We're not human after all!

shout out to aroaces.

shout out to aces who hate the idea of sex.

shout out to aces who dont mind sex.

shout out to aces who enjoy sex.

shout out to aces who make dirty jokes and have a dirty mind.

shout out to aces who aren’t aromantic.

shout out to grayaces.

shout out to demisexuals.

shout out to aros who still feel sexual attraction.

shout out to aros who hate romance.

shout out to aros who dont mind romance.

shout out to aros who like romance.

shout out to aros who still want romantic relationships.

shout out to grayromantics.

shout out to demiromantics.

shout out to aroflux people.

shout out to aceflux people.

shout out to a(ro/ce)spec folks who dont know their place on the spectrum.

shout out to to aspec folks who dont have a label for their feelings.

shout out to aspec folks who dont want a label.

shout out to neurodivergent aspecs.

shout out to disabled aspecs.

shout out to POC aspecs.

shout out to trans and gnc aspecs.

shout out to aces who are heteroromantic.

shout out to aros who are heterosexual.

shout out to aspecs who dont feel like they belong.

shout out to aces with a high sex drive.

shout out to aros who are still hopeless romantics.

shout out to aspecs who ever felt broken, wrong, alone or lost.

shout out to aspecs who’ve faced a(ce/ro)phobia.

shout out to aspecs who feel shunned by both communities.

shout out to aspecs who’re afraid to identify as lgbtq+.

shout out to young aspecs.

shout out to old aspecs.

shout out to aspecs who realized early.

shout out to aspecs who realized later.

shout out to who are questioning.

shout out to aspecs who feel like their childhood dreams were shattered.

shout out to with internalized aphobia.

shout out to aros and aces. we’re so brave and not only valid, but valuable. no one else breaks down love and attraction like us. we get hate from both sides, we get very little or innaccurate representation, we get shoved into the same box even when being ace vs aro is actually really different. we are so strong. there is nothing wrong with you, i promise. <3

feel free to reblog with any additions to this list.

You are 100% welcome in this community. You do not stop being aspec during the times when you experience attraction, even if you are an aro experiencing romantic attraction or an ace experiencing sexual attraction. You remain aspec for as long as you identify that way.

This is especially for those of you whose attraction is hetero(sexual/romantic/alterous/etc). You are not in any way less worthy of a place in this community than somebody who is attracted to people of the same/all genders. You are just as allowed to talk about your own attraction as they are theirs. You do not deserve to be made to feel bad about it.

You are 100% welcome in this community. You do not stop being aspec during the times when you experience attraction, even if you are an aro experiencing romantic attraction or an ace experiencing sexual attraction. You remain aspec for as long as you identify that way.

This is especially for those of you whose attraction is hetero(sexual/romantic/alterous/etc). You are not in any way less worthy of a place in this community than somebody who is attracted to people of the same/all genders. You are just as allowed to talk about your own attraction as they are theirs. You do not deserve to be made to feel bad about it.

so i made a nonhuman flag!! each color has meanings + you can use it for icons and stuff, just be sure to credit us!

meanings -

blue: self acceptance | water life, merfolk, deities, etc.

green: nature | fae, stayrs, animals, etc.

purple: reality | eldritch, horror, elementals, etc.

yellow: light | angels, spirits, artificial [ such as AI ], etc.

red: love | demonic, abstract, characters [ nonhuman characters! ], etc.