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Becoming more addicted 

It goes beyond your body being his to do whatever he wants, whenever he wants. It’s more than being available and eager to please him at any given moment. It means he can do anything he feels like, whenever he wants and you never say no because you are his property and he is superior.

If he wants a bite of your food, you smile and offer him as much as he wants. If he wants a drink of your beer, you let him drink the whole thing and ask if he wants another. If he wants to stick his finger in your ass while you’re cooking dinner, you spread your legs to give better access. If he wants to fuck you after a long day at work, you get in whatever position he wants and serve him without hesitation. If he demands you suck his cock in the middle of doing something, you stop whatever you’re doing and get on your knees. If he wants to punish you for no reason at all other than he needs to let out some frustration, you take it like a good girl and say thank you.

We always talk about “signs of a terrible Dom” so let’s talk about some signs of an actually good Dom

They ask you about your day: They show compassion and actually want to listen about how your day went

They ALWAYS want to keep fields of communication open: Whether you’re in the middle of a kinky-as-fuck scene or you two are in a heated argument, the means of communication is ALWAYS open. Once you give your safe word, IT IS DONE

Aftercare is a top priority. No matter what this is for you in particular, they put a lot of emphasis on aftercare (cuddling, movie watching, bath time, etc.)

They aren’t afraid to scold you when you actually mess up. Sometimes we fuck up, both with our dynamics or we screwed up something at work or school. Doms will scold you, put also help cheer you up and might even offer ways to make it positive

Sex might be apart of the dynamic, but it’s not the focus. I get the fact some people get involved with other BDSM partners for the sole reason of sex, but outside of those VERY SPECIFIC DYNAMICS, sex is NOT the sole focus. It might be a fun “add on”, but it’s NOT the primary objective (penetrative sex or other forms of sex acts).

They are concerned for your safety, but don’t overdo it. They want you safe, but don’t take it to the paranoid level where they need to track every little thing you do.

They respect your privacy. EVERYONE has secrets (”skeletons in your closest”), even among romantic partners who have been partners for a long time, people have stuff they just don’t feel comfortable confessing every little thing in their life. A respectful Dom understands this and doesn’t need to go spying on you or attempt to invade your privacy (track internet history, track phone usage, track where you’ve been, etc.)

They trust you. A Dom who doesn’t trust you will purposely try to fuck up the relationship/dynamic, they will show severe jealousy, and other negative aspects. A Dom that trusts you will respect YOU as a person as well as you to keep your word on different things.

When disagreements happen, they use constructive language. There is not a healthy relationship on this earth that is 100% argument/disagreement free. However, whenever these do happen, it is NOT a “me against you” style argument (”I WON THE ARGUMENT”, none of that). It is done in a way with minimal accusatory/hurtful statements

Don’t call me a woman.  Don’t call me a girl or a lady.

I’m a cunt.  C-U-N-T.

Cunts drain balls.  Cunts are cum targets.  Cunts serve and worship all cock.

I am a thing, not a person.  I am tits and holes.  I am a piece of meat.

If a man sticks his dick in me, I am honored.

If a man cums in my face, I am blessed.

If a man impregnates me, I am beholden.

All cunts should bow before superior cocks.  Rape should be legal.  Gang rape should be normal.  Cunts should be collared, gagged and led around by their tits.

This is my belief.  This is my dream.  This is my life.

Because so many littles have asked me about this topic. I decided to take an excisting post and I added some points to it because there was some information missing in my opinion.

💥 Unfortunately Tumblr is becoming filled with “Daddies” that don’t deserve to ever be called Daddy by any little, because these guys are just perverts/creeps in disguise. Here’s some ways to spot these “Fuckboy fake Daddies” as I like to call them, before they hurt you. 💥

1. He asks for nudes and insists you do whatever he says within hours of meeting you.

2. Doesn’t give you structure. Doesn’t act like a Daddy. There are no rules. No bed times. Nothing.

3. His compliments exclusively focus on your appearance, so he says things like “you look great” and “your boobs are amazing”, but you never get a compliment on your personality, character or what you have achieved today.

4. Is suspiciously quick to punish you. You’re always being told you’ve “been a bad girl”, you always feel like you’re not doing enough to make him happy.

5. He’s only ever really engaged in the convo when he needs something. Other times he’s distant or he is busy with work and barely tolerates you. You feel like you’re bugging him.

6. His profile icon is a picture of his dick, or of him shirtless, or something dumb like that. Further his blog will be full of just porn and nudes.

7. He never really feels like your Daddy, the relationship feels empty and hollow. He is never or barely there for you when you really need him. You still feel still alone and sad.

8. Calls you pet names so often that it becomes nauseating. Ends every sentence with “little one” and “princess” and “little girl”; it comes across like he’s trying too hard.

9. He doesn’t seem interested about learning more about DD/lg and BDSM. You won’t find him reblogging long text posts such as this on his blog (instead it’ll be 100% sexual content).

10. He doesn’t seem to want to find out more about you to get to know the real you. Like what you do, your mental issues, your family, friends and so on.

11. Can be very mean and hurtful when he doesn’t get his way. Doesn’t understand how sensitive littles can be and is quick to make harsh personal comments.

12. Somebody who just likes to be called in the bedroom Daddy.

Don’t call me a woman.  Don’t call me a girl or a lady.

I’m a cunt.  C-U-N-T.

Cunts drain balls.  Cunts are cum targets.  Cunts serve and worship all cock.

I am a thing, not a person.  I am tits and holes.  I am a piece of meat.

If a man sticks his dick in me, I am honored.

If a man cums in my face, I am blessed.

If a man impregnates me, I am beholden.

All cunts should bow before superior cocks.  Rape should be legal.  Gang rape should be normal.  Cunts should be collared, gagged and led around by their tits.

This is my belief.  This is my dream.  This is my life.