And actually, since Iām on a big Ascendance of a Bookworm kick right now, I also want to talk a bit about Wilfried.
I think it was @rozemynelovebot who relatively recently made a post discussing their very complicated feelings towards Wilfried? Hopefully Iām right. Anyways, it was a post that of which I really enjoyed reading, and I want to add onto that discussion, if just a bit.
I really like Wilfried as a character, because more than any other, he feels like an actual child to me. Children in this series have a tendency to show a lot of maturity, even at really young ages, and while I do think that is reflective of real life (children irl are WAAAAY smarter than most adults give them credit for. theyāre people too), I do think it goes a bit too far sometimes.
Ultimately thatās just my opinion, but it reflects my thoughts towards Wilfried. Heās impulsive, brash, naive, thick-headed, arrogant, and thinks he knows everything: which is exactly like many a teenager.
But thatās not all there is to him. Much like his father, Wilfried can be kind and thoughtful. Ultimately he wants to do good for the people around him, and he grows to understand the qualities of people that one should hold respect for. As the story progresses, he does grow and change, and itās so great to see.
And yetā¦heās so dumb. Heās a spoiled brat, who doesnāt understand anything about the real world. As far as I remember, he never comes to realize just how often heās so easily manipulated by the people around him. Heās blind to the harm he often causes, and unlike his father, he never shows that greater judgement youād want to see in someone whoās supposed to be a leader.
He makes decisions and says things without thinking, he forgets his place and orders around people he has no business ordering around, and he never truly understands either of his sisters.
Itās hard to blame him due to the damage Veronicaās obsessive love caused him growing up, especially since that damage is so difficult to see. But at the same time, much of his faults are, well, his fault.
How many times does he refuse to grow as a person? How many times does he accept when heās made a mistake? He almost never comes to these conclusions himself, he only ever evolves when given external pressure and expectations. Itās almost like he has little to none self reflection, and what self reflection he does show is, ironically, inherently selfish.
So I love Wilfried, just as much as I hate him. I want good things for him, but I know that, without some radical changes, he should never be a leader.