B says,

We needed to stop our online flirting because… he didn’t want the things that i want when it comes to flirting:(( its sad hes such a nice guy and genuine. He loves my country and hes been here 3 times already just because he misses the vibe.

Now that I cant reach him anymore, i realize i could have asked about him more and showed interest. ‘Who is your favorite football player’ ‘why do you like diving?’ ‘How did you come to love it’ ‘how did you end up with your work?’ ‘Why do you want to switch careers?’ ‘Can I see your tattoos?’ ‘Whats your favorite food?’

Yknoww questions that actually made sense.

Nowwww i cant reach him. Anywhere. I just have our reddit chat.

Yes you read that right! I think I met one of the characters or fictional characters that I wrote here, in real life.

So I think I've mentioned that I met a guy that's a potential fuck buddy. He's sweet, nice, has a decent job, and he's not just here for the sex, he wanted all. the girlfriend/ boyfriend energy and all that jazz! although, keeping each other without a label is a complete red flag, especially when I want to get married in 3 years.

For now, our wavelength is not aligned... but I can't believe I'm saying this.... it's fun. And for sure I'm going to have my heart broken in the future.

But again, he's perfect in my eyes. Almost as if I wrote him.

Btw all my bosses are women with husbands, so its not a sxual thing if youre thibking about that. But yeah they their favorites and honestly even tho im good at my job, im not their favorite