Tummy Girl🐷

When I discovered the feederism world, I was really young. Like 13 years old young. I was in the beginnings of an eating disorder, obsessed with exercise and fitting in with other 13 year old girls’ bodies. I found this community that worships curves and bellies and rolls and luscious bodies, and I was hooked. My body fit in somewhere, finally.

To this day, my weight fluctuates and I struggle with not falling back into restricted eating at times. It causes me to shy away from this community because my body no longer looks the way it used to or fits in with the “real BBWs”. I fed into the idea that some bodies were better than other bodies and I’m sorry that I didn’t see the errs of my thoughts sooner.

If you choose to lose weight, even when you were once a gainer, that is okay. If you choose to gain more weight, that is okay. If you choose to neither gain nor lose, that is okay. Yes, feederism/gaining is primarily about embracing and encouraging bodies that are adding pounds. But at the end of the day, it’s about just embracing bodies.

This community has its flaws, as do all communities, but it’s also a wonderful place. I met someone whom I love very much through this community and he has taught me that it isn’t about the number on the scale, whether you’re concerned with it being high or low, but it’s about how you feel and when you feel sexy. That gets blurred sometimes by the sexual component, I understand that and it’s something he and I have struggled with, but please remember: It is your body. You do not owe anyone anything.