#waterlilly

I'm glad you enjoyed my reading but, I feel like this is a mischaracterization of Yoongi and forcing heteronormative standards onto him. I also feel as though this specific set of thoughts is closer to fantasy than anything realistic.

It is true that Yoongi is becoming especially spiritual, but he still has a grasp on reality and is very present in his life. He puts a lot of importance on the people around him and experiencing this life as much as he can before he moves on to the next one.

I won't comment on twin flames as I feel that the term has been blown wildly out of proportion and has been flanderized so much so to the point that it has lost meaning and has become the new "soulmate". I think we have many soulmates, and encounter many, but there are some that have been with us longer through many other lives compared to others and that is what I think Water Lilly is to Yoongi. I think for the past few lives they have been with each other and will continue to do so until something changes.

I feel like the term true love erases the importance that love has for everyone. There is platonic, romantic, and familial love and true love feels like disrespect to those other forms of love and feels like it turns this into some sort of fantasy story which it is not. Yoongi is a lover, he loves a lot, he loves freely and loves deeply and I think he believes that love should be shared. The only reason why there is massive spiritual growth towards union is because that is what they agreed upon and what they both want. They could've taken it slow, agreed to meet in old age, or to only love each other spiritually, it's all their choice.

"it is also being said after some toxic relationship he became extremely closed off but now he is healing very well, and water Lily will be the only one who would be able to experience that deep intense and passionate true love of him, she will also be the only one he would ever love because past relationships just used him or just temporary lessons for yoongi"

This one is tough so we'll have to dissect it. What you may see as toxic might not truly be toxic. It might be that he thought someone was the one, but they went their separate ways because of too many differences and thus decided to focus on himself. I won't say he wasn't hurt because separation from one you love will always be painful, but it's not like he was hurt so badly he became recluse. It's normal for people to decide to focus on themselves after an intense break up so that they can be in the right mindset for the next relationship. The notion that Water Lilly will be the only one to experience the best of him is- it's just a falsehood. Like I said, Yoongi is a lover who believes that love is never wasted when it is shared. He is deeply caring to those who are around him. He would love his family, his team members, Water Lilly, and his friends equally as much because he loves hard. I feel like the notion of Water Lilly being the only one he would ever love is also incredibly unrealistic because he did truly love the other people he had relations with. I feel like it puts a lot of disrespect on and dehumanizes his other relationships as well as him. Yoongi is a very thoughtful person and would not be in a relationship or partner ship with anyone if he wasn't fully genuine in that connection. I won't comment on whether or not he was used but he was loved deeply and loved deeply. It is unfortunate that some things didn't work out for him, but it is also wrong to deduce the people he cared about to simple "lessons".

I don't think at this moment I would want to pry too deeply into what their married life would be like as I believe somethings should be private. I feel like that would be too much of an invasion on my part, mostly because I was not invited to see that already.

"there are lot of readers who also said she would turn his life upside down in a positive way and after meeting her, she the kids and the family will be his top priority and then comes his work, it's really amazing seeing yoongi healing like this and he definitely deserves that true passionate love and beautiful family life after all the pain and struggles he went through."

I feel like this also mischaracterization of Yoongi and Water Lilly as well. Life exists beyond that of just family, partner, and work. I do think that Water Lilly will expose Yoongi to a lot of new and amazing things and that will change his life for the better, but I don't think that is a uniquely Water Lilly trait as there has been many others to do the same for him. Secondly, this feels heteronormative because we don't really know what Yoongi sees for his life as far as kids and marriage. He may or may not want that for his life, and we have no idea which and I feel like we should leave space for that. Same as how I prefer to refer to Fs's as "they/them" because it is gender neutral which gives space for more accurate info to come in. When you go into a reading you must release all biases because the only information you will get will be filtered through said bias- which is what's happening to Bluebell just as an example. If I were to believe all of the seven members wants kids, I will only see kids in their reading even if one of them would rather parent a pet instead.

Yoongi is someone who loves many and loves many things, music will alway be his life, it is a part of him that cannot be removed. If he were to get married and have kids, he would bring them into his world rather than have them separate. He would be teaching his potential kids music theory and playing with toy instruments because that is another one of his loves and a huge part of his life.

are you just a creature of dreams?

or more than you seem

upon the surface,

a weaver,

of gossamer threads

that skein My thoughts

and tie My tongue?

I hunger for words.

They make love to Me,

amorous syllables

to be flung at passersby

and roll in the dirt.

at best unheeded,

at worst, despised.

I'll watch and wait,

cautiously mate

words with yours

and see what happens.

a little rhyme

add some metre

just a dash of uncommon bending the rules

to shock the naysayers.

Welcome to scribblers hell.

AMY KAHN RUSSELL Brons/S/Zilver/Turquoise Waterlily Manchet