I'm so tired of x m!readers being stuffed full of harmful mlm stereotypes and hardly disguised fetish tropes
you'll be reading one and then you quickly realize that the m!reader is hyperfemalized and written as a soft femboy twink who needs a big buff man to protect him, and its gotten to the point that i just stop bothering to look for them
Outside of the obvious fetishy feel... It feels like they're written that way so straight women (mostly the author) can project themselves into a mlm relationship, or they subconsciously or consciously apply typical gender roles to queer couples, obviously there HAS to be a "female role" in gay couples too right? otherwise it's "too gay" because why would two hypermasculine gymbros or bears ever date each other
It's not even just x readers either some mlm fandom ships get written this way too, the bottom is almost always feminized in SOME way, I especially see this with satosugu and zosan
it's so frustrating
