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Hi. Maybe try to ask him how he feels about thus relationship between you both. Ask him if he still truly loves you. Try not to overthink too much. Maybe he was really busy with work or study so he don't get to talk to you a lot? But then I do have an advice. If he found another girl or isn't in love with you anymore. I know you may be really sad but maybe God has a better man for you thats why he let him went to a new path with someone new. A man who truly love you with all his heart will never love another woman. Trust me I know. A man will find his ways to free his time just to talk to you you know even if he just gets to talk for 30 minutes a day even if he is busy. I hope this helps you. Good luck in your ldr.-Eileen

Hi, I have never experienced the feeling of my boyfriend left after visiting me but I'll still try my best to give you the advice you need. Well think of it rationally, you both doesn't live so far away not like other ldr couples do which are like more than 6000 miles away which transportation will be really expensive. I know you will tend to miss him but its just a month and time pass by really fast. Don't keep feeling sad or emotional cause making this ldr emotional might just ruined the relationship. In that one month, do anything you need to do. Keep yourself busy. If you're a student then just study a lot. Go out with friends. Just anything. No matter how far he will be from you but he will always be in your heart. Good luck in your ldr. I hope this helps.-Eileen

Hi, there is no wrong with being comfortable enough with each other. My boyfriend and I are really comfortable with each other as time passed. Well do you guys have common interest? Maybe you can talk about your common interest or having deep talk. Or you can tell him whats going on with your day today, what did you do or you can ask him the same about what he did today and stuff like that. Have you ask him about his hobbies and stuff? And maybe from there you guys can choose a topic to talk about. My boyfriend and I we just go with the flow. We talk about our favourite stuffs, our day, making stupid jokes, deep talk sometimes. It depends. Sometimes we have our awkward silence too and just smile when we look at each other. There's just a warm fuzzy feeling. I hope this helps you. Good luck in your ldr and don't worry too much or don't think too much!-Eileen

Heyya!! I'm grateful that my advice helps you out and you're mostly welcome!! :DDD-Eileen

Hi. Will he be far away from you? If not, maybe you could both of you could find a suitable free time to visit each other. In a ldr, communication and trust is really important. I know he might be really busy or if you do. Just let each other know that you can't talk to them because you you're busy and stated why so they know and understand. If you guys got into a fight, its better to settle it calmly through voice call or video call. Don't completely ignored each other, it'll just make the fight even worse. If you can everyday Skype then do it cause its better to talk to them face to face. Don't worry too much about your partner cheat on you. Don't always be so sad or emotional when you both talk. Be happy and lively, makes stupid jokes and laugh you know. My boyfriend and I did that so we feel that as if we live close to each other and it worked. Don't expect anything too much. I hope this helps you. Good luck in your new ldr! (Btw this is also my first time of ldr and my boyfriend is also my first boyfriend, so yeah)-Eileen

Hey, don't worry too much. I believe if he truly loves you deep in his heart, he won't find another girl even if it took years and years to be with you till you both are able to get married. Trust me cause I know. If he cheats on you or find another girl, that means he doesn't truly love you. Why waste your time holding onto someone who doesn't truly love you. And I believe if he found another girl, God has a better man who suits you. I hope this helps you. Good luck in life and your relationship.-Eileen

Hi! Well my boyfriend and I are further away from you nore than 6000 miles. My boyfriend told me that we should keep our conversation lively and happy so we can feel like we're closer to each other you know. Yeah, sp just keep the conversation happy and lively! I hope this helps you. Good luck!!-Eileen

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Hi Racheal! Well, thing is I never met my boyfriend before and its been almost 3 years. Its really hard I know and you'll tend to miss them a lot. Communication is really important in ldr and trust for your partner too! If both of you can talk everyday through Skype then do it because talking face to face or through voice is much better but if you can't, texting each other is also okay. If both of you had got into a fight, its better to discuss it through voice call or Skype rather than texting (itd just the way my boyfriend and I do) it'll be much better. I know you might be sad because you miss him so much but try not to be too sad every time because then your conversation will be really emotional. Keep each other happy, support each other. We may be far away but he'll always be in your heart remember that. I hope this helps you and good luck in your relationship.-Eileen

Hi. Just tell her don't worry. Im not sure how a college life is as I've haven't been there before but I bet you'll be quite busy in college life. Even right now my high school life have been really busy sometimes. This is how me and my boyfriend does. If either one of us know will be extremely busy the whole day and couldn't able to talk to each other, we'll tell them we're really busy and stated why. [Ex. I can't talk to you today cause I'm really busy. I have a lot of study to do.] But even tho if you are busy, if you can talk to them for at least half an hour is also fine. Cause I did that too. But tell your girlfriend it is okay not to talk for a day or two because you are busy. I believe she will understand. You're Studying really hard for both of you future you know. So I hope this helps you!! Good luck, stay strong in your relationship and do study hard when you're in college!-Eileen

Hi. Well one of you have to put ypur ego aside if you really want this relationship to work. My boyfriend and I do have fights but we never like ignored each other. We would either text or voice call or Skype and talk about that particular problem, apologies and always tell each other you love them. I hope this helps you!! Good luck in your relationship!!-Eileen