atticus

Okay but is it reallyyyy stealing if the info was given willingly???

i've seen some people in this fandom interacting with her and i have no clue if posting about my experience will help anyone but i need to put this out there because frankly this is an adult woman who should know better than to be acting like the child she is

for context: for less than a week back in july, holly and i were friends. i had briefly glanced at her profile and followed her, and then she messaged me and we spent the day talking. that same day, she suggested we could meet up in real life and spend a day together. i was uncomfortable with this but i brushed it off and thought "what harm could it be?"

we talked a little bit for the next few days and when i expressed concern about meeting up in real life she kept pushing for it, and so i agreed. during my time with her, she continually came onto me even though i said i specifically did not want her flirting with me, or any kind of romantic or sexual relationship, especially since i had very recently come out of an abusive relationship where an older woman in her 30s had groomed me when i was freshly 18. when i decided to leave, she kept pushing me to stay longer with her even though i was uncomfortable. a few hours after i went home, she sent me this:

when i told her i didnt want her to flirt with me AGAIN, she said this:

(telling ME if EYE should be uncomfortable nor not??) that night, i blocked her.

A few days ago, she made an alt account to contact me and even though we knew each other for, and i repeat, LESS THAN ONE WEEK, she implied we were soulmates, or something of the like. i had already seen her posts where she explicitly condoned paedophilia, child predation, zoophilia, incest, and other harmful things, and told her i was disgusted with her behaviour as a victim of a child predator. (I will say, paedophilia is a medical condition and it is an attraction that person cannot control, THAT DOES NOT EXCUSE IT IF THEY ASSAULT A CHILD. A CHILD CANNOT CONSENT. paedophiles should NOT be pro-contact)

this is publicly available in the comment section of her pinned post:

And another post:

agreeing with fascist italy?? thinking pubescent children can be in relationships with adults god knows how old? thinking we should fully legalise this kind of abuse? (or rather, not have any laws in place to prevent it) i mean i do have my gripes with people drawing a really hard line at 18 especially since at 18 i was in a fully legal relationship with a 32 year old who abused me in many ways because of how young i was, but her reaction is to make the age of consent LOWER? not HIGHER? its disgusting. I have my gripes with the way the law handles the age of consent and rape in general, i think it is FAR from perfect and this idea that 17 year olds are itty bitty babies and 18 year olds are big hairy adults is one that many people have and I do disagree with. we should not, however, take away the age of consent entirely???

assigning too much knowledge and agency to children who dont have any. 12-15 year olds are not mature enough to understand a sexual relationship with an adult and WILL lead to lifelong trauma. i genuinely thought i was mature enough to be in a relationship with a 21 year old man when i was 12, and i have to live my life with the trauma that has given me thanks to the adults in my life having a mindset similar, but not as extreme, as holly's. 12-15 years old is the time to explore only your OWN body sexually. she's ignoring genuine proven facts

she acts very smart and educated and intellectual but when it comes to things like this its like she's never read a fucking book.

"not possible to be 15 years old and a good person" what?? the way she talks about children in this weird black and white lens is weird. predators and abusive parents statistically pretend that children have more agency than they do and are way more intentionally malicious than they actually are as a way to excuse their behaviour in their head by trying to frame themselves as equals to the child so they can try to put the blame on the child with things like "the child actually wanted to be raped/abused". genuinely sickening mindset

and shes just... racist? ignoring the exploitation of a real cultural group that she as a white canadian does not understand to insult their religion? all while practicing a religion invented in a VIDEO GAME?