are stimulating and constant playful debates, but there needs to be cation as there could be a lot of heated up arguments to come along as well. The house person may view the Mars partner as someone who lacks finesse and can be impulsive with speech. The Mars person however could view the house partner as someone who talks a lot but never puts anything to action.

Fourth house-

In fourth house synastry, when Mars lands in this house there could be constant talks about home or family affairs. There could be discovery in that the two of them were raised in similar ways or one of them can remind the other of a family member in some way. With Mars here, the Mars person will talk and pry themselves way too deep into the house partner’s entire past and childhood, wanting to just really know the house partner. The Mars person can also show house how to stand up for themselves to family thinking that the house partner is a bit lazy and emotionally tied to family members. The house person may not like the insensitivity and aggression about family issues that the Mars partner has. If this is a romantic situation, there could be a strong desire to have a home together and if well aspected, home projects/improvements could occur. 

Fifth house-

If this synastry is a romantic one then having someone’s Mars in another’s fifth house is a very romantic, passionate, and playful one. Here the Mars person can arouse the house partner’s sense of fun and play, there is a comfort for them to be able to have fun and express themselves easily as they inspire creativity in each other. There is a strong romantic sexual attraction here, the house person can see the Mars person as someone who is sexually demanding and impulsive. The Mars person can’t help but be impulsive, they just enjoy being around the house partner and may always be the one to advance at house when it comes to pleasure. There is just this sense of urgency for the Mars person to have fun and be romantic in some way. 

Sixth house-

Now unlike fifth house, having another person’s Mars in another’s sixth house is not the most romantic but it is very helpful and can be great for a romantic relationship. There is a need to help each other out in some way for one another, Mars may take concern over the house partner’s health and well being showing them how to do things in a healthier way. The house person can give Mars insight on how to be more productive in every day life or work place. And like every other Mars placement, the Mars partner here will make the house person feel energized and want to be active and work together. If this is a business relationship there will be guarantee that these two will be very productive together.

Seventh house-

Here in the seventh house of marriage and partnerships, the Mars person can stimulate the house partner’s desire for relationships and commitments, but this is not the house of romance so the house partner may not act in such ways. There is a high competitive energy between the two with and the Mars partner being a bit aggressive trying to partner up with the house person.The house person is very attracted to the Mars partner,that is because the Mars person represents the qualities the house person seeks in a partner. The Mars person may find the house looks highly attractive and they could also teach the house partner how to stand up for themselves with relationships. If this is romantic the chances of getting married is high,even if this is not a romantic relationship this would be a great synastry for a business partner. 

Eighth house-

Just like the first house Mars synastry, eighth house can have a highly sexual energy to come with when someone’s Mars lands in another’s eighth house. A sharing of deep secrets that no one knows and sexual desires that others may see as taboo are discussed and possibly even tried out as the Mars person can arouse the house partner’s desire for physical closeness, intimacy and sex. The house person will see the Mars person as mysterious and they are able to get them to open up and discuss said taboo things, Mars though can pry themselves into the psyche of the house partner and they may go too far and and make house uncomfortable or they could use money as a way to keep the house person attached to them. There is a chance that one or both people here can go through some type of transformation. Could be good for a relationship synastry, but if divorce is to happen the same energy that fueled the intense sex will fuel the anger behind the split.

Ninth house-

Here in ninth house synastry, when someone’s Mars lands in one’s ninth house the house person is sparked into a desire to travel and explore and learn about other cultures and higher knowledge to expand. The house person will admire the knowledge that the Mars partner has but can feel like that Mars lacks spiritual insights and can grow tired of their “Holier than tho” attitude. The Mars person challenges the house partner’s religious and philosophical beliefs because they feel like house’s views are impractical even if both their philosophies are similar. There is an encouragement from one or both to travel or become advocates for some religious, cultural, or even educational cause. Can be good for relationships that involve traveling, but there could be a lot of heated discussions about beliefs.

Tenth house-

When a couple comes into tenth house Mars synastry, there is a strong desire to be public here as this is the house of public relations and status. Both partners here have similar career goals and if they are working together in politics or other public careers, they could elevate their social status with their partner around. The Mars person helps the house partner reach their career goals and offers plenty of assistance to get to them, they enjoy talking up the house partner acting as a PR person for them or a promoter. The house persons appreciates and admires Mars’ talent to talk people up and gets a new sense of confidence and drive for their career, they could even look up to the Mars partner as a role model.

Eleventh house-

There could be a lot of group activities or get togethers with eleventh house Mars synastry, there could be even a set of friends the two people here share. The house person accepts Mars as they are and can be like a muse for the Mars partner giving them plenty of creative ideas and put them into action acting as a group leader for whatever activity the house person came up with. The Mars person can sometimes always be the one to dominate and be alpha to whatever Mars and the house partner are doing. The house person is pushed by the Mars partner to be more aggressive and social as the Mars sees house as someone whose is eccentric and intellectually otherworldly. This can be great for a relationship synastry for a brings a great closeness to any relationship. 

Twelfth house-

i apologize if some signs seem more detailed than others. each section took the same amount of time, energy and thought. regardless, i hope this resonates with you. x

                                HEY HEY HEY • KATY PERRY.                 911 / MR. LONELY • TYLER THE CREATOR.

  LIBRA MOONS are internally romantic and sentimental. Have been dreaming about their fairytale ending since childhood. A perfectionist who needs to do everything in pairs. Almost more picky than a Virgo moon on a good day. Needs balance like a plant needs water. If something feels too one-sided, they will counteract it by whatever means necessary. The first of their friends to have a crush, their first kiss, etch. Often popular among their peers because of their sweet and understanding nature. Feelings of loneliness brings them to tears. Could have a lot of acquaintances, but nobody to reach out to in their darkest hours. Puts their “ugly” feelings in a box, which only further perpetuates the loneliness. Needs to learn to accept all of themselves, not just the parts that are beautiful and socially acceptable. If you can’t be yourself, then you’ll be perpetually lonely, Lunar Libra! Impressed and fearful of people who walk headfirst into conflict. Absolutely cannot handle discord, and will not be content until it’s over. Disagreements disturb their spirit. Cannot sleep at night if they feel like they hurt someone else. Is usually the one people go to after a get into a fight because they can see all sides. The nurturing figure was often fair-minded and highly invested in the Libra moon’s social life. This figure was easy to talk to about superficial issues, but too disconnected for deeper discussions.

                     POWER • KATY PERRY.                   FALL IN LINE • CHRISTINA AGUILERA FT. DEMI LOVATO.

SCORPIO MOONS are internally powerful and empathetic. They typically come from an environment that required searching for deeper clues. Trauma is deeply rooted in their psyche, but they don’t have become it. Rejects therapy ( although they often need it ) , because they don’t like the idea of another person getting in their head.  If they talk to you about their pain, know that they’re trusting you with the deepest parts of themselves. If you fuck up that trust, they will never forgive you. Holds grudges like a motherfucker. They will remember everything that you have said and done to them. Has intricate revenge fantasies includes them lashing out at you, but deep down, they wish to contain their power and use it for a greater purpose. You could know this person for years before you realize that you don’t actually know anything about them. Takes themselves very seriously, and reacts negatively to any sort of criticism. Holds onto emotional pain for much longer than they should. But when they finally let go, it transforms them on a deep level. Highly equipped to deal with intense emotions. Uncomfortable if there’s too much peace, and goes out of their way to create chaos. Unfamiliar with peace. What’s stability ? Who is she ? The nurturing figure was secretive and intense. Either the two have a strong and healthy connection, where they can tell each other anything, or their mother is the root of all of their trauma. Tread lightly with this one.

                              PARIS  • SABRINA CARPENTER.                     DON’T STOP ME NOW • QUEEN.

  SAGITTARIUS MOONS are internally fearless and philosophical. Everything in their life has a deeper meaning. Very optimistic because their glass is always half full. Treats each setback like a lesson. Builds a home inside themselves, so they never need more than just their bodies to feel safe. They have a mantra for pretty much everything, and feels that we were put on this earth for a reason. Either religious and invested in the higher power, or has their own definition of God. Emotionally nurtured by new experiences. Feeling sad? Travel to Greece! Feeling nervous? Travel to Cuba! Feeling happy? Travel to Japan!  If they’re unable to physically escape, they will mentally fly to another world. The only thing that could really get them down is entrapment. Always down for a good time, because they know that their time on this earth is short. A Sagittarius moon that is forced to stay in one place for too long is a miserable one. Speaks their mind, no matter what anybody else thinks. Used to offending people with their no-filter way of speaking.  Sometimes shoves their ideals down your throat and blows up if you don’t follow them. The nurturing figure was typically spiritual and foreign. This person could come from a different country, thus making the Sagittarius moon adaptable to different customs. They could also be highly religious and pass their spiritual learnings on. 

                           TIME IN A BOTTLE • JIM CROCE.                    HARD KNOCK LIFE • JAY-Z.

  CAPRICORN MOONS are internally mature and spiritual. Struggles with opening up, but they will always be there for you, whenever you need them. Feels like a loner who carries the weight of the world on their shoulders. These people are grounded in their own reality and believe that they have the power to control their destiny. Highly invested in their careers due to the security it offers. They place impossible standards on themselves, and then beat themselves up if they can’t deliver what they promised ( … to themselves ). Surprises others with by their highly spiritual nature, because they come across as “boring” or work obsessed. The person to call when you need a shoulder to cry on, but don’t expect them to say much in response. Acts like nothing bothers them and that’s the furthest thing from the truth. Puts too much responsibility on their plate and beats themselves up for not finishing it within a specific time period. Mastered the art of tough love, because it’s all that they know. Wants to provide for the people they care about. Doesn’t know how to let their hair down. The nurturing figure was often ambitious, but emotionally controlled. The Capricorn moon native could have felt like this parent’s career was more important than anything else. This placement is also found in the charts of people who have experienced intense trauma in relation to the mother (or lack thereof). Could also be closer to their father.

                        PEOPLE ARE STRANGE • THE DOORS.                           DAYDREAM IN BLUE • I MONSTER.

  AQUARIUS MOONS are internally independent and unique. They march to the beat of their own drum and feel at home with their fellow weirdos. Probably watches conspiracy theory videos and sends them to like-minded people. They’re not the go-to if you’re feeling emotionally vulnerable, but they’ll try their hardest to support you regardless. Feels guilty if they have let you down. Your lifelong best friend. Community minded. Sacrifices themselves for the benefit of other people and doesn’t get enough credit for this. Will do whatever they can to uplift a group that has been pushed to the side. Picks up the forgotten members of society and adds them to their clan. Has specific causes that they support with their whole heart. Struggles with one on one intimacy, yet loving towards their community of friends. Jokes about being part alien to hide the pain of feeling like an outcast. Pushes their emotions away. They know that every person in this world is different, so they’re non-judgmental and open-minded as hell. Arrogant about their intelligence and assumes that they’re superior to everyone else. They will be offended if you remind them that they’re just like everybody else . Not much catches them off guard or shocks them anymore.  The nurturing figure was mostly indifferent to the aquarius moon’s needs. Regardless if they’re conservative or progressive, this figure is stubborn about what they believe and refuses to admit when they’re wrong. Often unpredictable.

                   LOST IN MY BEDROOM • SKY FERREIRA.                    DAYDREAM BELIEVER • THE MONKEES.

i apologize if some signs seem more detailed than others. each section took the same amount of time, energy and thought. regardless, i hope this resonates with you.  x

                                                    I OWE YOU NOTHING • SEINABO SEY.                       BURNING GOLD • CHRISTINA PERRI.

ARIES MOONS are internally headstrong and autonomous. They don’t need anybody for anything and prefer getting shit done by themselves, on their own terms. Contrary to popular belief, I don’t think that they’re overly aggressive for no reason. Aggressive about what they want, yes, but they won’t start fights out of nowhere. Will stand up for themselves if they feel threatened or put on the spot. If they blow up (which is rarely, to be honest), they probably won’t carry it over to the next day because they move on pretty quickly. Tends to be impatient with oversensitive types that need more coddling to open up. If you want to keep them around, don’t run away from the slightest bit of discord. Prove to them that you can stand your ground and they’ll respect that. But they cannot be controlled, told what to do or bossed around. They’ll do whatever they hell they want to do, regardless of how it makes you feel. Lives by the quote “speak your truth, even if your voice shakes”. Stand with them or get the fuck out of their way. Will take push back as a challenge that they just HAVE to win. Needs to have some sort of conflict or struggle to get through, or they’ll make their own. Has better control of their wild emotions once they’re older. The nurturing figure taught them to stand on their own, because they only person they can depend on is themselves. This parent was strong and never backed down from a challenge (for better or for worse). 

                              OLD MONEY • LANA DEL REY.                             GOOD THING • ZEDD FT. KEHLANI.

TAURUS MOONS are internally stable and generous. Although they’re ruled by Venus, they’re pretty stubborn about getting their way, which can lead to unnecessary conflict.  Show they feel through physical touch and gift giving. They’re emotionally connected to their belongings, so if they let you borrow something, it means that they trust you with their entire heart. Their idea of a perfect night is laying in silk sheets, eating chocolates and listening to jazz music. Every piece of their belongings has personal significance. Keeps little memorabilia from their life experience (such as a cup from their favorite fair, a flag from their first concert). Freaks out if you touch their stuff without permission and does not like to throw anything out without highly considering it. Jokes about being a hoarder but is actually concerned with how much stuff they have. Their belongings might seem like useless trash to someone else, but hell will freeze over before they toss it. Needs to weigh the pros and cons of every purchase. Will buy you things out of generosity - but occasionally uses this as a means of control. Personally offended if you reject their gifts. Does not like to fight with the people they care about. Ignores chaotic emotions because it deeply upsets them.  Their caretaker was most likely affectionate and materialistic. If the childhood was healthy, this figure was always there with a good meal, warm shelter and kind heart.

                      NONE OF MY BUSINESS • CHER LLOYD.                  SUGAR HONEY ICED TEA • PRINCESS NOKIA.

GEMINI MOONS are internally restless and energetic. They often struggle with feeling their emotions, but don’t have an issue with explaining them. Because they’re ruled by mercury, they’re always thinking of a logical explanation to their feelings so they can quickly discard them and move on. To them, there’s a lot more things that they’d rather be focusing on. Easily distracted. Won’t get offended if you take forever to text back, because they most likely forgot about the conversation anyway. sense of humor was developed at a young age. Definitely makes memes to make their loved ones laugh, and they’re personally offended if they receive a lukewarm response. If you want to catch their attention, strike up a conversation. They’re always willing to chat about their latest intellectual findings. Communication nurturers their soul. If they’re in a bad head space, let them ramble and talk it out, even if it doesn’t make sense at the moment. They need to get out their emotions in order to make sense of them. Books are important to them, because they’re always reading and learning new things about the world.  Their nurturing figure was most likely popular, youthful and pushed for their education. This parent was typically on the phone, babbling away, and preferred to keep busy. The mental connection between the two is strong, and the Gemini moon will never forget the lessons and teachings that were taught.

                             TRUST • CHRISTINA PERRI.                               50FT • LAUREN JAUREGUI

CANCER MOONS are internally intuitive and compassionate. Due to their strong connection with mother moon, their moods are as unpredictable as the tides. If you’re a close friend of theirs, you already know that their feelings about their mother changes every day. Feels their emotions with such intensity that they’re almost afraid to express them. But it’s almost impossible for them to hold everything inside. Does well in therapy, because they’re finally in a safe space to express everything that’s on their mind. Will only feel secure if they place to call home, and a family to depend on. Understands that family isn’t always who you’re born with - it’s who you choose. Don’t ever think about hurting anyone that they care about. If you do that, you’ll see their aggressive and protective side. However, they will only attack if they feel provoked. If given a chance to let their guard down, they will show their sensitive soul without bounds. Once they know that they can trust you, you’ll experience the sacred part of them. Has a habit of nurturing broken souls, so they need to be careful about who they associate themselves with. Never forget a slight or an act of kindness. Opening up their home is the equivalent of opening their heart. The nurturing figure was very sensitive, nervous and perhaps a bit emotionally unstable. If they have a good connection to their mother, then they generally feel at ease. If the connection is poor, then the cancer moon will be looking for a surrogate figure for their entire life.

                                 MAD AT ME • KIANA LEDE.                                 LIGHTS UP • HARRY STYLES.

LEO MOONS are internally gregarious and entertaining. They love to see a smile on everyone’s face, and desire to be center stage in the environment off their choice. Once they’re in that safe space, it’s showtime, baby! This part of them is surprising if they have a more subdued rising or sun sign. Only dramatic for comedic effect. If they’re showing the range of their emotions, it means that they trust you to wholeheartedly accept them. Can show their emotions through an art form, or through a performance. When they’re alone, they like to pretend as if they’re the main character on a sitcom (where everybody else is only a stock character). Probably played the princess / queen / whatever in all childhood games and got annoyed when their peers didn’t play by the rules. Could sound entitled and melodramatic if they feel like they’re being ignored or pushed aside. At their worst, they’re a dictator who expects the world to cater to their every wind. Lays around the house like they own the place. They do get angry easily due to their sensitive ego, but try to remember that they’re all bark and no bite. Once they’re given the attention and praise that they require, they’re back to their regular happy selves. Their inner soul is nurtured by entertainment, theater and all things fun.Their nurturing figure was prideful, loud, and managed to make a spectacle out of each and every mood swing.

                        TOUGH ON MYSELF • KING PRINCESS.                                  DISCONNECT • MARINA.

Sun Opposing Neptune is a really hard place to be in when relating to emotions.

Oppositions to personal planets in general can make a native have a difficult time relating to their sun sign or moon sign.

Gemini moons tend to have this sort of "get up and go" mind set where they don't really think and just do. They also tend to have the desire to move abroad.

Leo placements are some of the most kind and caring placements when properly developed!

10th house stelliums struggle a lot with their relationship to masculinity vs femininity and often times it makes them deeply insecure.

Venus in 11th falls for friends before they fall for strangers!

Libra mars tends to use drugs to deal with their anger/ lack of confrontational nature. If they dont they struggle immensely with themselves.

Libra risings typically have boxier/ round faces and big, beaming smiles. They also typically have nice cheekbones...

Aries venus LOVES little displays of affection, like bringing them flowers or doing something small.

Libras have really small wrists and thinner forearms, they dont tend to build as much muscle there.

Virgo moons like having facial hair and also pay a lot of attention to skin care and hair care.

3rd house stelliums can often times have commitment issues where they suddenly drop what they were doing and move on to the next thing.

Gemini mars has a tendency to be on your side until it is inconvienient for them. They also tend to take an lot of arguments personally.

Aries moons really like activities geared towards technology, like videos games. They also have a tendency to give off a largely masculine energy.

Pisces sun and Taurus moon combos have a tendency to be more blaming than self reflective.

Aquarius Mercury tends to have a more brash and assertive voice, even if they're talking normally they have this sort of dominance to them.

4th house stelliums have a tendency to have a big connection to the past and often times have an easier time doing things like past life readings / meditations.

People with Neptune in their 4th house could have a confusing childhood concerning their relationship to their parents but, ultimately, their issues are self sabotage

On the other hand, people with Uranus in the 4th house tend to have bad relationships with their parents in childhood because of the parents actions. When both are in fourth it's a little bit of both, or simply just very distant or obscure parental units.

Cancer Jupiter often has good timing and good judgement- regardless if they know it or not- when it comes to avoiding risky situations, always seeming to come through by a hair.

very random and small observations! happy reading

1. earth moons are very very hard on themselves. but they are typically less harsh in others, especially for taurus placements. (but they probably don’t like to admit it in front of people) please give them a hug when you see them.

2. sagittarius placements usually love their siblings and spoil/ bully them playfully a lot

3. cancer moons think of their mother a lot and tend to have a tight bond with them! chances are their mother imparted a lot of important values to them. for male, they could think of wanting to protect their mother 🥺

4. people can actually look to their 12th house and 1st house for a combination of their actual personality and aura. 

12th house = our basic engineering, the things we worry about, the energy we give off.

1st house =  coping mechanism, the “logical explanation and reaction” to our worries

5. signs that square each other actually gives off similar energy. 

taurus-leo-scorpio-aquarius: innovative, lives life fully, stable 

aries-cancer-libra-capricorn: fun-loving, can be immature at times, go-getter

gemini-virgo-sagittarius-pisces: restless, wise, (over)thinkers

6. sometimes, libras sun/moon/rising can come off as condescending? in a way that they already evaluated all information and outcomes in their head, so it’s as though they’ve seen all the possible realities

7. the default mode for pisces is to be “sweet”. even if they have other sides of their personality, they always want to see the better side of things first.

8. no matter how introverted, leo moons are very interesting to talk to! they likely make a lot of meme jokes and lead a fulfilling daily life.

9. gemini placements anywhere are i m p a t i e n t.

10. capricorn sun are usually more lighthearted, followed by moon then rising!

11. if we have a house that is 0 degrees in a certain sign, eg. virgo 0 degrees in the 5th house, people with this sign will be important in helping us to develop this area of our love. be it sun or moon or rising!

12. scorpios, especially sun have a keen eye in aesthetics! they usually follow trend well or set a new trend

13. capricorns tend to be charming and have people following them…even if it’s subconsciously.

14. siblings tend to share the same element but different sign.

In order to get a really good understanding of Plutonian relationships, it’s best to examine the story of Persephone. In Greek mythology, Persephone was the innocent maiden stolen from her controlling and over-protective mother and taken into the underworld by Hades, the brother of Zeus. Long story short, Hades did not believe he was worthy of Persephone’s love as he feared she was too good for him, would realize her worth, and eventually abandon him. So in order to prevent his worst fear from becoming a reality, he decided that kidnapping Persephone would be his greatest bet. One day, while Persephone was out on her lonesome picking a narcissus flower, Hades (pluto)  came up from the underworld and kidnapped her before anyone could notice. 

The relationship between Hades and Persephone was intense, chaotic, and extreme. The legend states that Persephone was raped and coerced into violent sexual acts against her will while staying in the underworld. Luckily, Demeter (Persephone’s mother) fought viciously for the return of her daughter while Zeus (Jupiter) took a passive stance, not wanting to sour the connection between him and his brother. Thanks to Demeter’s hard work, Persephone was able to come back to earth with her mother, but only under the condition that she would spend half a year with Hades, every year. Thus, the Greek theory of Summer and Winter Solstice was born. Legend has it that the warm summer months are a result of Persephone being reunited with her mother, and thus, Demeter putting her regular care and consistency into harvesting and keeping the earth balanced. While the colder winter months are believed to be the period when Persephone was forced to stay with Hades in the underworld, resulting in Demeter neglecting her harvesting duties as she mourned for her daughter. 

In Plutonian relationships, we often find that one person ends up playing Persephone (typically the planet person) while the other ends up playing Hades (the pluto person). The pluto person feels an instant attraction to the planet person and must find a way to bond with them at all costs (it almost feels like their life depends on it). Based on the natal conditions of pluto in each of the natives charts, this connection can be magnetic or horrific. Those with a strong angular pluto (or a pluto that aspects many personal planets/ personal planets in the 8th house) will often welcome this kind of connection with little to no fear while those with a weaker pluto may be prone to attempting to avoid the connection at all costs. 

The early stages of the relationship are often intense. The first meeting can be strictly psychic. Eye contact between the lovers can feel so magnetic, the two may feel inclined to get physical within the first couple of unions. Those with  a strong saturn may play hard to get and may even have more discipline/endurance in terms of resisting the pluto person. This can make for an even more exiting bond as the pluto person will become obsessed with getting the saturn person to submit. The goal is to have sex with one another, as this is when the plutonian relationship really takes off as the energies finally merge.

Often times, after the first sexual encounter, the relationship shifts in a way that is felt by both parties. Subconscious fears and motives rise to the surface and suddenly become visible. The pluto person will often have the upper hand as they will have an easier time interpreting these rising energies. At the same time, the planet person is exposed to the pluto persons deepest fears: abandonment and betrayal. What pluto does not realize is that, if they use the information they acquire about their partner in attempt to control the relationship (think how Hades held Persephone hostage) they are only revealing their innermost fears and insecurities as a result. Eventually, the planet person grows to understand the fears of the pluto person and, at first, does their very best to be gentle and tender towards these vulnerabilities. Unfortunately, pluto’s insecurities often get the best of him/her and a battle between the two lovers often emerges. Persephone (the planet person) begins to realize that they are not psychologically safe with this person and must protect themselves (withdrawal often commences). Like a self-fulfilling prophecy, pluto realizes that the planet person is flaky and not to be trusted. 

In reality, these two want to be together very, VERY badly. But what they struggle to understand is that the relationship is pulling up subconscious baggage and asking each person to deal with it alongside one another. This is a very scary and vulnerable thing to ask of people. Imagine having to sit in a therapists office alongside a parent. The parent can hear your every thought, fear, and concern that perhaps you weren’t able to share with them so openly in the past. This is exactly what a plutonian relationship is doing in attempt to transform each native. The energy is playing therapist and the couple must work together to work through the baggage. However, there is a tendency to want to deal with demons in private, in secret, where it is safe. This is not because the two are looking to gain the upper hand psychologically (contrary to popular belief) but because each partner fears being abandoned by the other, and what quicker way to be abandoned than to reveal the uglier, unkempt parts of yourself to the one you cherish the most. Think of the last time you revealed something quite personal and heavy about yourself to someone you were interested in. The average person would run as fast as they could from such a display, while a plutonian relationship would thrive off of such an act of courage. 

In this relationship, both people are being asked to be brave enough to bare their souls. The key to healing lies in trusting one another, but innate insecurities lead to quite the opposite. The insecurities of the couple can often become so challenging that the relationship resorts to mind games, manipulation, and in worst case.. abuse. 

Let’s take a look at commont types of Plutonian Relationships and their effects on a couple. 

Pluto in Aspect to Partners Personal Planets-

Sun-Pluto: The Sun person is often strong, courageous, attractive, and powerful on their own. They attract Pluto with their radiant, jovial, and charismatic energy. When the Pluto person aspects the Sun person gently (sextilex/trines) the relationship is seen as a source of vitality. The sun person may feel unstoppable besides the pluto person and spend a vast amount of time uplifting the self esteem of the pluto person, who also feels strongest besides their sunshine. When the conjunction takes place, the two can become sources of energy for one another. The sun person may view pluto as a lucky charm while pluto may feel most powerful besides la sol. Consequently, when the two are apart, feelings of confusion and insecurity can take place.. causing on or both partners to fall into hermit mode until the other returns. With the harsher aspects (square and opposition) we can find an intense collision of egos. Perhaps the two feel like the connection is beneficial on a physical level. Sun and Pluto look very good together and garner the attention and respect they so desire. But behind the scenes, there can be a lot of disagreement, friction, and explosive arguments. With harsh aspects, each partner wants the other to submit. But because there is often tension or opposition, this will not come without a drastic cost.. and in worst cases, without losing the relationship for good. 

Moon-Pluto: The moon person is instantly attracted to the pluto person, though they understand early on what they are getting into. Moon see’s pluto as a protector and someone who can meet their deepest emotional desires. With the soft aspect, pluto willingly takes on this duty and puts great effort into bringing comfort and happiness to la lune. Pluto can easily handle the ever changing emotions of moons and even finds this sexy at times. The moon person welcomes pluto’s intensity with open arms and validation of all sorts. Things can grow a bit more intense with the conjunction. The moon realizes that pluto is looking for control and is somewhat willing to surrender as long as pluto can consistently meet moon’s emotional needs. This becomes a bit more challenging because it is not entirely possible to  consistently meet  the needs of another without neglecting oneself on some level. With the conjunction, pluto begins to realize the true power of the moon person and gains a lot of respect but a lot of mistrust towards the person. Covert attempts to get desires met can cause a lot of emotional unease between the two lovers. It is best to be frank about what you need from one another and be understanding if the other person is unable to meet your desires in the way you may be looking for. At the same time, extreme emotional growth can occur between these two parties once they learn to compromise, and an unbreakable bond emerges as a result. With the hard aspects (square/opposition) pluto realizes that they are in jeopardy of being abandoned by the moon if they cannot provide in the way that the moon expects. As a result, pluto becomes controlling, manipulative, and deceitful in attempt to psychologically tame the moon person. The moon person instantly senses pluto’s ulterior motives and puts up a shell to protect themselves from harm. Pluto person can grow frustrated from the emotional distance of moon and seek to dominate them with all their might. With the hard aspect, pluto is attempting to regain the power they lost through greed and abuse of power. The moon person can end up letting the pluto person in only to close off the minute they feel threatened. The pull and push of this connection could easily drive one or both parties to the point of insanity. 

Mercury-Pluto: Mercury is energetic, quick, and witty. Pluto is introspective, intelligent, and attentive. The psychological connection between these two can be profound. Pluto admires mercury’s lighthearted and youthful nature and can grow protective and very Jupiterian like. Pluto happily takes mercury under his/her wing and seeks to deepen their insight. With the soft aspect, mercury is very receptive and finds plutos insights to be fascinating and amusing. With the conjunction, the two can experience telepathy. They may find that they are able to read each others minds even when far away from each other. One person may think of the other only to receive a phone call moments later. The pluto person in particular is able to easily interpret the needs of the mercury person and can choose to meet them or exploit them depending on the maturity of the pluto person and the security of the connection. The mercury person is in jeopardy of being subtly influenced by the pluto person if they are not cautious. Pluto recognizes that mercury is flighty and does not have the best attention span. Mercury easily displays interests in other people, places, and things, and bores easily. Pluto cannot and will not stand for this as they must be the center of mercury’s focus. Pluto wants to be seen as superior to all of mercury’s others interests, and if mercury does not in fact view pluto in this light, pljuto will implant psychological seeds that will eventually tame the mind of mercury, as seen with the harsher aspects. Pluto can also see mercury as child like and take on a Saturnian role in this connection, parenting Mercury whether or not they need to be parented. 

Venus-Pluto: Venus is beautiful, creative, innocent, and charming. Pluto is sexy, alluring, mysterious, and tempting to Venus. This connection, more than any other contact, will reenact the story of Persephone and Hades. Venus is the lovely maiden who seeks to beautify all that she touches. Her heart is pure and she seeks harmony. Pluto is taken aback by Venus because she is quite the opposite of him. Pluto feels like he must merge with venus in order to experience her unconditional and effortless love. Venus recognizes pluto right away. She noticed how he was watching from the shadows and feels as if she knows just what needs to be done in order to heal Pluto’s lonesome heart (sextile/trine). But once pluto experiences her delicate touch, he becomes addicted and possessive. Pluto understands venus’ effects. He wee’s how others are smitten by her. How popular and loved she is. At the same time, Venus recognizes how hurt pluto is by the world. She recognizes his issues with trust. She see’s that he’s been disconnected from his inner child and passionately takes on the duty of reconnecting him (conjunction). These two exchange acts of love and healing, with pluto making venus feel incomparable and irreplaceable and venus making pluto feel desires, loved, and appreciated. Unfortunately, no amount of sheltering can prevent others from being drawn to venus. Pluto cannot handle venus’ admirers. He is sure that if he does not take action, he will lose her at the hands of another. Once pluto loses confidence in the connection, he does everything in his power to hold venus hostage as her love is only for him. Unfortunately, Venus rarely takes this well and begins resisting pluto’s control in attempt to return back to a life of ease, harmony, and beauty (square/oppsition).

Mars-Pluto: Mars and Pluto have an interesting relationship and may have the strongest connection of all. Mars understands pluto’s intensity and considers it to be noble and that of a warrior. Pluto respects mars’ tenacity and considers it to be a passion that cannot be matched by any other (harmonious aspects). These two often feel like two different sides of the same coin and are very interested in better understanding where differences lie. Eventually, Pluto begins to understand that mars is a no bullshit kind of energy. Pluto begins to realize that they cannot tame or control mars as easily as they may have tamed the others. Mars begins to realize that Pluto has an energy similar to its own and feels the need to defend their number 1 spot. For the first time, the two recognize a challenge in one another that they haven’t been able to find in other people (conjunction). They understand that they can completely be themselves with one another as nothing is off limits here. Unfortunately, Pluto is often more disciplined and has greater endurance than mars which can cause mars to feel insecure and inferior. As a result, mars begins to poke at pluto’s weaknesses in attempt to regain power and control and things can turn extremely aggressive between these two if pluto feels like mars is challenging them too often. Ego’s run high with the harsh aspects and both planets feel the need to prove their strength to the other, even at the cost of the stability and happiness of the relationship. Sex between these two is the best way to release the competitive energy. The sex can often be so magnetic that it can serve to patch up the many holes within the relationship, created by such massive egos. 

(Note, the more aspects a person’s pluto makes to the personal planets of another, the more intense the relationship will become. The Persephone effect mainly takes place when one person’s pluto fails to interact with the personal planets of their partner while the partner’s pluto effortlessly interacts with their personal planets. The Persephone person may struggle to find their power within the relationship. If both partners plutos aspect the personal planets of one another, the relationship can take on the role of Persephone’s transformation… when she accepted her duties as queen of the underworld and become a very powerful and respected ruler as well as a very loved and respected partner.) 

Personal Planets in Partners 8th House-

Sun in Partners 8th House: There is often confusion as to whether the planets person plays the role of Persephone as opposed to the house person. I’d like to look at it this way, picture the house as a cup and the planet as water. What does water fall into? The cup. Meaning the cup is receiving the water. Planets act as what while houses act as where. With the Sun falling in a partners 8th house, we find a person who feels the need to share their life with the 8th house person. The sun feels comfortable sharing stories both personal and private with the 8th house person because their is an innate feeling that the 8th house person welcomes and understands these things. The Sun person feels like they have won a lottery ticket as they have found a person who will provide them with undivided attention as well as the admiration they desire. The planet person can feel taken aback by the intensity at which the sun person approaches them. This connection can be as simple as the stranger who tells all their business to the person sharing the bench with them as they wait for the bus. 

Moon in Partners 8th House: The moon person, whether they are aware of it or not, finds the 8th house person to be therapeutic and can even resort to dumping on to the 8th person. Often times, the 8th house person is generous and does not mind. But it is not uncommon for the 8th house person to feel drained and seek time alone after intense emotions are shared with one another. The moon person helps the 8th house person to deal with traumatic and repressed emotions that may have been neglected and remain un-dealt with. This is a very powerful placement and there will be a strong psychic connection between these two. 

Mercury in Partners 8th House: These two can talk for hours without getting bored of one another. The Mercury person understands the subconscious mind of the 8th house person and creates a safe space for the 8th houser to open up and explore themselves a bit more comfortably. Meanwhile. Mercury also feels comfortable speaking openly and authentically with the 8th house person. Think of the stranger who gets drunk in a bar and ends up pouring their life story out to the person next to them. This is a Mercury-8th house connection. 

Venus in Partners 8th House: The Venus person feels sexy and desireable around the 8th house person and can easily become addicted to the validaton and attention. They also help the 8th house person to feel these things. Venus is very interested in merging with the 8th house person and may be interested in pursuing a relationship with them long before they let on. The 8th house person often appears mysterious to venus and venus is not quite sure if the 8th house is interested at first. These two express themselves quite differently but the attraction is often mutual. Venus can help the 8th house person to deal with fears if abandonment and betrayal in terms of love. Venus feels very connected to the vulnerabilities of the 8th house person and is determined to show them the meaning of true love. The 8th person can shy away as they tend to feel extremely exposed, vulnerable, and powerless besides venus. However, the connection is often so deep that no matter how far the two tread away from one another, they will almost always find their way back. 

Mars in Partners 8th House: The 8th house person is often uncomfortable with house sexy they find the mars person. The mars person recognizes the interest of the 8th house person and gains an immediate ego boost. However, the 8th house person is usually private and difficult to read, which pulls mars in and creates an attraction out of this world. The closer mars gets, the more they realize how truly enticing the 8th house person is. At first, mars may have solely been attracted to the attention and sexual admiration of the 8th house person. But if a connection is formed, the roles will often reverse as the mars person will be interested in conquering the 8th house person. 

(Note: The 8th house person is a more sublte manifestation of plutonian energy and will not be as proactive as pluto itself. Think of planets in the 8th house as an IV.. with the planet person being the IV and house person being the recipient. The 8th house person often takes on a more passive role than a pluto person, making them far more timid and far more cautious about expressing the plutonian energy. Most of the connection takes place energetically, when a persons planets fall into the 8th house of another.) 

But wait, what if both partners are plutonian natally but do not share many pluto/8th house contacts? This can be a fun relationship because whatever contacts are made between one another, there will be a plutonian twist! Think Gomez and Morticia Adams. The couple may very well have a lot of 7th house/venus-moon contacts in synastry and perhaps even composite (hence the harmony) but they both bring their own touch of pluto into the lives of one another. There may be even more room to help each other grow using the individual lessons each of you have acquired throughout your lifetimes. 

“You can’t lie to your soul”

This is it, this is the retrograde astrologers have been warning us about!! Hold on to your hats and let the toxic relationships and stale ways of relating go!

Venus only retrogrades every 18 months so a Venus retrograde is always kind of a big deal. But several factors make this particular retrograde even more significant (of course, because 2020 is intense):

• Venus conjuncts Juno which has been in retrograde since February 8th.

• Retrograding in Gemini places Venus “out of bounds”.

• Mercury is going to join in on the fun and begin its retrograde period from June 18th to July 12th; but if we take into account the two shadow periods, Mercury Rx will be 10 weeks long, and essentially coincide with the Venus/Juno Retrogrades, June 4th - August 2nd altogether.

• Lunar Eclipse in Sagittarius - June 5th 2020

• Solar Eclipse in Cancer - June 21st 2020

• The second conjunction of Jupiter and Pluto, June 30th 2020 – (marking the first two months, three and a half weeks of extreme transformation)

If you are

• Aries Rising, Taurus Rising, Gemini Rising, Libra Rising, Scorpio Rising or Sagittarius Rising

or have

• Venus in Taurus, Gemini or Libra

...this is going to affect you BIG TIME.

A special note to Gemini:

Venus only retrogrades in Gemini every 8 years; so, for those with Gemini placements, it's more significant. In addition, the Nodes will move into Gemini (North or True Node) and Sagittarius (South or Mean Node) in May 2020, so, all Gemini and Sagittarius placements will be heavily affected by this nodal transit for about the next year and a half. Where is Gemini in your natal chart? What house? Expect big spiritual changes there over the next year and a half.

Other than THAT, this Venus Retrograde will most affect Taurus, Libra, and to a lesser degree Scorpio, Aries, and Sagittarius.

Leo and Aquarius placements are already being heavily affected by the Saturn in Aquarius transit, which is currently happening.

Venus rules Taurus and Libra, and is known as the planet of love and beauty, but is more so the planet of partnerships (marriage or business or any kind of partnership) contracts, law, equitable balance, manners, charm, and social graces. (Romance actually belongs more to the Sun and Leo.)

Although Venus is going to begin her retrograde from May 13th until June 25th, the pre-shadow period of Venus Retrograde begins from April 9th to May 11th; with the post-shadow period beginning from July 2nd to July 29th.

With shadow periods included, the Venus retrograde in Gemini can really be considered to be April 9th to July 29th, giving us altogether three months and three weeks to work with these relationship, harmony and balancing energies.

What we are NOT going to do when Venus is in retrograde this spring and summer:

♡ We are NOT going to start any new relationships or even DATE anyone new!

♡ We are not going to take back our exes! Not immediately, anyway; trust your intuition. There could be some exes that you genuinely want to work things out with, who could come back into the picture at this time. Proceed with CAUTION and SLOWLY until Venus is fully out of her shadow! (The exes really do come out of the woodwork during a Venus retrograde. You've been warned.)

♡ WE DO NOT PLAN ANY WEDDINGS DURING VENUS RETROGRADE! Venus and Juno are going to cause so much havoc, so whatever plans or dates have been made need to be rescheduled. I'm serious. (Wait until September, when Juno is well out of her retrograde.)

What we DO during Venus Retrograde:

♡ We remember that a retrograde is happening to help us PAUSE, REFLECT, REASSESS AND REVIEW.

♡ We prepare for arguments to arise! This is worse than the last Mercury Retrograde when all of that energy was in Aries. Venus is “out of bounds” so expect for communication to be chaotic and emotional.

♡ We prepare for all relationships (regardless of your marital status), partnerships, contracts, and commitments to be under serious review. Whatever has to be ended around this time, will, and there is no stopping the inevitable. It will hurt, but consider it a blessing in disguise.

♡ We understand that reconciliations could happen during this time. But we make sure that this is something that has been divinely orchestrated. What is meant for you, won’t pass you by, so be patient.