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if youāre a gore blog I block you. no shame, just donāt appreciate my surgery results being looked at that way

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nvm day 9 post op is spent going back and forth from the toilet
oh my god I just crapped for the first time in 9 days
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tbh the real advice Iād give to anyone is, do shit alone. go to a museum & go at your own pace & leave the instant youāre done. go somewhere youāve never been and just wander around, duck into & out of places as it pleases you. linger as long as youād like.

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Hey uhhhhhh hot take but donāt automatically refer adult transmen as āboysā when you call their cis counterpart āmenā (unless that transman you are refering to is absolutely okay with you calling them boy).
Itās really infantilizing.
Same thing with transwomen. Donāt automatically call them āgirlsā because theyāre trans, but refer to all cis adults as āwomenā (again, unless theyāre explicitly okay with it)
Iām about to be 29.. in no way, shape or form am I a boy. I am a man.
itās a lot harder to blog excitedly about having had top surgery when itās your third one lol
and itās kind of hard to be excited for the reveal. Itās on Saturday and Iāve already had two super disappointing top surgery reveals so Iām afraid
am chillin in the tight af post op binder

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honestly like. the sheer lack of resources available to lgbt young people about abusive relationships is killing us and abuse educators need to wake the fuck up and start providing specific, targeted resources for people in gay relationships.
i mean, iāve had friends who are struggling in dysfunctional relationships say things to me like,Ā āi donāt understand why we canāt figure out how to communicate, like, weāre both womenā and iāve had friends who are trapped in actively abusive relationships but are unable to think of their experiences as abuse because virtually all the literature on abuse is about the specific ways in which men threaten and terrorize women.Ā
i think because so many of us go through childhoods and early heterosexual relationships that are so traumatizing and lonely, itās easy to believe that gay love is this kind of healing panacea, somehow inherently more pure and stable than straight love. and like. while unquestionably the vast majority of domestic abuse is carried out by men against women, gay relationships are not magic. they are made up of flawed people, and they can become dysfunctional, and people can be vulnerable to abuse within them. and we need to stop pretending otherwise and start figuring out how to protect each other.
āYour chromosomes will always be XX,/XYā
1. Like we donāt know that.
2. Unless youāre carrying around a chromosome testing kit, ur not gonna know that for any passing trans person unless they tell you.
Transition is not perfect. We fucking know this since weāre dysphoric and not idiots.
way too many people say āgender is fluidā when they mean to say āpeople are allowed to dress and act outside of their prescribed sex rolesā
I just had my third and Iām pretty sure final top surgery with Dr Kenneth Wolf in Detroit, Michigan
(**the first two surgeries were NOT performed by Dr Wolf.)
e was so kind, from the discounted price of $2000 USD to the personal delivery of my pain meds to my hotel room when he forgot to send them with me. He patted me on the back, put his arm around my shoulders and told me, āweāll get it done right this time.ā
two updates: iāll be 4 years on testosterone on the 31st and iām going to be having the second revision to my top surgery done by a real professional this time around
long story short, iām unsatisfied with my results to the point that i donāt believe any surgeon [in Alberta, as itād be covered as long as the surgeon is here + long wait list] could fix it/do a good enough job. iāve looked through possible surgeons here in canada who could do it, but the most attractive option iāve seen is dr. wolf in detroit, michigan.
luckily, my quote with dr. wolf is $2000 USD. iād also be paying the cost off flying out there, medications (i think?), and the stay at a hotel, though luckily again my parents are willing to cover a portion of the cost.
updates & pics on the 31st [i think]

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Just coming on here to update you guys, let you know that I had my second top surgery revision scheduled for July 5th. I was called and told that itās been postponed because one of the pieces of machinery theyāll be using is unavailable, as in there are none in the province right now and they donāt know when one will be available. Lol.Ā
Itās alright though. I feel much better about it than I would if this had happened either of the last two surgeries, presumably because Iām so happy with the functionality side of my chest. By that, I mean that Iām happy with it when I have a shirt on. Itās flat enough, which is what I mean byĀ āfunctionā, but I figure one more surgery and itāll be just about nice enough to feel normal without a shirt on.
As of now, I still have two large dents in both sides of my chest. The coming surgery, they will be taking fat from the belly area and grafting it into the dents. My biggest worry is that my belly will end up looking very alien and I wonāt be able to get used to it, as Iām already very insecure about that area.
ānot all trans guys want to be calledĀ heĀ and you should probably just askā no you shouldnāt.Ā donāt do this. do not do this. i swear to god if you ask me whatĀ āmy pronounsā are i will literally just drop dead on the fuckign spot