#xelm

flag id: a flag with 6 stripes, which are dark indigo, blue, light turquoise, bright yellow, medium dark blue-grey, and dark purple-grey. end id.

banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.

zobic: being both xelm (xenoic-loving-men) and xel0 (xenoic-loving-none); a xenoic person who is attracted to men in a distinctly aspec/loveless/etc. way, making them feel both xelm and xel0

[pt: zobic: being both xelm (xenoic-loving-men) and xel0 (xenoic-loving-none); a xenoic person who is attracted to men in a distinctly aspec/loveless/etc. way, making them feel both xelm and xel0. end pt]

for anon! this is a combination of zoric/amberic/xenilian and obic.

'xenoic' is an overarching term for xenogender, xenine, xenic, and other xeno-adjacent identities! using it because glg terms go back and forth between using xenogender or xenic depending on coiner and i want to ensure this term includes both.

tags: @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @macchiane, @genderstarbucks, @maggore, @dragonpride17, @orientation-archive

a juvelic orientation for xenic men attracted to men!

named after spertiniite, following the mineral naming scheme of chrysocollian and chrysoprasian-- chrysocolla is potentially made from a combination of calcedony (of which chrysoprase is a variant of) and spertiniite, so i thought it fitting.

Sorry if this is confusing lmao I’m just xenogender and tired of seeing only xenic GLG terms

PS: I’ve always wanted to ask you this so um why is your username ‘crew’? Because I’m pretty sure you’re the only mod of this blog

Hi anon! This isn’t confusing don’t worry.

The reason the small chart is so ‘normal gender’ (anthrogender) focused was because it was created back in 2018 specifically to describe attraction between men, women, and nonbinary people in various combinations. It’s also the condensed version of a larger chart. You can see its creation post here.

So anyway here’s the chart with the new xenogender section:

Most of the terms were coined by @alley-catz but I had to coin 7 new ones so they're below the cut with flags.

wanted to make some xelg/glxe (xenogender loving gender/gender loving xenogender) flags since there wasnt any flags i could find! (sorry that the formatting is a bit . off)

amberic | sphaleric

tourmalic | selenic 

prasiolic | andaluian | heliodic 

amberic: xelm, xenogender loving men sphaleric: xelw, xenogender loving women tourmalic: xelnb, xenogender loving nonbinary selenic: xelxe, xenogender loving xenogender prasiolic: mlxe, man loving xenogender andaluian: wlxe, woman loving xenogender heliodic: nblxe, nonbinary loving xenogender

These are meant to be part of the juvelic system, or the glg system! (Examples: mlm, wlw, nblnb, etc.) Some Xenic people may consider themselves falling under just the nb umbrella, but for those who don’t, these terms are here! This is only the individual terms, I will be working on combinations (xelm and xelnb, nblxe and xelxe, etc etc.)

Amberic - Xelm, or xenogender-loving-men. Name comes from amber.

Sphaleric - Xelw, or xenogender-loving-women. Name comes from sphalerite.

Tourmalic - Xelnb, or xenogender-loving-nonbinary. Name comes from tourmaline.

Selenic - Xelxe, or xenogender-loving-xenogender. Name comes from selenite.

Prasiolic - Mlxe, or man-loving-xenogender. Name comes from prasiolite.

Andaluian - Wlxe, or woman-loving-xenogender. Name comes from andalusite.

chalcedonian: someone whose gender is xenogender + man who is attracted to men. a juvelic term for someone who is xelm and mlm.

for anon! this term is similar to chrysocollian, and chrysocolla is a variant of chalcedony, so i went looking for a good chalcedony variant for this term and ended up thinking chalcedony itself fit best!

flag id: a flag with 5 stripes. in order, they are light brown, soft brown, grey-blue, light grey-blue, and light blue. end id.

chrysoprasian: someone whose gender is xenogender + nonbinary + man who is attracted to xenine people, nonbinary people, and men. a juvelic term for someone who is xelxe, xeln, xelm, nlxe, nln, nlm, mlxe, mln, and mlm.

since this term is very close to chrysocollian, i went with chrysoprase for the gem, which is a variant of chalcedony (chrysocolla is a chalcedony variant mixed with spertiniite)! where chrysocolla is more blue, chrysoprase is greener, which i felt was appropriate considering that where chrysocollian only specifies attraction to men, chrysoprasian specifies attraction to men, xenine people, and nonbinary people.

flag id: a flag with 5 stripes. in order, they are light brown, dark brown, forest green, green, and light teal. end id.

i’ve decided to finally update my chrysocollian flag from a few years back - i’m proud of the term, but i wanted to modify the flag to reflect my improved flagmaking skills!