The thing about being weird and therefore having no friends is that people will blame it solely on you, claiming that "you don't make any efforts to socialize and are obviously not even interested in it" (even if it's not true and you do at least try to be sociable and friendly) meanwhile ignoring the fact you've spent you entire life being stared at, singled out, excluded, judged, mocked and pushed aside by your peers...
But when you inform them of said fact and the answer is that "you can't blame them, they treat you like that because you're weird and off-putting and anyone would do the same" as if you had any control over that
