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May 18, 2020: Morning

Here come 10:

🚩 Men who disappear and leave you alone for long periods of time

🚩 Men who take no interest in hearing and learning your limits

🚩 Men who react in anger when simply told no.

🚩 Men who isolate you, and discourage you from having healthy friendships and family relationships

🚩 Men who make you feel bad about yourself  

🚩 Subs who submit out of excitement, rather than prudence

🚩 Subs who ignore the little voice in their head due to blind trust

🚩 Subs who don’t seek opinions from other kinksters when they are unsure of something

🚩 Subs that don’t have kinky friends - just a dom

🚩 Subs who go looking for doms before they have fully learned and understood all the potential dangers and red flags they should be looking for each time they vet a candidate

1. Don’t keep doing things you hate.

2. Stop terrorizing yourself with your negative thoughts.

3. Choose to enjoy the simple pleasures of life.

4. Watch what you say; don’t put yourself or others down.

5. Take care of your body, and love and care for it.

6. Develop a life-style that helps develop self-esteem.

7. Don’t compare yourself with others; note where you have grown and changed.

8. Stop trying to change others; keep the focus on yourself.

9. Laugh a lot; enjoy yourself; and don’t take life too seriously.