matchmaker series ep. 4: kihyun | the stray puppy 🐶
in this series, i will be playing matchmaker 💁♀️✨ i will be drawing from the natal chart and persona charts of other planets (notably moon and venus). my methods and analyses are my opinion only!
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client profile:
kihyun's natal venus in scorpio is conjunct his scorpio mercury and pisces moon. before even considering a romantic relationship, kihyun would like someone he gets along with on a personal basis. scorpio venus naturally is pretty guarded, but with all of these benefic aspects in kihyun's chart, as long as he sees you're a decent human being and won't offend him, he will like you just fine. his venus is also sextile uranus and neptune. he might like someone who's a little different from him. when he mentioned that on midnight idol, monbebes were joking saying that his ideal type is isfj (the opposite of entp) 🤣 honestly speaking, they might not be far off.
in the venus persona chart, the venus's venus is trine saturn. kihyun might like a traditional girl, someone who would look good to his family. the ruler of the chart, mercury, is in libra in the 2nd house. someone who takes care of themselves, their money, and has good manners would be attractive to him. mercury is also square the moon (capricorn). there is a need for structure and control, but mercury in libra prioritizes harmony and communicating in a way that's just and appropriate. he might like someone who is willing to hand him the reigns. it's difficult for him to say that he wants to wear the pants in the relationship, so he would like if his partner understands that and lets him be the gentleman that he wants to be.
the mars of the venus persona chart is in leo and square the sun and jupiter in scorpio. going off of what i said before, kihyun needs to feel like his partner thinks he's the Rizzness (tm) and the coolest man in the world and that they're insanely attracted to him- but that directly contrasts what he mainly wants - a deep, honest connection. if his partner fawns over him too much, he might feel like the relationship to too superficial. on the other hand, if he partner is simply a loyal companion who doesn't express their attraction, he wouldn't see a reason why they have to be lovers. he would probably like to have a good flirt to roast ratio with his partner, just to keep the fire going.
matchmaker's choice:
now looking into the moon persona chart, we see a t-square between chiron (virgo) and saturn (pisces), with pluto (scorpio) being the focal planet in the 1st house. chiron cannot heal the wounds of the moon because it's afraid of the hard truths that saturn brings. so then pluto comes in an basically forces transformation, because as long as it gets done, it doesn't matter what the process is, right? except it does. chiron and saturn want to heal step by step, and understand what they are doing and why they are doing it in order to find true peace. pluto does away with reason, and relies only on power. this results in an extremely volatile energy, which honestly, i felt when i did tarot readings for kihyun. he's suspicious of people who pry about his inner world, and was constantly kind of pushing me away. and he's not being mean, he's just trying to protect himself.
the missing leg of the t-square is in the moon's 7th house in taurus, which represents emotional connections with others. with the house being in the sign of taurus, he would greatly benefit from connections that help him take care of himself! people that can make him slow down, relax, and truly rest would be best for him. not only would that help build trust, but it would also help his chiron and saturn finally make some progress on healing those wounds the way they were supposed to be healed - with care and tenderness. if kihyun knows that there is someone he can rely on when it comes to his heart, he can finally take a breather and focus on himself, perhaps even ask for help or advice. no more forcing, no more pushing.
when recently asked who his ideal type was on epik high's the ahjussi games, kihyun said someone like his mother. as matchmaker, i 100% agree.
tldr; someone like his mother lol someone like a tree, who he can lean on and relax with, and occasionally ask for advice without fear of judgement or getting hurt. with a mother's warmth and wisdom.















