one day, i'll go offline forever

We all got some shit to figure out

I blog for the ladies only, men can stay if they behave

I feel every artist is a Writer at first, we all just want to tell stories

“Do it scared” “do it alone” are all great tips, but my biggest takeaway from therapy is do it messy. This is especially true if you’re getting out of a burnout, which I experience often. Literally just do it messy. You don’t need to pick the perfect trail to walk, the perfect playlist to listen to, whatever the fuck it is. You don’t need to have a meticulous to do list and wake up at the exact time you planned and drink the exact amount of water you planned to drink. Like the biggest thing for people like me to remember is sometimes it’s okay to do it messy. Put on a random yt workout and just get it done in sweats. Do 5 minutes of a daunting task and go from there. Sometimes just getting up is a win during intense burnouts or depressive funks. Literally just do it messy.

Being authentically yourself is how/why people naturally gravitate towards you. It has nothing to do with being “adaptable” actually

Actually.. after last night’s convo I realized that it’s a third thing. Reflection. I feel like people only talk about it in the aspect of relationships but people really are attracted to things they identify themselves with. Whether consciously or subconsciously and that goes for music, hobbies, and even people. Chances are folks stay interacting with me because there’s some aspect of myself that mirrors them.

going dancing at a Latin club

I love going out for the sole purpose of enjoyment. Idc to see/meet people however I always end up making acquaintances and as someone who has rbf and is reserved it baffles me every time