synastry observations part 2
im back and ready to dive into more of the placements yall gave me!! i covered everything requested here and just a lot of information in general!! remember one placement and aspect doesnโt define the entire relationship.
MOON IN 4th house
very cozy and comfortable bond. it doesnโt start off that way though. the 4th house person is pretty private and guarded and wonโt just allow the moon person to win them over. the moon person ends up proving themselves to the 4th house by being consistent, nurturing, understanding and loving. thatโs when the 4th house lets their guard down and gets vulnerable. once the 4th house person grants the moon access, theyโre pretty smitten! expect a lot of at home moments like cooking, sleeping together, watching movies, doing hobbies together, late night talks. downside is moodiness between both of them!
MOON IN 8th HOUSE
the moon person is drawn to the 8th house persons depth, it feels very soul-fated, this is the one. the 8th house actually feels like the moon person is familiar, like a past life lover or someone that reminds them of their early life or comfort. though the moon person gets a bit overwhelmed by the 8th house persons intensity and the 8th house person can become really guarded because of how intuitive the moon person is, to the 8th house person they can feel a bit uneasy like the moon person knows things about them they donโt easily give away. this can kinda turn into power games ngl. the moon likes the mystery of the 8th house, but the 8th house feels a bit too vulnerable with the moon. i think physical intimacy is probably where they feel most balanced.
VENUS IN 12th HOUSE
the venus person feels a pull towards the 12th house person. like a crush on someone who doesnโt just feel casual, there is a feeling that this person could be the one or a soulmate or someone fated. the venus actually chases after the 12th house because the 12th house person is a complex puzzle venus wants to figure out. the issue is the 12th house person is often hard to reach, either disappears or just struggles to show up, might hangout with the venus person and have a good time but doubt that they could work. venus makes the 12th house person feel beautiful and desired. but the 12th house person honestly sabatoges the relationship or will be too caught up in their mind about the person and not ground the relationship. venus person can feel unloved! a very difficult relationship to ground.
SUN IN 1st HOUSE
the sun person has instant attraction and even feels like they know the 1st house person prior to getting to know them. the sun wants to be seen with the 1st house person so a lot of pictures taken and hangouts in public. the sun person genuinely lights up the 1st house persons world, i mean they make them laugh, they compliment them, they want to accomplish shit with the 1st house person! the 1st house person loves the warmth and affection. only thing is the sun person is super perceptive of the 1st house person and that can make the 1st house person insecure at times or kinda want space. the sun person has a way of seeing potential with the 1st house person and at times can be a bit pushy.
MOON OPPOSITE MARS
the moon person will feel too soft for the mars person and the mars person will feel the moon person is too sensitive. it makes for a very letโs tip toe around each other and walk on eggshells kind of connection. the mars person is a lot more willing to go out and do things, very ambitious towards life and the moon person may feel too stuck in their comfort zone for mars. on the other hand, the moon person feels like the mars person is impulsive and harsh, so the moon person naturally guards themselves and the mars person will pick fights just to get their way. very toxic kind of connection where both peoples needs are unmet.
MOON TRINE MARS
these peopleโs needs are met together. mars feels supported by the moon person. itโs like if the mars is going to work, the moon packs the lunch for the mars person and writes a love letter. the moon benefits because the moon wants comfort and doesnโt want to do the work so they get to chill while mars does the work. which mars doesnโt mind because the moon person is very loving and supportive so it gives them a deeper purpose. mars takes the lead in this connection but the moon grounds the connection. you have a person willing to do whatever to make the moon person happy and then u have the moon person as a soft landing for mars after they tire themselves out or when they need good loving. a lot of chemistry and the moon person can be very attractive to mars and mars can be hot asf to the moon person.
VENUS IN 1ST HOUSE
the venus person is enamored with the 1st house person. literally the physical type and the beauty of the 1st house person aligns a lot with what the venus person values in a person. the venus person feels aroused around the 1st house person, may even have thoughts of spoiling the 1st house person with gifts before getting to know them. the venus person finds the 1st house person very attractive, sensual. they canโt stop touching the 1st house person. venus literally wants to show off the 1st house person so could post them early on. the 1st house person feels beautiful, admired, adorned, they feel a confidence boost around the venus person, they also feel always spoiled in the presence of the venus person.
VENUS IN 2ND HOUSE
the venus person is very driven towards the body of the 2nd house person. this is the case where the body probably drew them in, then the face. then the personality lmao. venus seeโs the 2nd house person as their ideal match. i mean they see the 2nd house person is appealing and thinks a lot of people want the 2nd house person. this person quickly wants to spend money, might even invite u over, start buying stuff for u that theyโd like to see u in. the venus person is super possessive. always wanting to hold ur hand, cuddling, hugging you. these are all โmark my territoryโ things they do. the 2nd house person, finds venus generous and sensual. they start to feel more secure around the venus person. they take dating each other serious.
SUN IN THE 12th HOUSE
the sun person sees into the 12th house persons world so easily. it feels very spiritual when they meet and their connection can feel equally entertwining as it feels distant. though this is a very INTENSE connection and it can ultimately lead the 12th house person to HATE the sun person. the sun also can feel very neglected by the 12th house person as if their needs arenโt properly met. essentially, the sun person brings out a lot of intense emotions and experiences of the 12th house person. the 12th house person may go ghost or feel overly exposed, leading by to a very intense relationship where apart there is a spiritual connection ( dreaming of each other) but together can cause a lot of tension.
MERCURY IN THE 12TH HOUSE
the mercury person is intrigued with how the 12th house person operates, can even genuinely want to hear the 12th house person speak because there is a mystery that the mercury person wants to solve within the 12th house. but conversation for mercury feels like shouting into a void. the 12th house person struggles to communicate, may ghost, not text back, say they will call back and dont. the mercury person tries to find logical reasons to why it feels hard to build a connection with the 12th house person but no reason makes any sense. mercury can practically read the 12th house persons mind, but the 12th house person feels overwhelmed and may suddenly ghost, disappear, or find themselves too emotional for the mercury person.
MERCURY TRINE PLUTO
this connection is one where a two people are driven to heal or change together. itโs cohesive and oftentimes leads to a couple healing and becoming renewed together. mercury is able to put in words what pluto feels intuitively, so pluto feels very understood in the presence of the mercury person. the pluto person begins to heal because with mercury they can talk about their heaviness, pain, trauma, mercury is great at listening to pluto. pluto is very INTENSE, but mercury actually grounds pluto by helping the pluto person understand their depths, not just feel them. overtime they find and discover a lot of things they never have with anyone before which eventually leads to both mercury and pluto being changed by the connection.
PLUTO TRINE MOON
this is a connection that heals childhood wounds and creates maturity in both people. pluto sees right through the moon person, the moon person is very intuitive about pluto. there is a lot of energy exchanged between these two without saying a word. sometimes being around each other feels like a warm hug, no over explaining and being seen FINALLY for once. these two feel naked around each other. makes for incredibly great physical intimacy. pluto can finally safely speak about their pain, their darkest thoughts, their deep feelings, the moon person is reassuring, supportive, and makes them feel comfortable to just be. no one feels exposed instead they feel held. thereโs beauty in their darkness, theirs softness in their intensity. it heals both of them to be around each other.
MOON SQUARE MOON
this connection is highly emotional and intensely volatile. both peopleโs needs and place of comfort is challenged by the other leading to a lack of happiness and genuine peace. this relationship is prone to the silent treatment, withholding affection, projecting feelings onto the other, and emotionally immaturity. these two people move at different rhythms and never feel quite aligned. a lot of push-pull, ghosting, stonewalling and even emotional manipulation. very difficult aspect to have and be fulfilled.
MARS IN THE 7TH HOUSE
this can seem like a good placement. but really it can lead to a controlling relationship. the mars person is the dominant person and they essentially want to lock it down with the 7th house person, may even want to marry early on. the mars person takes the relationship serious because the see the 7th house person as THE ONE. but what eventually occur is that the mars person becomes incredibly possessive and protective of the 7th house person because they see long term and want to be with the 7th house person forever they will try to control the relationship. if the 7th house person wants outside interactions with friends and family, the 7th house person may become entitled, bratty, rude, and territorial. on the postive side this person will genuinely see partnership with the 7th house person and the 7th house person will find the mars person sexy asf, powerful, and strong!
VENUS IN THE 10TH HOUSE
to the venus person, the 10th house person looks good asf and seems impressive. venus genuinely sees the 10th house person as someone with authority or ambition which makes venus feel enticed and smitten. the 10th house person feels admired but also respected, they feel seen not just for their looks but what they DO and how they carry themselves. together this couple inspires each other, the 10th house person makes venus feel more ambitious and attentive of their image, venus wants to be more polished, put together, goal oriented around the 10th house person. the 10th house person starts to think long term, of marriage, kids, building a life with this person. they take venus serious and sees venus as the ultimate form of fulfillment and marriage partner. they boast about being with the venus person as the venus person makes them look beautiful together. there is a lot of commitment and desire for more together.
MARS CONJUNCT ASCENDANT
this provides initial attraction and high desire for each other. very much infatuated and lustful over one another and gets physical intimate pretty fast. mars is very drawn to the face, body, and energy of the ascendant person. the ascendant person finds mars irresistible and is easily aroused. the ascendant person might slightly resemble the mars person as well. when these two are together they will find it hard to keep their hands off of one another and can exist in their own world. thereโs a lot of things these two share in common so theyโll have this best friend but canโt keep their hands off of each other energy.
MOON IN THE 12TH HOUSE
this is actually a secret relationship most of the time. it can indicate something hidden away from people or unknown to others, but it can also cause confusion between the people in this connection as where they stand with one another. the moon person is usually drawn to the 12th house person because of their intuitive perception. they notice the 12th house person in a crowd and finds the mystery alluring as they feel theyโre the one that can truly see the 12th house person. the 12th house person is usually emotionally unavailable and feels both seen and uncomfortable. while the moon person has eyes on the 12th house person, the 12th house person struggles to find comfort and moves away. the 12th house person might have a spiritual or deep convo with the moon person and then PULL AWAY quickly. hot and cold. actually the moon person feels destabilized and the connection becomes confusing and too uncertain. they do dream about each other a lot and have moments where theyโre thinking the same thing and can feel each other but it is often hard to come together in REAL LIFE or to be public and out in the open together.
VENUS OPPOSITE MARS
this is an erotic placement, causes both high tension and some difficulty with everyday life. this is a very โ we are drawn to each other in an unexplainable wayโ โฆ. โ i yearn to hold your body againโโฆ very intimate, lustful, sensual, and passionate. there is intensity and affection, like a soft kiss after an aggressive intimate moment. nonetheless, when it comes to feeling loved consistently venus struggles. mars can be very focused on their goals and not always romantically available so it causes venus to feel neglected at times. on the other hand, venus needs physical comfort, gifts, affection, quality time, harmony, mars gets aggravated because it feels like demand after demand and mars checks out when it feels that way. also mars can feel like the venus person makes everything about their desires. mars can be harsh towards venus and hurt venus feelings as well as become too controlling for venus. it can bring a lot of passion, but incredible imbalance too.
MARS CONJUNCT LILITH
contrary to what others think this is a very harsh aspect in synastry. mars is a primal but agressive planet, lilith represents our shadow, where we have been repressed. at best this provides wild intimacy that feels like something youโve never experienced before but ultimately it creates volatility as both people are constantly triggering the other. lilith feels dark and mysterious to mars, mars initially feels drawn to that but soon enough wants to control lilith. lilith is drawn to mars raw authentic energy, lilith admires mars at first but quickly becomes triggered. what mars can do and be, lilith hides, lilith grows jealous and even frustrated at what they feel but cannot show, also lilith feels so drawn, but mars is even wilder around lilith so there is very little stability. itโs a wild ride together and a relationship that these wont forget.
VERTEX CONTACTS
vertex-sun: probably will change ur life direction, help u find purpose, or you will learn a lot about who u r.
vertex-moon: your feelings will be intense. you will either feel greatly loved or emotionally abandoned and have to learn to love urself again.
vertex-mercury: will literally change ur mindset and mentality towards life, will probably learn how to see things clearer or use discernment more after them.
vertex-venus: changes how u view romance, can be the person u change for, or someone who makes u perceive relationships completely different afterwards.
vertex-mars: changes how you interact with the world, can build confidence and strength in u or can help u realize what is important and get serious about how you move in life.
the tighter the aspect, the more it matters 0-3 degrees max.
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