Short Hair Don't Care.

lawful fashion gay- ranges anywhere from casual to fancy, but sticks to simple safe things everyone agrees looks good

tacky fashion gay- has a lot of clashing pieces of clothing that never quite come into a good looking outfit but sometimes looks endearing for it

comfort fashion gay- does NOT care about fashion and is usually wearing very soft basic clothes, you could look in their closet and have no idea what’s their normal clothes and what’s their pajamas

- am i being unnecessarily forceful/loud?

- am i talking over others? are those others mostly women?

- why does this person feel like that? how can i acknowledge their feelings?

- does she seem comfortable around me? if not, why?

- am i devaluing women as a joke/when they make me angry? am i insulting women’s appearance and sanity whenever they make me angry?

i literally do think about being gay all the time

every time het culture is shoved in my face i think about being gay, every time i see a cute girl i think about being gay. every time someone talks about their love life or asks about mine i think about being gay. i think about it randomly when i space out and when i eat breakfast or go grocery shopping