In regards to gt servers being mostly 18+, many that I've been in that are all ages are incredibly spammy, sadly. Other issues have been immaturity, drama etc...
Many adults get icked out interacting with minors as well, it's not that anyone does anything wrong, it just does not feel appropriate. I get that as a teenager/preteen one might really want to connect with an older crowd, but many in the 21+ age range are just at a different life stage, and want a space to have more adult conversations/age appropriate connections. This doesn't even mean NSFW.
I think the best thing is to look for an age appropriate cluster. The best servers I'm a part of are all *small* — under 20 people — and all a similar age range. You get to make super close friends and a tighter knit community.
Honestly I've tried out a handful of servers and truly on have had 2 be enjoyable— both are small, not really super known about, and specific age ranges
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I definitely can agree and understand what they are talking about. As their have to be a branch and balance between it all. And that majority of G/T servers you would find. Are majority gonna be one's that are sfw but allow both minors and adults into the space in which again, sometimes is a bit awkward. ( Still love our younger G/T members) but need a space that is only Adult members. And majority of servers of this community as well are nsfw, and at times of kink and a space away from that was always needed. A sfw non-kink 18+(Age or older to join) discord server. Is what we try to achieve here at Sanctuary of the muffins. Uwu
