VALUE 101; HOW TO BE VALUABLE & VALUED
"Teach them our ways so they do not suffer the shame of being useless." [Tonowari, Avatar the way of the water]
The quote above so easily encompasses the core point of being valuable - usability. Value is the quality of being useful and hence- wanted & so 'you're valuable' very easily means you're wanted & important, based on how useful you are to the person/ organization so the more useful you are the more valuable you are. It's, as easy and as complicated as that. To be valuable, be useful.
There are two components to being valuable a) competence and b) reception [quick check who remembers what else is made of this]
Competence as a quality of value is the simple act of being useful, in a way that can be banked on. Basically being good at what youre needed for. The more competent you are the more valuable you are, hence a way to constantly continously increase your value is to constantly and continuously increase your competence by increasing your usefulness which is , hopefully obviously, by increasing your skill, knowledge and experience. The more competent you are the more valuable you are, easy peas.
As stated above your value is dependent on what you're needed for. A singer in a room full of doctors isn't valuable, not because they lack skill or competence, but because you're not useful to the receptors. Michaelangelo to a room full of scientists isn't as valuable as he would be in an art school. Classic ugly duckling situation- sometimes it's not that you're bad at it, it's that there are no receptors to what you're offering. You wouldn't think a surgeon useless but some cult would. You wouldn't think marriage unwanted but try a monastery. As important as competence is, reception is the key holder- if it has no audience it's as good as non-existent. Whats the physics thing with a cat- that matter only exists when it can be observed? Exactly.
Heres a quick tip- this is the exact formula to excellence. The more excellent you are, the more valuable you are.
To increase your value you need two questions;
What is needed in this environment/ group/ situation?
How can I be that, and be good at it.
a high value woman is a woman that owns/ has both competence and reception in the field they hope to penetrate- whether dating or education or work or spirituality or- whichever.
The queens, the IT girls, the Robert Greene girles know the ideal level of value is dependency. When the system is so dependent on you that YOU are the brand, that it can not operate without you. Almost like Kris Jenner to the Kardashian Jenners. Like Elon Musk is to Tesla, like there really is no Meta without Zucky.
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