Seven Red Suns

abelds have this funky ability where they hear disabled people say they "can't" do something and instead of hearing "can't" as in, cannot, they hear "i can if i push myself and i just don't wanna". which is really interesting!

people in my notes mentioning that people don't respect the fact that they can't do certain things without heavy consequences and ableds want us to beat those consequences for their convenience. and that's true but i do mean that people who say that they can't do something need to be taken at face value that it's just not possible to do at all. i want people to respect the literal meaning of "i cant'" because it's often dangerous otherwise. like people will straight up put a disabled person into situations that are harmful or incredibly dangerous for them being they assume "can't" means "i can a little bit". and when that thing is "I can't eat [allergen]" or "i can't walk at all" and you get stuck with food contaminants or at the top of a half flight of stairs they assumed wouldn't be a problem then that can actively, seriously, literally be harmful and dangerous

When I was younger and I was a lot more forgiving with people forcing me to do things that would make me feel sick my parents would keep coercing me into eating fish, which is crazy because I have terrific allergic reactions to fish and I still can't possibly fathom what they could be getting out of that

venus of chillendorf

That looks like an "I'm going to run through all my tricks until you reward me for something" to me.

not to be dramatic but i miss everyone and wish everything was different