maybe I'm being unnecessarily upset about this but can we PLEASE stop saying "oh, i feel bad for your husband!" when a woman says she had breast reduction surgery? I know it's just a ✨harmless joke✨ but you're just further pressing the stigma that women's bodies exist exclusively to please men. Plus ffs if someone has enough trouble with smthn that they have SURGERY for it, it's probably a big deal that impacted their lives negatively!!


















