AllO2

(Too lazy to add blinkies now but I will eventually)

Hi! I’m All, or Allo, and I use any pronouns, although I typically default to they/them. I am nonbinary and asexual.

Rules/DNI:

I block freely and delete comments freely, without warning. That said, I do not support racism, sexism, ableism, anti lgbtq+, pedophilia, zoophilia, anti furry/anti alterhuman, trump/ICE, proshipping, or darkshipping; please do not interact with me if you do. I am not too political, but I tend to be more left leaning. Do not repost my art without permission. Do not steal my art (that includes running it through AI). Do not interact with sexual intent. I may also curse on this blog, but I try to keep it to a minimum. I do not wish to cause any harm, and if I do, please tell me.

About me:

As a nonbinary, I fucking hate when people ask me for my AGAB.

I understand that it is something that some may want to know, but it gets me stereotyped too much. If I say I was AMAB, I’m treated as if I am a femboy (nothing wrong with femboys!) or a pervert. If I say I was AFAB, they treat me as just another stereotypical woman-turned-nonbinary-because-she-was-“not-like-other-girls”.

Even as a nonbinary, gender stereotypes still affect me. Even as a nonbinary, I’m forced to have “ungendered” styles of typing, “ungendered” handwriting, “ungendered” interests, all to put on a show for those who still use my AGAB to define me.

You may use the correct pronouns.

You may even see me as nonbinary.

But somehow it’s still whatever’s in my pants that matters.

It’s even difficult for me to say I use any pronouns. I really do use any pronouns, without much of a preference, but it really rubs me the wrong way when someone uses a specific set of pronouns because “you remind me of an AFAB/AMAB!”

I don’t mind those pronouns, but I need you to stop using them just because you think that was my AGAB.

Even subconsciously in the way I write; Do you assume I’m an AMAB or AFAB? Did you start subconsciously thinking about it from the moment you started reading this?

And it’s even uncomfortable to vent. I hope you can’t assume my AGAB from the way I write. I don’t want to be thought of as some girl/boy bitching around a topic they only picked up because it was “trendy”.