â°â⢠Yaps about my original characters. Also uses Tumblr like a personal diary (literally). Tag yapper.
â°â⢠No discourse. I'm okay with good faith discussion (I will probably struggle with it a bit following/understanding the conversation), but I don't have the patience for bad faith arguments.
â°â⢠Mentally disabled/cognitively impaired. I have a really hard time processing and struggle to understand anything too complex. Some of this is developmental and some of it is just straight brain damage. I don't care to fight my memory to figure out how much is which at this point. Thinking isn't supposed to feel like trying to squeeze your brain through a cheese grater or give you excruciating migraines and it took me way too long to figure that out.
â°â⢠Physically disabled. Kind of a sporadic mobility aid user. Currently dealing with gout and the subsequent damage in my hip, an unidentified cortisol metabolism disorder, spinal stenosis (spinal epidural lipomatosis), Hashimoto's, chronic muscle spasming, and persistent ankle pain and weakness (this appears to have been related to 20+ years of incorrect gait caused by a since removed bone tumor, but it's a little too soon to tell). My doctor's favorite medical anomaly.
â°â⢠Neurodivergent. AuDHD. Consider myself schizospec. DID/OSDD/System (I don't think the distinction is actually important).
â°â⢠Survivor of CIMI, medical neglect, and childhood abuse/neglect. Love the smell of trauma in the morning. Also have a lot of OCD going on, but it's fiiiine.
â°â⢠Experiences stress induced psychosis. I typically deal with mundane hallucinations regularly. There's a pretty easy to follow escalation I've gotten use to noticing.
â°â⢠I have been anti-psych since a psychiatrist basically watched me die on the medication he prescribed and told me it was normal. I lived bitch and I survive always with a good dose of spite. ŕ´Śŕľŕ´Śŕ´ż(Ëľ â˘Ě á´ - Ëľ ) â§
This is an oversimplification of how I found myself here at least, not my full view. Tired of living in a society that thinks coercive treatment is okay.
â°â⢠Idgaf about pro/anti arguments in fandom or the system community. Do not ask me about it.
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i think we should be ridiculing them more for this. you don't get to try and go all "queer website" when your staff likes to go on nuking sprees targeting the trans fem users
how does your oc feel about PDA? is there a difference in how they feel about different kinds of public affection (hugs, kisses, hand holding etc) or is it all the same to them? do they feel differently about others doing it vs doing it themselves? do they feel differently about romantic and platonic displays of affection?
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Iâm sorry my lovelies but the reason you hate yourself is because you treat you like shit. If you came up to me and then told me I was a fuck up who could never do anything right I'd fucking hate you too.
if you didn't let me go to bed until after midnight because you'd rather watch Netflix than let me rest, and then got mad at me for not being productive the next day I'd be PISSED
Love is a verb! Self love isnât a warm fuzzy feeling, it is compassion and action in support of yourself!
And yes, this includes having compassion for the bully in your head. Unfortunately that part is also you and deserves as much of your understanding as the rest of you.
This is the real reason why you need to be kind to the bully in your brain too, because that motherfucker is really good at doing a switcheroo when you're not paying attention.
you have to love trans women more than you hate transmisogyny, you have to love jews more than you hate antisemitism, you have to love Black people more than you hate white supremacy, you have to love Indigenous people more than you hate colonialism, you have to love the disabled and mentally ill more than you hate ableism, you have to love. you have to love.
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listen to me, this is so so important: you've gotta get used to really giving it your 60% as a default. like don't half-ass it necessarily but try not to go over 70% or so of an ass. you'll feel better and live a happier more fulfilled life, and on the rare occasions where you do need to lock the fuck in you'll be able to pull off bullshit that the sad miserable wretches giving it their 100% can never dream of, because they're busy draining themselves dry and you have energy reserves to spare.
dear fellow autistic people: if you consistently come out of doctorâs appointments feeling emotionally (and sometimes physically) hurt, but you feel bad for feeling hurt because âthe doctors were being niceâ, the doctors were not being nice.
this is something I had to learn the hard way. doctors often dress up their words all pretty so you canât sue them. I, for a long time, mistook this as genuine kindness. Itâs not. Itâs just being professional. even if they didnât call you a slur or anything that doesnât mean they werenât ignoring your needs.
trust what your body and emotions tell you. if you are feeling hurt, there is a reason, and you need to listen to it. please listen to it.
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i think it's beautiful that cats eat you if you die in your apartment and nobody finds you for a while. i don't know why it's used as anti-kitty cat propaganda as if eating you means they don't love u. if i died and no one found me for a while i would want my kitty cat to eat me bc i love her so much and i don't want her to starve. it's not her fault i'm too dead to give her her fancy feasts. she's going thru something scary ok. i don't know a single cat owner who doesn't feel the same way
Which of these is your Blorboâs worst nightmare?
Reliving the past
Failing to save the one they love
Becoming the monster
Trapped with no way out
Being misunderstood
Dying alone
Forced to do terrible things they want no part in
Getting abandoned and left behind
Drowning in shame and guilt
Haunted by the ones theyâve hurt
Trying their best and still not being good enough
Losing power and control
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How does your Blorbo react to pain? If more than one option apply to your Blorbo, vote the one that suits them most
Goes completely silent
Gets mean/snappy
Tries to joke through it
Genuinely confused (âwhy is this happening?â)
Seeks help / asks for help
Gets scared
Acts dramatic for sympathy and attention
Insists on being fine, even though theyâre not fine
Becomes defensive and dangerous
Tries to ignore it
Tries to hide it
Forces their body to keep going despite the pain
Remaining time: 4 days 21 hours
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i agree so much about making your blorbos pathetic but i do fear that many take this to mean 'make them more traditionally feminine/submissive' which genuinely hurts my soul. make your blorbos pathetic in interesting character-oriented ways. understand their neuroses and turn the dials up to eleven. juxtapose the parts of life they handle extremely well with the parts of their lives that make them eat shit. make them angry. make them cold. make them pave their own way to hell while building walls preventing them from seeing any other way. please i'm begging you no more pathetic as an euphemism for bottoming im gonna mclose it.
