Trans men that identify with having been raised as girls aren't your enemy. Just bc I was raised as the eldest daughter/2nd mother of my family & that changed how I view the world, doesn't mean u have to identify with having been a boy or girl or whatever growing up. We are our own people. I as a gay trans man could be seen as at odds with trans men that are lesbians, but they're not my enemy. We're homies. They don't contradict my identity as a gay man bc we're all our own ppl with our own experiences. If another trans/nb person has an identity or experience that u don't like that's not on them. It's on u & all the dumbass transphobes you're trying to please. Fitting trans ppl into neat little categories won't please transphobes, they do not want us to exist. Any of us. Regardless of how neat & presentable ur identity is. They don't give a fuck if your life story lines up with mine. They are your enemy, not me
