✨️🩷 My astrological observations on the Moon in the 8th house in synastry. 🌜🦂
✨️I want to emphasize that I am not an astrologer or anything like that.✨️
✨️Throughout my life, I've simply observed certain patterns. If you identify with any of them and would like to add something, feel free. ✨️
(I am not a native English speaker.)
✨️Every time I was the person in charge of the house, the person had their moon in Gemini (in all cases). I have Libra rising at 26 degrees, so my 8th house begins at 26 degrees of Taurus.✨️
✨️💖My former best friend from childhood had the moon in my 8th house and we were very close. She helped me through many difficult times. She was the one who pushed the friendship the most, but internally she always compared herself to me in some way. She was never satisfied with her life and constantly compared herself to me, even though she was prettier and had a better life than me. Over time we drifted apart because she was pursuing a path of friendships that I didn't agree with, so we each went our separate ways, but she was the one who suffered the most from the end of the friendship.
✨️💖The second case was my first real boyfriend. He was about six years older, and also had the moon in my eighth house. He stalked me on Facebook for a year until I finally gave in. He truly understood me, but at the same time, he wanted to restrict how I lived my life. He didn't like me going out with my friends, and he was upset when he saw me achieve something. Again, I had the same feeling of comparison, but I loved him very much, and everything simply exploded when I started college and he developed a paranoia that I would leave him for someone else. In the end, he was the one who left me and then regretted it, but I didn't want him anymore.
✨️💖In the third case, which is what I'm currently experiencing, he was the head of a department at a law firm. We never had anything romantic, but we couldn't stop looking at each other, and I felt like I had finally found the right person. However, I had to resign because I didn't think the work arrangement was fair, and for the first time, I felt my heart break at leaving someone (I also have planets in his 12th house). I have a certain impression that he's watching me through friends, but I can't prove it yet—I just feel it. A year has passed, and even without contact, I can still feel him sometimes. In the end, I just want to forget him because it never went beyond glances, but it was very intense. I was in excruciating pain because I wanted him with me, and I feel he feels the same... but I still can't prove it.
This man knows how to touch on my deepest wounds, and when he did that I hated him, but I realized it was just a defense mechanism because he was too sensitive for all of that.
✨️💖 No quarto e último caso, e com outra pessoa que tinha a Lua na minha 8ª casa, havia duas colegas de trabalho. Uma delas me tratava mal, sempre me menosprezando e depois fingindo ser minha amiga, até que eu me afastei e ela tentou reconquistar minha amizade. Mas como eu não cedi, ela começou a falar mal de mim para outros colegas, tentando me afastar deles... enfim, o karma vai alcançá-la também.
✨️💖 The other colleague is a little difficult to explain, but I'm not sure. She seems jealous of me, constantly complaining that I'm "too sociable," and if someone at work tries to show me something, she wants to see it before I do. I feel she's a little possessive of me, but without showing it much. She's very sensitive (if I didn't know her, I'd say she was in love with me 😂), but she always wants to know everything about my life. And again, the old comparison, even though she's much better off than me, which I don't understand. Once, I caught her talking badly about me, calling me needy because I kept changing my Instagram profile picture. She said things like, "Who is she trying to impress?" "Changing her picture all the time," and she looked down on me, which hurt me a lot. I cried so much. Anyway... I went almost a month without talking to her, and she just went crazy asking "everyone" why I wasn't talking to her anymore.✨️
🌜✨️ In these patterns that have occurred in my life, I've noticed certain things:
🩵 The person with the moon sign is extremely obsessed with the person of the house (even though in my case it's the moon in Gemini for others).
🩵 The person of the house is very sensitive to the moon person and feels a "heaviness" when the moon is nearby, and when the moon person moves away, the person of the house feels relief.
(Isso depende de como a 8ª casa de cada pessoa está estruturada; no meu caso, tenho Vênus em Gêmeos na 8ª casa, que é o regente do meu ascendente, e meu Plutão está muito bem aspectado, então a energia me parece normal, mas ainda assim é transformadora.)
🩵 Normalmente, é a pessoa da Lua que se afasta da pessoa da casa (pelo menos na minha experiência, foi assim). A casa torna-se muito dependente da Lua, mas quando a Lua se afasta e tenta se reconectar, a pessoa da casa não quer mais, porque, como é a casa da "morte" simbólica, a pessoa da Lua literalmente morre para a pessoa da casa e se torna indiferente.
🩵 I noticed that the Moon person gets involved in other relationships faster than the House person after a breakup, but they never completely forget the House person; however, the House person, when transformed, is indifferent and cold to the Moon person.
🩵 Yeah, the person in the house is extremely obsessed with the moon but knows how to control themselves, while the moon's obsession is more "public".
🩵 When a person with a moon sign is immature and person house doesn't reciprocate their needs, the moon person can hurt the person of the house. This can lead the house person to distance themselves, and when the situation worsens, the obsession of the person house can turn into indifference as a form of protection. As a result, the person with the moon sign loses the person of the house (I will discuss this in another post regarding cases where I was the person with the moon sign).
🩵 A person with a moon sign might be very jealous of that house person.
✨️ Remember again: pay attention to the sign of the 8th house, the sign of the moon, and the aspects of Pluto; this greatly influences how each dynamic unfolds. ✨️
✨️ These were observations about me being the "house person"; I'll soon make another post about instances where I was the "moon person." ✨️
✨️Do not copy my post without giving proper credit, as it is based on my real experiences, and plagiarism is a crime.✨️👀
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