#whatkeepsmegoing

A friend while talking to me said, you're very strong. And it stuck with me.

But what does strength mean? Is it the same as complacency? Do we choose to be strong? Or the more we accept our fate and stop fighting with destiny we fool the world including ourselves. We create the illusion of being in control and not breaking down. When infact, we have been broken in so many ways that we don't know what it's like to be whole. Yet like a carcass held up by the wind we stand still. A scare crow for the spectators that we're still here. Albeit without any will, we remain present. So I don't know the genesis of this character and quality. Whether it means something or is just the mandatory prerequisite of living or surviving for that matter. Because like any skill it ultimately comes with practice. The more we repeatedly tell ourselves to endure, the more we give ourselves the illusion of being undefeated by circumstances. But when the curtain pulls up and the mirage fades and we catch up with reality.

It dawns on us. That we're a hoax. There is no strength while living. Just how good we are in hiding our weaknesses. The more we create this aura of being unscathed by time and life, the more it seems we have everything in control. When it is far away from the truth.

A mother

The best cook

Their protector

Their doctor

A shield

Their tour guide

A teacher

At first glance I felt complete

My girls my everthing

I push for greatness

What Kept Me Going (Blogging);

Writing (in any form through daily journals, online blogging, or noted through my phone) keeps me sane. Blogging has been part of my life for more than 8+ years now. I have been sharing all my what-nots, important events and people closest to my life here. It became a therapy for me, yes that beneficial for me, to share my thoughts here, rather than spoken words.

Little did I know that in this little wide world we all have, my safe haven have turned to touch few lives and good souls. I have hoped to hold on dreams full of positivity and faith; and, to live a life full of content, happiness, love and grace. And I wish to spread them all here and to everyone.

To you, my dear, who have been, in any way or another, have been part or have read even a bit of my life or post here, I hope I had at the very least, touched that positive side of you and have hopefully, inspired you. Keeping some of the words of positivity and inspiration I received from great writers and minds, too. I am humbled and even more inspired to keep that fire burning, share good vibes and keep my blog alive and updated.

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What matters is knowing

That what truly counts

Are not the big moments

It sits in my chest. The wound is where my heart should be. It bleeds into my lungs. Blood is where my breath should be. It creeps into the night. Whispering despair, where my dreams should be. Sleep escapes me. Just as my soul from my body. Or is it just layers of pain? One above the other. This hurt erodes me from the inside. But there's only one victim? And no perpetrator. They all sleep soundly. The murderer and accomplices. They wash off the crime scene. They brush off their hands. They silence the sirens. They use the back door and walk slowly in bed and sleep. Yet, I lay awake. With this disease feeding off my sanity. Here's the thing, no one stabbed me to death, or pinned me to the ground, I wasn't beheaded, eviscerated or shot through my head.

But I wish they had done that instead.

Instead of bearing me a witness to mental agony. The anguish that burns like a rain forest in mid summer. A fire that still leaves its ashes like a shadow lurking like a past mistake in December. As I carry this invisible weight of my corpse. I don't know why I must carry this lifeless carcass that somehow breathes but no longer lives. I have no clue. I don't know what I'm reflecting. Why am I here? Why are these words mine? Why does this pain have my face? Who abandoned it? Who asked it to leave its safe place and be in a constant search for a sanctuary?

Where is a safe haven for an existential crisis? Is there a fire extinguisher for what burns inside the heart at the hands of callous people who think they are justified in the pain they inflict?

Last night was an auction.

They wanted my happiness and joy. There were bids to buy my skin, my heart, my eyes. The chants were loud and my silence was interpreted as permission.

I let them take all they wanted.

But what I really wanted to give.

And that's how I knew

The soil that was burning away my roots

Was not my home

I needed to stay

Somewhere else

Even if for a night

To find back my dreams

In the way we become kinder (or choose to be)

How it matters more if what we enjoy is what we've earned for ourselves. How it's more wholesome if its devoid of superficial pleasantries. How we no longer need people to accept our flaws. How we become enough for our own validation.

There's a lesson in aging isn't it?

It's never always pretty and appealing and 'lit'. It may sometimes be ugly and hard and impossible.

But if its mention-able it is achievable.

And once we achieve that sense of self assurance. It no longer matters.

The world becomes what it truly is 'wordly'.