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hi i'm hải & i finally have a carrd now!!!!!

-> mirrored/mixed pronouns -> 20s -> tme bi² -> esea

love is still the point of everything btw 💛

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trans4trans

support a disabled trans woman of color for pride month 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

this pride month it would be awesome if people could commission my wife so that we can work on moving out from her transphobic family. payment will go through my paypal (she isn't comfortable putting her deadname on the internet) and more details on how to commission + samples of her music can be found on her carrd. please share, thank you!

meddlingmage Music Commissions

if you would like to throw us a couple of bucks without commissioning to add to our moving out fund, i have linked my cashapp here and my venmo here. thanks again :)

trans4trans

someone sent us $40 but other than that no commission requests since i posted this, my wife would really like to work while she’s still physically able to so even if you’re not a content creator at all and just want to buy a 1 minute song for $10 or something please feel free to. the hypermobility clinic has found evidence that her organs are shifting from heds, and she won’t be able to get treatment for her pars defect/spinal injury, mcas, and gerd for a while. the stress of living with transphobic family members who don’t respect her needs and regularly bring in stuff that triggers her mcas is hindering her recovery, and we need to move out asap.

my friend kamari and i make up more than a quarter of the reblogs on this post and he’s also struggling to raise money for his friend saige, a black trans woman who needs funds for emergency housing, food, and transportation. please show up for trans women of color. i know this is the white website but it’d be really nice if people could show my wife and saige some support.

dykerikki

crawls out of my hole that resembles the grave but isnt. #myholethatresemblesthegravebutisnt

vampire-loving-vampire

u people have got to get more normal ab people who don't make sense to u . I mean like people who ramble on and don't know how to have proper conversation . people who are completely incomprehensible . people who talk about delusions and hallucinations . people who can't understand social cues . people with speech impediments or no speech at all . people with vocal tics . not just because it's the decent thing to do but also bc this is most common in the most vulnerable marginalized people . youth , elders , mentally ill , disabled , addicts as well as more generally people with accents & non English speakers .

i've been enjoying my long hair lately but summer is here and i also need to get a new photo for ids soon so i'm going back to my short hair. got one appointment tuesday and colour the week after 🥳

#7 #i've also booked a downsize jewellery appt bc i completely forgot to do that months back #i think this is the only way i can get out of this sluggishness and reluctance i feel about leaving the house #i need Tasks i need Appointments i need the dopamine hit that comes with checking off a box

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theresbloodonyouu

#cat

smokinghorse

just had a really good mango it was so good that i had to illustrate how it made me feel afterwards.

stratfender

op’s tags are so fucking important to me

enjoylentgreen

emesissy

you can eat as much ice cream as you want because it is food

#i choose to believe this so it is true and nothing bad will happen to my tummy because i have a pure heart and ice cream is yummy food >^-^<

forestgreenandgray

Hey do you know what rumination is?

Rumination is probably the most common type of OCD compulsion, but I rarely see anyone talking about it. I've talked to multiple people diagnosed with OCD who didn't even recognize it as a compulsion.

Basically, if you have OCD you have terrible intrusive thoughts. They can be about anything, but common themes are fear of being a bad person, fear of hurting someone, fear of contamination. etc.

Rumination is when you get stuck in a spiral. Rumination is when you spend hours catastrophizing, overthinking, analyzing, telling yourself it's going to be okay.

I'll say it again:

Rumination is a compulsion.

Rumination is a compulsion, and that means you have to stop doing it.

I did ERP (exposure response prevention) for my OCD with a therapist! For 9 months! And it did help, but the idea didn't really click until I found this website a couple years later.

And Oh My God. It made things make so much more sense, and I was able to pull myself out of an episode even though I wasn't in therapy or on meds at the time.

Genuinely if you have OCD, or even if you suspect you have OCD, I'm begging you to read some of these articles.

Like this was genuinely life changing for me.

Here are some of the ones that were most helpful to me:

Defining Rumination

How to Stop Ruminating

ERP Exercises for Compulsive Rumination

What to Do When You're Triggered

tikkunolamorgtfo

Just want to add that if you're on the spectrum, you may also experience Autistic Rumination, which is distinct from the obsessive variety, despite the two having some overlapping characteristics!

#ocd #asd #resouces

fagitzel

hello, at the start if the year i got deported and its been pretty tough, im honestly doing really badly, any help is really appreciated so i can avoid being homeless in a country i know no one in.

directed through my wife cuz she has access to US banking

paypal:

https://www.paypal.me/akibaki323

kofi:

https://ko-fi.com/akiactual

were both trans women if that influences yall to help

thank you for sending anything and if you cant please share, i could really use some help <3

superchat

fagitzel is a longtime mutual, please support her if you can

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fugitiverabbit

Hello! If you have the ability to, please consider buying the fatphotoref Archive! It helps me out a ton and I really want to put more time into making new photo refs for everyone to use but currently work two jobs and just don't have the time. This helps me cut back on job #2!

It's a mega pack of over 1,000 photos, neatly sorted for your convenience. Every photo I've ever done for fatphotoref is here in one download!

✨pay what you want (suggestion of $25)! ✨

This is a .zip file containing every photo I've ever taken and posted for FatPhotoRef.com. There are over 1,000 images and they've been labe

my mother and her partner came back from a magic show tonight and her partner just spent the last 30 minutes excitedly rambling about all the cool things that went on and it's genuinely makes me so happy for him 😭

#i have endless love for the way he finds joy and appreciates the things around him in this effortless and carefree way #like he had to scrap his car a few weeks ago because the gearbox had gone and he was genuinely so upset about it bc he loved that car #but he went shopping about and found this one hot red car that people have told him is far too young for him but he just!! doesn't care #he said he loves the car and really wanted it so he got it and every day i've seen him i get to ask him if he's excited about his new car #and he is!!! he's so excited about this car and i'm so excited for him #7

solitairians

when I was like 14 I used to reblog these posts on here that were like "YOUR 20S ARE NOT AN IMAGINARY RACE YOURE DOING JUST FINE!!" just to be positive towards my older mutuals even though i didn't really get what they were about and I'd be in the tags like "#so true!! #everyone does things at their own pace!!" and now im 24 I'm thinking back to it and it's like Oh of course the imaginary race. Which im losing

it's been an embarrassingly long time since i've left the house and done anything i may be slowly losing my mind

cwunch

#every time i see two cats i'm like that's me and sofi!!!!#i'll never change my discord pfp even if we don't text there

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cwunch

#every time i see two cats i'm like that's me and sofi!!!!#i'll never change my discord pfp even if we don't text there

fuckedelf

when the song 🎼has music 🎵

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